2006-09-26 17:37:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The most comfortable thing is for me to watch a show with my woman that we both enjoy. She is laying in my lap and I am running my fingers through her hair, relaxing her. Most times we fall asleep! That is very peaceful and fulfilling to me.
2006-09-26 18:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what would make me happy would have nothing to do with sex, if you hadn't mentioned it.
Honestly, the number one thing that makes me happy is my 3 year old grandaughter. I just love her to death. She makes me so happy. She is so sweet and innocent.
On the sex side, don't need that either. I am most happy when my husband kisses me goodbye every morning and says I love you. Then when I come home, he again kisses me and tells me I love you. When we go to bed at night he kisses me and tells me I love you. Also every time we talk on the phone, we both tell each other I love you. I know this may sound mushy, but we have done this for 6 years and this daily contact means a lot more than sex.
There are a lot more things in this world than sex to make you happy. Words and actions mean a lot more than sex.
2006-09-26 18:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the process of ending a 28 yr. very abusive marriage, and now have a new boyfriend. When I was with my ex we did not spend a lot of time with each other. So with me some of the nicest things that happen now is just to sit with my boyfriend and he holds my hand or we sit with each other and watch a ballgame. He kisses my hand and tells me how much he loves me. I guess the bottom line is knowing that someone loves me and takes the time in a lot of little ways to show me he does, and as you said in your question it is not all about the sex, it goes way beyond that. Just being near each other makes me very happy.
2006-09-26 18:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on your personality and values. Personally I prefer cooking with my husband rather enjoyable although we often argue about the ingredients:). I also love to just watch him sleep beside our beloved son. Ordinary things done with someone you love can turn into extra-ordinary bliss. Its these ordinary things and your capacity as a couple to enjoy each others company that matters most if you reach the twilight zone. there's a gazillion things that can make you happy other than sex. the list can go on and on.
2006-09-26 17:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by gvpocon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
World Peace.
2006-09-26 17:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh sex is not everything..... if you mean other activities that makes me happy it would include: sports like volleyball and badminton, walking on the beach during sunset or sunrise but not in between, reading inspirational books, composing poems when I am inspired.
Socially, I like to go to the library, read...read...watch DVD and just recently, travel.
2006-09-26 20:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean be Clean and Non sexual ? Sex is not dirty.A non sexual can be dirty and a sexual Clean....
but anyway coming to your querry --- .Love / emotional support / faith / togethrness would make me happy...(..but not without sex.)
2006-09-26 17:47:17 · answer #7 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it figures that a woman would want to know what makes someone happy with out sex. for me it would be a woman who did have these stupid hangups about sex and considers sex dirty. or a good motorcycle that will make women drool. also food food makes me happy, but again i do belive that NOTHING will make a woman happy for more than about 1 second
2006-09-26 18:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be in a room with music going. Playing with my computer and no be disturbed every few minutes cause someone has got a problem! (OR) To be out at Port A with a fire going and be able to fish and "gig" all night. By the way "gig" is fishing term.
2006-09-26 17:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by CubbysMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being mentally happy & have no health problems. As we all know money can bring u a feeling of satisfaction thats all .My wife is my absolute best friend and we don't have much but damn we are happy as all hell:) I could go on and on. I am 55yo & my wife is 49!!!!
2006-09-26 17:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋