I made a really good dinner for my husband and he gets home from work and I serve him ,And as soon as the weather gal comes on the news he says oh! Shes a good looker! Ahhhhhh! I thought dog! Here I slave cooking that dinner for him! I said you should say that in front of the guys not a woman your with.And he says I dont know why that would make you mad?Well ladies lets here it!
2006-09-26 16:08:21 · 19 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how you feel. I hate it when my man talks like that in front of me about other women. They don't realize how it makes us feel, even after you explain it to them.
For example, my husband has the hots for Angelie Jolie, and every time he sees her on TV he says " I'd do her in a heart beat". Right in front of me, like I'm not even there. And when I get mad and leave the room he says Your the one who's got the hots for Gary Oldman, and tries to turn it around and make me the bad person.
That's when I always say, " Do hear me saying I'd do him in a heart beat in front of you, like you were not even in the room". Then he tries it's not like I'm gonna ever gonna get someone like that, and I tell him that's not the point.
It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, that when we do make love he probably pictures her and doesn't care about how I feel. It took him a little while to understand what I was saying to him but he finally got it. It hurts and I know it does to hear him say that. Did you tell him how it makes you feel. Make sure you use simple words so he can understand. Ask him how he would like it if it was the other way around and see what he says. Then kick him once for me! Good Luck!
2006-09-26 16:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by ajsad36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Dear!
I think that would make me mad too!
What I think you should do... is find a night where it can be "his night" to cook you dinner... Make sure he is planning something fancy..
Then.. come home and do the same thing to bed.. if he gets mad.. have a "shout-it-out" match and maybe you can both agree to not compliment other women and men in rude ways in front of each other.. to find others attractive is natural.. he doesn't always have to voice it though..
2006-09-27 05:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by River 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a woman on TV. The chances of him getting with her are what. ..slim to none? Who cares! He can look and say what he wants as long as he isn't going out there and acting on anything, I think it's no big deal. At least you had your say so maybe next time he'll be a bit more respectful of your feelings.
2006-09-26 16:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to him that its rude and how it hurts your feelings.my husband and i look at people together. next time there is a women that you find pretty say oh isn't she pretty. let him know its human nature for people to find people attractive but possibly go about saying it in a more mature way. ask him if he thinks the person you find attractive is and, you will have the upper hand in the matter.
2006-09-26 16:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by shanadam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a handle on your insecurities. Its a woman on tv, not a real person. The real person is you. Next time agree with him, and ask him to show you what he would do to her if she was there. Fix him dinner and serve him "dessert".
2006-09-26 16:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he comes home hungry and asks where dinner is....tell him to watch the weather report.
2006-09-26 16:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Girl Wonders 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he makes such a comment, hand him a plate of bread and a glass of water and tell him that if he wants anything else, have the weathergirl make it for him. Then take yourself out to dinner with the girls. LOL.
2006-09-26 16:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by ruby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at first, do you be attentive to for a actuality that he's stated you in a foul way, and is your source completely sturdy??? you be attentive to that a pair of lips will say something and according to probability, only according to probability somebody informed you something because of the fact they be attentive to which you like this individual and that they like to clutter that up for you. provide him the income, and confer with him on a private point to sparkling this cut back to rubble and pass on with what could in all probability be your dream guy. stable luck
2016-10-01 10:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how rude!
just tell him flat out that you dont want to hear about that!
thats happened to me before too. i made a great dinner, his favorite, and i set the table with candles (it was christmas eve) and when he comes home he plops on the couch, turns the tv on and says "mmm pasta can i have some milk too?"
guh the nerve of them sometimes!
2006-09-26 16:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by sammy k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whether I made a meal for him or not, my hubby KNOWS to not look, AND not touch.
Totally disrespectful.
Turn the tables on him...next time a sexy man is on TV, act just like hubby, or worse.
Maybe then he'll get the point.
2006-09-26 16:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋