Is it wrong to want to have sex with other women when you are married if there are no strings attached.?

Answer 1

Yes Dude! Adultery is Adultery. Thou shall not Covet thy neighbors wife.

Answer 2

Is it wrong to want to? I think it is wired in, however if the thought is focused on then it grows. Is adultry wrong? it depends on what you want in life, adultry leads to lack of ability to connect withyour spouse, emotional distance, lack of trust, growth of lust and a host of other maladies that destroy the family. It is difficult to step above and rise above those thought, but it is possible and will, if you so choose, give you the ability as you become more skilled at loving your wife, the ability to resist the temptation and you will have a higher functioning life... the idea that you want no strings attached is a falacy for there are always consequences, you have the ability to make choices, but not the ability to choose the consequences of the choices you make.

Answer 3

Yes it's very wrong! why even ask such question. Why get marry if you can't commit? Marriage become meaningless if you have sex with more than one part. I am sure you would not appreciate your wife having sex with other men besides you. If you are having sex with others you outta really re-evaluated your marriage. Maybe you are better off being single. This way you can have sex w/ whoever you wish.

Answer 4

If you have to ask the question in a public forum/message board, you already know it's wrong. IF you're looking for validation to have sex with other women while you are married, you aren't likely to receive it here.
Would your wife know that you are having "no strings" sex with other women?

Answer 5

Well we all know that sex out of marriage is bad. But have we ever really thought about it.. i don't think so... what i mean to say is that as long as the husband is caring, loving and is providing support to the family...a fling here or there (without his wife knowing) is ok... Some say that one should tell his wife if he has some plans to have sex outside...come on guys and girls..i would never break any girl's heart by telling her that "honey i'm going out to screw someone"..Never, would i ever break my partner's heart like that...would u?

Answer 6

If you don't mind going to hell and possibly losing your wife then no you are on the right track. It sounds like you already are doing it. If not then maybe this is something that you might want to involve your wife in with you. That way you can get some your wife can try something new and no one is mad, even thou that is still adultery and you still will probably go to hell for it. But your wife won't be mad and leave you.

Answer 7

I think this all sounds good in theory. But lets face it women get to attatched to men. They usually fall in love. And most times whether they say it or not they will be hurt if the feelings are not returned and eventually want you for themselves. And it's never a good thing to play with someones heart like a yo-yo.

Answer 8

Yes it is wrong and perhaps you should try to think about why you feel that way. Is there something missing in your relationship (marriage)? Think about it and talk to your wife. Maybe the two of you can try different things together and maybe you won't feel that way. Communication is the key.

Answer 9

Of course it's wrong. Strings or not, you went before GOD and promiced to love only your wife, forsaking all others. Think it's wrong to lie to GOD... because that's what you are doing.

Answer 10

YES! it's another form of cheating no matter how good your motive is!....stay faithful in your marriage. You've made your vows so keep it up or else karma brings back harder...sometimes harder than death!