I just want to know is it disrespectfull. Do you do it or know anyone who does it?
2006-09-26 18:28:38 · 34 answers · asked by sweetlee725 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
of course not....! yes I do...
2006-09-26 18:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think yes. because when you get married you put in your mind that you are not free as you were before marriage.& also you know that you decided to share & continue your life with this person so a new rules & commitments control your behavior & your spouse deserve to take all your flirting. Again YES.
2006-09-26 19:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Elegy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I both flirt with others. Nothing drastic, just little comments. We both know we love each other and don't want anyone else, but sometimes you just want to have a little fun. We've been together for 13 years. As long as we both know, and we aren't disrespectful with it or take it too far, what's the harm?
2006-09-26 18:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jen B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong specially for a women to do it, It makes you look really loose. Another thing if your husband was flirting with a very attractive women how would you really feel not that surface feel but deep down. Treat others like you want to be treated, specially if you love them.
2006-09-26 19:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i for one think its disrespectful...not to mention it gets the mind thinking....checking a person out is one thing...but being a flirt is another....that makes you look bad....yeah you may not be doing anything else but flirting but others wont believe that i dont believe that just from what you wrote...BIG FLIRT.....plus how do you think it makes your spouse feel...one they have thoughts in their head....but two they may be thinking well what does that person have that i dont..am i just not good enough.....what could i do better...those sort of things pop in the mind ......your married your suppose to have the person you love by your side.....the one and only person for you in life....why is there any need to flirt....maybe in the back of your mind your not fully happy...maybe your missing something..or you just find a thrill in leading others on only knowing that your going to drop them in the end cause it doesn't go any further then flirting....who knows i think you have questions to ask you self..and just hope your spouse isn't thinking the worst......
2006-09-26 18:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by sgtrlopez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS wrong. Flirting sends signals to the recipient that you are interested in them. Should a married person be communicating such signs? Flirt with your wife/husband... enjoy your marraige
:-) Best wishes.
2006-09-26 18:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way would you like it if your husband did it to you? I mean if he does do it, then hey go for it, but if he doesn't then it is disrespectful. Besides why would you want to flirt and grab attention from other men unless your not happy with your spouse.
2006-09-26 19:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and the results can be disasterous. Even if they aren't... it is just very rude to your spouse. There is a married girl at my work, and she is a big flirt... it caused big problems between her and her husband.
2006-09-26 18:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Paul T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider a disrespectful wife being a flirt in nature infact, it's a positive sign of being friendly human being specially to your opposite sex, girl! what is wrong is when you took advantage of being flirt to your males friends in the absence of your spouce or husband. it's a gratitude for me seeing more male onlookers found out or appreciated my wife in front me upon knowing the girl they were talking friendly with was my legal wife..Keep being flirt at all times and then you find many friends...
2006-09-26 18:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want for your life, flirting is like planting seeds, if they grow it may break your marriage, if you truly love your spouse and you want to honor your covenant with them you would have none of it. If you do not truly love them you may water and fertilize your marriage so the love does grow, it's all about what you really want...
2006-09-26 18:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by TriDad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i no people who do it. i guess if your all in a group and your all close friends it may not be harmful but.....its also like playing with fire get to close you may get burnt. its all fun and games but its not to hard for it to suddenly spin out of control and if there is alcohol involved well then ya never no what can become of it. Ive seen it happen allot. someone usually ends up getting hurt.
2006-09-26 18:34:32 · answer #11 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋