2006-09-26 17:42:49 · 26 answers · asked by a flower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would pray and ask God to show me the path I must follow and then start a new life.
You gotta be strong and accept that a chapter of your life is over and you must carry on. Of course if you loved that person very much you will need time to heal and maybe you will have scars but eventually you will see the big picture and that everything happens for a reason.
Good Luck!
2006-09-30 12:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by alex_josue 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been through this one. Twelve years of marriage. Things not getting better, in fact getting worse. Money suffering. Health suffering. Sometimes the only answer is to get out. I'ts been ten years since the divorce. The first year was hell. The second got better. I went back to school, got a degree, moved with my son to different city. I rebuilt my life. My son turned out okay, and he even told me he decided to pursue his dream in college because he saw me doing what I was doing. Children never really get over their parents splitting, but sometimes what they gain can outweigh the pain.
2006-09-27 00:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rose of the Valley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried everything including going to marriage counseling, then there is nothing left to do but file for a divorce. I wish there was something else to do to save your marriage but if you've done everything, there isn't.
2006-09-27 00:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by ajsad36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With God, all things are possible, in His Word, He gives us the best advice ever on marriage- The Bible is our guidebook to life! I hope this helps:
1st of all, you got to get your unconditional love, from God- no husband or wife can fulfill all your needs, because we all sin and are imperfect. That's why God died to pay for our sin, so we can be given His righteousness and love, so that then we can give that to others regardless of what they do, even if they do it over and over...because eventually, they will see that you continually are there for them, and that will get them to want to love and give back.
Please read 1Corinthians 13 in the Bible, even look it up online- that describes what Love truly is...these days people have changed the meaning, and look at the divorce rate skyrocket!
God Bless you, I hope this helps! My parents got divorced, and believe me, God wants to help you work it out, and save you from a ton of heartache!
2006-09-27 01:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Shanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this discovery/information be made after counseling with both parties? You don't explain how you arrived at your conclusion that nothing can be done.
Alot depends on your circumstances, ability to afford good legal representation, or you may want to explore a pre-negotiated settlement thru mediation.
2006-09-27 00:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by missourim43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut off and just live life without that part of it? Not like a freak, but like a sad person who just pretends it's alright for a while.
Seriously, it would shock me and take some time to adjust. I couldn't just walk away, no matter what my instinct is.
2006-09-27 00:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you would have to end it and move on. if it is over it is over but make sure you have done everything to save it. go to counceling and talk to friends, and make sure you ahve done everything because you want to say that you ended it knowing that it was definitly over ad not fixable or able to save.
there is nothing wrong if you have a failed marriage, no one is perfect, why stick with it and be miserible. move on and be happy............good luck.
2006-09-27 00:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depens on the sutuation, because those vowels SAY: BETTER OR WORSE, SICKNESS & HEALTH, UNTIL DEATH DO US PART (REMEMBER) Now if he's cheating then that's different, what do you feel though, is it worth saving or trying to save?
2006-09-27 00:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go on with my life and learn from this experience.
I would put the disappointments and the sadness behind me. This is called gaining wisdom.
2006-09-28 01:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by no nickname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Taruf rog ho jaye to usko bhulana behtar
taluk boz ban jaye to use todna achha
Chalo ekbar firse ajanabi ban jaaye hum dono..
Vo afasana jise anjam par lana naho mumkin
--- use ek khubsurat mode dekar chhodana achha
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If friendship become sick better forget it
if relationship becomes burden better leave it
Let us be strangers once again
we better give the story a handsome diversion
if it is not possible to bring it to decent ending.
(Famous Urdu poet Sahir Ludhianvi)
2006-09-27 01:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋