i decided to stay with him, but i feel so indifferent to him. i find myself starting to not think about what happened, then, like a slap in the face, i remember and feel angry....confused....hurt and i feel like i need to validate myself to the opposite sex. not have sex, but i need to know i'm attractive i guess. i'm so hurt by what he did. i don't trust him. we have three kids.
2006-09-26 19:43:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he actually offered to send one of them money! i luckily found out in time before any of this transpired,but, nevertheless, i'm feeling deflated when it comes to him/us.
2006-09-26 19:58:06 · update #1
All ur feelings are justified and understandable.. and having ur ego "stroked" isnt cheating.. everyone loves it when they go somewhere and a guy is obviously checking them out.. we arent cheating but we eat up the attention.. I think u need to gain control back of your heart and life.. and i think u need to feel more confident in yourself.. i say u go spend the money he was going to send to miss thing on yourself.. i say go buy some sexy panties and bra's (always makes a woman feel more sexy even if she's the only one that knows she's wearing them) go buy a new out fit or 2 to make u feel more confident.. go get ur hair done , ur nails done, perhaps go to the tanning bed .. whatever it takes to make you feel better about you.. the more confident u feel in yourself the more others around u will take notice.. INCLUDING your husband.. but dont depend on him to make u feel confident in yourself.. cause he's an idiot and it wont mean as much to u as if u go and feel more confident about urself first and them him being wowed or taking notice in the change in u... and hun when women feel confident they can take on the world and all its problems.. when we are at peace with ourselves.. we are stronger then any man out there.. so get strong, do for u.. get the confidence u need to whip that man back into shape and make him realize what he almost gave up..
2006-09-26 21:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need counseling, speaking from experience, your husband is probably suffering from feelings of inadequicies of his own thus prompting him to seek approval from other women, starting a vicious cycle between the 2 of you. You have already taken the first step by admitting that there is a problem. Talk to a counselor, clergyman, or even your family doctor ( you could both be suffering from depression) If your husband wont go with you go by yourself but do something before this escalates and affects your children if it already hasnt. Best of luck to you both.
2006-09-26 19:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that though u have three kids,he is not satisfied with the sexual relation with u...
take some pills to avoid pregnancy and convince him to have sex with u.he is searching another source but before u loose him u do this
2006-09-26 20:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Angelina 27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dont break your marriage for the sake of your kids. instead when your kids sleep, take him to another bedroom and start kissing him. then ask him to take out his clothes if he doesn't you take it out for him. then pull out your bra and disclose your breast then start licking his pennis and ask him to do the same on your vagina. you then be total naked have sex with him and see sex sites together, then you will trust him and he will trust you.
2006-09-26 19:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by sushant b 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
service your husband to the hilt. then your husband will be ok. you are jeolous
2006-09-26 21:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by gunetilake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a dirty, rotten, egg sucking PIG and should be punished...
2006-09-26 19:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him ..he will not change. They never do. (talking from experience)
2006-09-26 21:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by pure_24kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.
2006-09-26 19:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by tj 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋