when is it fair game to kick a guy in the balls?

Question

there is a possibility that my son is going to get kicked in the balls by a girl tomorow. on friday he grabbed a girl at his bustop's chest and ran off. and he's only 12! to impress his freinds maybe? she told a freidn who told my daughter that when she sees him she's going for the balls. i don't know if she's serious or not, but it has my son spooked. he wants me to let him stay home from school. i offered to call the school and/ or her mother, but - amazingly he prefers to accept his fate to the social consequecnes of my call.

so my questions are -

1. is he old enough to be getting a boot to the berries for the frist time?

2. if she does it, is it a fair response?

thanks

Answer 1

Boy, that's a good question. Me, being an 18 year old guy, I think that he is old enough, ESPECIALLY if he's going to go around grabbing girls' chests. I think he's going to get what's coming to him. It's a good thing that he's accepted his fate, though, he probably knows he deserves it.

Answer 2

Personally I think that he will be just fine taking it! I would give it to him too and I am 27! Think about it you are a woman right? How would you feel if some man just walked up and grabbed your chest? I would feel violated and I probably would have ran after him and kicked him in the balls right there! I have an 8 year old son, and if he was 12 and did that I would tell him he has to face his fate, that Is why he shouldn't be running around grabbing girls chests!

Answer 3

First of all, if he is old enough to even be thinking about touching breasts, I assure you he is old enough for a kick in the nuts.
Problem is, the girl, does she understand the impact she could have on the boy, physically, sometimes things like this can be life changing, it is one thing to grab his nuts in the same manner he did her breasts, it is another to be violently kicked in the testicles. I have myself been kicked numerous times, luckily it did not cause me to be childless, but this has happened to others. I would hope that her Mother and you could speak about the situation in a mature manner, with a little laughter included, by doing so, maybe you can convince the mom to have her daughter embarrass him by grabbing his rear or testes, instead of the kick, with a squeeze or something. Hey, I don't blame the boy, that crap makes ya sick to your stomach for hours.
I should know, I was kicked 8 times in a row once, when I was younger.
One last thing, talk with your son, let him know that those urges are natural, but that he needs to think about what he does and not do it because of others, time and place, and all of that, keep your kids talking to you, about everything, be informed, about them and about what they need to know in life. You will be far better off later down the road.

The answer, YES and maybe

Hope this helps

Answer 4

I would take your son to school and pick him back up after wards. What he did was wrong. He's lucky the girls parents didn't call the cops.
I'm sorry to say yeah he's old enough to get a kick where it really counts.
I think it's a fair response, I have 2 girls and 2 sons and if my sons did that, they would be lucky if I didn't kick them.

Your son needs to realize that If she does kick him like she says she's gonna he should be grateful that's all she does. Her parents could have been rotten and called the cops and it could have ended up in court and he could have more problems than he wanted. Maybe you should explain to him that what he did was wrong, no matter who he's trying to impress. Are his friends get kicked, if the cops get called would his friends be the ones getting in trouble. I'm not trying to tell you how to raise your kids, just to be aware that in our world today that you can't be to careful. And you don't want something like that on your permanent record. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Actually, if it were my daughter, he'd be lucky to get away with getting "booted in the berries". She's being raised to fight back against such acts and to fight back hard! What he did is the equivalent of sexual harassment and if her parents found out, he could be in bigger trouble than getting kicked. He should be spooked, but if he is willing to accept the consequences, then I think that he realizes that what he did was very wrong and is willing to accept some sort of punishment for it. After this is all said and done, he will probably come out of it with a valuable lesson.

Answer 6

Yes he is definitely old enough! You didn't mention if you even scolded your son. You let him get away with this? He also deserves it and he knows it and doesn't want his momma to stick up for him. Deep down he knows he deserves it. I was 12 when another boy punched me in my face and I am a girl and did nothing to deserve it. Kids do strange things for the first time, and they will learn. It's not something serious to interfere in, unless it continues. Besides, I am sure the girl will not follow through with her threat she is probably threatened of your son now thinking she can't even go to school w/o getting groped. You'd be lucky if her parents don't call the principle and file some sexual harrasment suit or something. You better give your son a stern warning that kind of touch is only for meaningful caress or love!

Answer 7

ok first of all. these two are children they are growing up and doing stupid stuff. yes the son should be talked to about it and needs to understand how to treat women. but the main question is how many times has he done this. if this is the first then live and let done. if it is a repeat offender. then he should be punished. by the parent. i have 5 younger "sisters" and i wouldnt be too happy if it happened to them but i also from a guys point know what goes thru our little mind. but this boy is not a serial killer, or molester, or anything else. so yall give off your freakin high horses and give these kids the benefit of the doubt. damn that is what is wrong with this freaking country too many people trying to run everyones life and cant even fix there's

Answer 8

Number 1, what you need to tell him is that what he has done (in this day in age) can be construed as sexual harassment and can result in suspension or expulsion. Should she kick him in the balls, no! Will she? I have no idea. But, he should go to school and should anything occur go immediately to the principles office and let them know what is going on. Should yo call the mother? Only if you are friendly, you know how us mother bears like to protect out cubs. And all kids would rather accept their fate, then have mommy call. But I would alert the office to a possible situation....

Answer 9

Seems like he is a bit of a heller! A kick in the balls can be dangerous! Tell him to defend himself but only defend not attack. He did grab her and he should be made to pay for that too!
Maybe she can be satisfied with a tug on his hair or ear. Or a slap in the kisser would be in order! I have two daughters and they know 'ball kicking' can be a good defense but only if they are in real danger.
Big question is.. What did YOU do to handle this as far as a punishment goes? Some day he'll meet a real feisty girl and she'll correct his manners if you don't first.

Answer 10

I am thirteen. If a boy grabbed my chest then i would deffinently not kick him in the balls. I would probubly tell somone. But it is pretty fair. In a way i would just let him get kicked, it will teach him a lesson. Ya it will hurt, but think about how she must have felt. And yes he most likly did it to show off or he likes her. Talk to him. or better yet if he has a dad that might be better.

Answer 11

As a man, it's fair to go for the berry shot only if the shooter is ready to get one right in the face, as hard as I can swing. I don't care if the kicker is male, or female. That's a cheap shot and will be dealt with accordingly. Now to your questions.
1. I'm rather surprised he hasn't gotten a shot or two already by the age of twelve.
2. No, I do most certainly believe it is not a fair response, see my opening comment.