Marriage & Divorce - 26 September 2006

2006-09-26 17:34:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-26 17:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by alexaa 1

My sister got married to this guy that my mom and I dindt aprove of. She has being married for like 4 years but she doesnt always tell me everything that is going on because she is afraid that I am going to tell her " I told you so" . Well recently she got into a fight with her best friend. The friend then got back at her by flirting with my sisters man and send him flirty text messages which he also started to send her text messages back and flirting back. My sister caught him he was hiding it from her. Like I said my sister and I are not that close because she wont tell me the whole story like why she got into a fight with her friend in the first place and dindt get into detail over her and her man getting into a fight. She told me all of this very casual but I know there is more to it than that she just doesnt want to tell me the whole thing because she wants to save face and not look dumb also her and I have always competed with each other and unlike her I have a very good marriage

2006-09-26 17:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by Queen Kitty 3

hes very nice and caring, but is too much of a perfectionist to live with.if i dont take care of myself/kitchen etc he gets angry and starts snapping back at me. sometimes hes o loving sometimes he just talks rudely and sits and read his book/paper the whol evening and expects me to do the same. what r we married for if we dont talk after work.we only talk during dinner usually, if we rnt watching tv that is. but this isnt always, sometimes. should i just ignore and be patinet till he gts back to normal? i try bringing it up and he says hes like this and i should learnto live with it,he sys when he sees me not talking care of myself it bugs him s he behaves like that. but i do take care and exercise. im healthy, fit, not obese so i do like to chill a couple of days. what should i do?how do i handle this?

2006-09-26 17:17:48 · 16 answers · asked by angeleyes 1

2006-09-26 17:11:01 · 20 answers · asked by SJM 2

How long have you gone without having sex?

How long have you gone without materbating?

2006-09-26 17:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I got married, we had to prove that our previous marriages were over before we could get a licence to marry.

2006-09-26 17:02:51 · 12 answers · asked by jantutt 2

I recently accepted a new job which takes me to another part of town for a territory. Today, I said goodbye to a "favorite" customer whom I'm losing due to the change in territories. By "favorite", I mean a mutual flirtation kind of customer. He and I flirted for nearly a year even if both married. When I said goodbye to him today in his office, he looked crushed and disappointed. He could not believe what he was hearing. He took me into the lunch room and asked if I was serious. He then gave me a very firm handshake and congratulations (being in the office, it was obviously not a hug or a kiss). He did say that he was going to miss me, as I will miss him, too. He said that it was such a pity to lose a great rep. I already miss him just thinking that I will no longer be calling on him. He was staring at me the whole time as I walked away from him and out the door. What do y'all think, were there mutual feelings for each other based on the exchange we had today? I'm crushed!

2006-09-26 16:55:31 · 21 answers · asked by Confused_Rep 4

2006-09-26 16:53:40 · 23 answers · asked by topher 3

when you are trying to be faithful.

2006-09-26 16:36:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would take our child, both my husband and my name are on the house deed, just wanting to leave for a while and cool off, he refuses to leave, what should i do the child is 11 and my husband adopted him when we got married , he was mine from a previous relationship

2006-09-26 16:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a male co-worker who is married and I just found out that he is sleeping with another co-worker who is not married. I also found out that she is hitting on several other married co-workers of mine. I am very disgusted by the entire situation. Neither one of them know that I know. I am getting to the point where I don't even want to be around him, but we are involved in a lot of meetings together so I have no choice. I don't have to be around her (thank God) What should I do?

2006-09-26 16:30:00 · 34 answers · asked by Faith In The House 2

If you have crash on this guy at work... how do you make him to notice you?

2006-09-26 16:28:51 · 12 answers · asked by 2006xx 1

She used to be all over me. now i have to beg her, but i refuse to,so we could go months without sex. I get flirts from women but I have made a commitment to her forever. I d rather be without sex than mess around on her. I have no desire to. HELP!!!!

2006-09-26 16:27:50 · 24 answers · asked by TITANSFan1972 1

please don't answer if you don't know what youre talkin about. and no advice like-go see a lawyer. i don't want to see a lawyer or have my husband know i am even wondering this.

how much is reasonable child support for child living in MT? the father makes under 30k. mom is employed fulltime.
i know that they just came up with a number on their own without lawyer or court opinion.
so, just let me know what is a reasonable range if you have experience in this area. thanks!

2006-09-26 16:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by prettyhate 3

2006-09-26 16:18:19 · 30 answers · asked by Keshia F 1

Anyone else just go through a divorce? How are you coping?

2006-09-26 16:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by ruby 4

Sometimes I don’t know what to think Im so overwhelmed with emotions. How does he feel how do I really feel. Why is he here? Sometimes I feel like we can over come any obstacle some days I feel like just giving up. So here’s the 411. Together for 6 years and counting. He says I make him miserable but he loves me too much to leave me. I say you may be there for me emotionally but your not there for me financially. And a mortgage and 2 car payments are too much to handle for just one person. He’s going to school and working part-time. I know I have been hard on him but he said ok you need to start treating me like I’m your world or else I’m gone. We have a 3 year old together, infidelity has never been an issue / so does everybody go through this is so hard… Someone please help…. I do love and don’t picture myself with anyone else but Im to prideful to give my all what should I do ???

2006-09-26 16:12:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a really good dinner for my husband and he gets home from work and I serve him ,And as soon as the weather gal comes on the news he says oh! Shes a good looker! Ahhhhhh! I thought dog! Here I slave cooking that dinner for him! I said you should say that in front of the guys not a woman your with.And he says I dont know why that would make you mad?Well ladies lets here it!

2006-09-26 16:08:21 · 19 answers · asked by jessy 3

I've already asked my husband and knows what he thinks, but I'm just curious if all men are alike!

2006-09-26 16:08:13 · 11 answers · asked by sugarbud 3

i hate going to bed mad. but sometimes it seems inevitable. even after we have both calmed down and can talk without yelling, there still seems to be no compromise in sight. it's either we just go to sleep a little upset because we feel un-understood and frustrated, or we go around in circles for hours and hours and just get more frustrated and tired until one of us gives in and says whatever will make the other happy so we can sleep. i guess my question is this- did i marry the wrong man if we can't both happily come to a compromise before sleep? or do all married couples have these fights? i'm starting to realize that marriage is making me more independent than i ever have been. is that bad? because it sure is unexpected!

2006-09-26 16:05:20 · 12 answers · asked by prettyhate 3

2006-09-26 15:59:16 · 16 answers · asked by tkoonce@verizon.net 1

we have been married 10 years and he told me no matter how uncomfortable his best friend makes me he won't loose her. i don't think that is fair and i think it is disrespectful. what do you think?

2006-09-26 15:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by beckdawgydawg 4

2006-09-26 15:56:01 · 5 answers · asked by tkoonce@verizon.net 1

In my opinion these two words characterize spouses who have affairs. They do not have the courage to deal with the problems they are having in their marriage or honour their vows. Also, they need another person to tell them they are desirable to make them feel good about themselves. Any other suggestions?

2006-09-26 15:46:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. Will you confess and tell him the truth?
2.What details of your rendevouz will you tell or not tell?
3. Why? (refer to question 1).
4. Will you insist that there is no sexual relation even it is obvious, if so do you think he believes?

2006-09-26 15:44:58 · 29 answers · asked by Adam S 1

In our divorce decree the children are to be covered by fathers insurance. The dental office when I first set up my kids appts. said the bills would have to be sent to him because the insurance is in his name. Well, he is not paying the bills. I pay all the up front fees they ask for because he never takes them to get work done. He says they don't need it because its too expensive but they have severly buck teeth and need braces. He spends lots of money on medical bills etc. for his girlfriend and her kids though. My kids really want the braces but it looks like I will have to find a way to pay up front cost and bills after insurance. The dentist will not continue to see them otherwise. We have a so-called 50-50 arrangement according to the decree but he just isn't doing his part. I don't know if I should just scrape on by or if I should really try to modify custody and residency so I can get help for my kids. Isn't his disregard for their physical well being child neglect and abuse?

2006-09-26 15:35:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a possibility that my son is going to get kicked in the balls by a girl tomorow. on friday he grabbed a girl at his bustop's chest and ran off. and he's only 12! to impress his freinds maybe? she told a freidn who told my daughter that when she sees him she's going for the balls. i don't know if she's serious or not, but it has my son spooked. he wants me to let him stay home from school. i offered to call the school and/ or her mother, but - amazingly he prefers to accept his fate to the social consequecnes of my call.

so my questions are -

1. is he old enough to be getting a boot to the berries for the frist time?

2. if she does it, is it a fair response?

thanks

2006-09-26 15:35:09 · 42 answers · asked by carol h 1

My ex and I dated for 4 years off and on. The trouble started when we moved 1,000 miles away for a job that he took. Shortly after the move he started taking on the phone for hours with this girl that he used to work with coming home late from work. He broke it off with me about 3 months after our move to persue a relationship with her. I decided to stay in town and go day by day. A few months later he later begged me to take him back since his relationship was not working and I did hoping things would be different. Well about a year later he decided to break up again. I decided to move back home because I was tired of having an on and off relationship. I found a new job and a place to live and have gotten settled in. Now 6 months later he has been asking me to move back and is promising marriage. I still love him and I have been wanting to get married to him for years. He has broken promises to me in the past. Help me decide if I should take him back and move again.

2006-09-26 15:34:49 · 19 answers · asked by L 3

I'm 26 going through a seond divorce and wondering is there any guys that want cheat , and who want hit ya and all that stuff?

2006-09-26 15:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by nextelfan25 4