how do you know,when you've found your true soulmate?

Question

does anyone know,how you can know for sure,that you've found your one true love?I've heard people say before,''you just know.''what does that mean,exactly?is it a feeling you get,is it some kind of cosmic sign you receive from God?or is it just a choice you make,a choice you want to make,to be with one certain person,for the rest of your life?does a good,warm feeling in your heart tell you,that he/she is the one?but how do you know,if your heart isn't just misleading you,making you think that you've found the one?when really,you're just living in a fantasy world?i don't think that dreams are rooted in reality half the time,anyway.i think dreams are mostly,the subconscious trying to express itself.because,after all,that's why they're called dreams,right?you're sleeping at the time,you're not awake,you're off in some other place,that your subconscious wants to take you.
for those who have found their soulmate,how DID you know,that he/she was the one?what was different,UNIQUE,about them?

Answer 1

My husband said when he first saw me his heart started beating fast and he never felt that in his life,me I felt that feeling where I felt safe with him and we non stopped talked for hours everyday for 2 months when I realized I started to really like him,but was afraid because I was just coming out of a bad relationship. so I was not in no hurry to meet anyone. but for some reason he just felt right and he was so kind and caring towards other people,and I liked that about him he was out going. so ya it took me a couple of years to finally say yes ill marry him. and its been 7 yrs of marriage so far and were still very much in love and still enjoy every moment together and still love to talk alot . so ya it can happen sigh.

Answer 2

I'll tell ya. It's when you can't eat, can't sleep, can't stop thinking/talking about them, when you can't keep any secrets from them, NONE! When you absolutely can't live without then in your life every day & night. When you can't imagine them not being there all the time with all the answers to all the questions, especially the ones you mentioned here! When you share all the same values, and when you REALLY meet them, You don't have to ask anyone anything because you already know! Good Luck, and remember, when you do meet them, that's when you have to realize the work of keeping a life long relationship healthy is WAAAAAY more than worth all the constant work that takes! :-))

Answer 3

You know because it's as much chemistry as it is spiritual and physical. You know because it is your heart leading you and all the impracticalities of what comes with that person are marginalized. I found and lost mine and I knew it on both instances. It was exactly like finding your identity then losing it. I can't describe it any other way but it has a lot more to do with the self than the other. How exactly I knew is that the moment I met her everything in the room disappeared. And for over 20 years I can remember every instant we were together like it was now. Don't overprocess it. It's not something you can actually analyze but is more of something you have to succumb to.

Answer 4

People mix up what soulmates really are. Your true soulmate is within yourself and then you have our celestial/angel friends. This means our soul/spirit is friends with another soul/spirit. A soul mate is not your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend. Its a term to describe the bond but is inappropriatly missused. Your soul mate can be a plant, animal, member of your family, anyone or anything. Finding your soul mate on earth simply means that your astral/celestial friend is in another living form and that you have found each other. When soul mates do find each other, it usually a tragic thing, meaning that it is vertually impossible for you two (you have many many soulmates but it's rare to find more than a few in your current lifetime) to have a wedded type relationship. It is limited to mainly a friendship type thing as many soulmates can be your pet, your grandparent, your nephew, a good freind who you have trouble geeting along with but you know each other from the other realm. The soulmate you think you have as a partner is not your soulmate, these people are your LIFEMATES, thats all. Soulmates have a "feeling"type of comunication (non verbal telepathic) and have a connection metaphysically to one another, and when you reseach each others past you find that you both, all 3, all 4 or whatever, you all have had very very similar occurances and life dicisions made (you can see this in animals too only if you know their past). Soulmate is the friend of your spirit and not your frind per say. Lifemates are the ones you can spend a lot of your time with. I hope this can somewhat clear the air!

Answer 5

I have always wondered if there is the one I think it all about being at the right place at the right time no matter who your with you will fight its part of life and in reality it healthy its not good to hold things in a relationship. I believe we make our own choices in life thats what we are here for to be free and make decisions if it ends up being a bad one learn from it. If I get married I would get a prenub no matter what because you never know what life will throw your way.

Answer 6

you know when you have found your true love, when you can wake up each morning not caring what that day has to bring as long as you have that person in your life. all the pain and hardship you have ever gone through emotionally/physically doesn't have any place in your heart or mind any longer. yeah life isn't always that easy but being that person makes it easier to deal with...love is something people shouldn't mess around with...my wife and i met almost 12 years ago...we have been married for ten. now let me tell you i was young lets just say im not even in my thirties yet. however i knew when i first met her she was the one...but its wasn't until the a few years down the line i knew she was the love of my life the one i wanted to call my wife....you may think/know that a certain person is the one but its not until you know them better then you know yourself that they are THE ONE....

Answer 7

I think when you fall in love you always feel like your in a fantasy world in the beginning. There is always a new spark. But I believe when you truely find your soulmate it changes your outlook in everyday matters. It restores faith in things you'd given up on. You realize what love really is and all the times you thought before were love were just an obsession or lust. When your in love you want to express it to the world. You want to do special things for the one you love. When the one you love is your soul mate everything they do you love and makes you want to be with them in any way you can. If it's just talking or being intimate. When something happens in your life whether bad or good they are the first person you want to talk with. Good luck in love.

Answer 8

Personally, I don't believe in love at first sight or anything schmarmy like that. For me, it was more just a knowing that I wanted to be around him as much as a could. That slowly grew into a mutual love. I think the most telling thing for us was TIME. We grew close over time and didn't rush it - I wasn't asking myself is he THE ONE for all time?every day...it was more like...Is he the one I want to spend TODAY with. That grew into a knowing that he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my todays with. The best advice I can give is that the "knowing" is never an urgent feeling...always peaceful and calm.

Answer 9

You know he/she is the one when you cant get enough of them, you wish you could be with them all the time. You get excited when you see them after not seeing them all day. You think to yourself how could I be so lucky to have them. In my previous relationships I didnt have those emotions as strong as I do in the one now, so thats how found out.

Answer 10

You don't know, it just happens. When they make you feel like you have nothing to worry about, and when you can depend on them to be there for you, and you can always laugh about something they say, or when your face lights up whe you see them, and when you can't stand to be away from them, and when they would do anything for you, like even the biggest thing of giving up their friends for you. Not intensionally, i mean like they wouldn't choose their friends first over you.