2006-09-26 16:18:19 · 30 answers · asked by Keshia F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go ask him what he like.. we can't help you there!!
2006-09-26 16:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you go into the bedroom remember your doing this for you because it is natural and fun.If you go in only to please him then the sex wont be as hot and it will really suck for you.It's really all about what is in your head when you go to fool around.
Personally if someone looked at me and said that I would say the problem is you dont have that certain something that brings out my sex kitten.
Also men that say this are usually cheating so you should really get rid of him and find someone your more sexually compatible with.
2006-09-26 23:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he pleasing you? Guys can be so selfish, sometimes... I try to stay open with my husband so that if there is a struggle like this, we can just get it out in the air and figure out a solution, but if talking about it isn't your thing, you could just try trial and error.. Just try things you think he might like... toys? New positions? More foreplay? I think it's a misconception that it's all girls that want a lot of foreplay, my husband loves it. Of course, not everytime, but he likes to be teased and worked up just like I do. Everyone likes different things, so you just have to experiment. Just make sure that you're getting yours too...
2006-09-27 00:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes.
when he comes home one day be in lingerie have rose petals candles and caress him kiss him let him know how much you love him. Whatever you have done with your husband sexually do it but add some spice to it, go to the fridge get the whip cream, chocolate, or syrup and let your imagination run wild on him,
or you can even masturbate in front of him some men find that to be thrilling.
Talk to your man
Best regards
2006-09-26 23:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey your problem IS NOT SEX you may need to talk with him about other problems you may have in you relationship.....trust me I know..... are you communicating? are you fighting a lot? does he come home late? are you nagging him all the time? Is he just a Jerk? WHAT??? IT IS SOMETHING ELSE. because when a man and a woman or husband and wife are in love and happy it doesn't matter what kind of sex they are having because its not about the sex but rather the two of them just sharing the time together......you may have a bigger problem.
2006-09-27 00:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he wants it and then tell him what u like. Theres nothing wrong in stating to ur partner how u like it as long as u arent disrespectful or hurt the other person... Ask him what u can do differently- he's the only one that can answer this question sweetie
2006-09-26 23:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by azuleyes404 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Screw him; tell him you're the way you are and if he doesn't like it, tell him to go to hell. Or If you want to really make things work between you guys, try asking him what you're doing wrong or what he wants to see happen. But don't be pressured into doing something you don't wanna do just b/c he says it pleases him. If he disrespects you like that, dump him! Good Luck.
2006-09-26 23:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by M.Y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about pleasing him, because he is not worried about pleasing you. How awful for him to say something like that so bluntly. He could have given you helpful hints or pointers, but it sounds like he wanted to hurt your feelings. Bump that man.
2006-09-26 23:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you turned fat? Or maybe don't take care of yourself like you used to? (Not meant to be inflamatory) If not, I think I would sit down and talk to him about what it is that he is unhappy sexually about. The frequency, things happening in bed or what? Be prepared to listen without objection of interuption. You then after hearing him at least have the information and can then decide if his wishes are something you want to participate in. The key is LISTEN without challenging or objecting so that you at least get to the heart of the problem as he sees it before you address the issue.
Good luck and hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-26 23:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think we need more information. Does he not like what you do when you have sex? Or is it not often enough for him? Is this something that's been on for a long time? If you give us more information, I think we can be of more help.
2006-09-26 23:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes first and maybe surprise him. And when he says you don't please him sexually what does he mean? That could mean you don't do things in bed that please him or that you just are not satisfying him in bed. You need to determine which it is and then go from there.
2006-09-26 23:28:00 · answer #11 · answered by ajsad36 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋