1. Will you confess and tell him the truth?
2.What details of your rendevouz will you tell or not tell?
3. Why? (refer to question 1).
4. Will you insist that there is no sexual relation even it is obvious, if so do you think he believes?
2006-09-26 15:44:58 · 29 answers · asked by Adam S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, ............ you seem so worried as to how to cover up what you did........and give the right answer. Did you stop and put yourself in his place and how devastating, shocking it must have been for him .... to walk in ... and see what he saw.....I really do not know the dynamics of your marriage... and this makes it difficult to understand why you did what you did, but whatever it is you hurt someone who loves you.
Please try and be an adult and take responsibility for your misdeed and tell your husband the absolute truth...... no lies and give him the choice to decide ....... and in telling him the truth you are able to let have back some of his dignity that you robbed him off. So yes .... my advice is tell the honest to goodness truth... you owe him that if nothing else.
2006-09-26 16:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, honesty is the best policy. "I wanted to give you the best b.j. in the world, honey, and everyone knows that practice makes perfect. So Bubba here was just helping me perfect my technique."
2. Every last detail. "First I did this, and then that, and then I used the rubber chicken, which is what I was going to do to you till you spoiled the surprise."
3. To make him feel like an idiot.
4. Sure, why not. If he's dumb enough to marry a woman like that, he'll believe anything.
2006-09-26 22:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by fyrfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, did the friend have his $%^%&% in her at the time of discovery or are they birdwatching? Are you kidding? If I catch my wife naked and intimiate I dont' need any further information! First of all, the 'friend' goes south! Head first! Then, we talk. I love a good a story. If it's a really good one, maybe we'll move forward. It could be enriching to the relationship......... Do you run fast?
2006-09-26 23:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by michael g 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please tell us more. Is this the question from the husband asking for advice and opinion of what actions to be taken or from the wife telling us that her husband had caught her red-handed and asking whether should she tell the truth or lie?
2006-09-27 02:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would never engage in adultery. I think it's time to stop living a lie and tell the truth. No one would believe that you were innocent in that situation.
2006-09-26 22:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caught Naked in an intimate way. How can you possibly lie you rway out of that one? I wouldn't even try.
2006-09-26 22:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place I would never do that type of thing. I can't understand why anyone would(that is married). If you want to sleep around,let your spouts know it. Get a divorce.
2006-09-26 22:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i just got caught i think that the cats out of the bag.hell noi would not give any details lol i think that he know that there is a sexual ralationship going on he just walk in on it lol
2006-09-26 22:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't make sense.
If you are in the shower with your husband's friend, I cannot think of any other reason than the most obvious one.
2006-09-26 23:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by amoreflowers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at this point I seriously doubt he will give a damn about anything you tell him. If he does listen to your reasoning then hes dumber than you ,and thats pretty bad
2006-09-26 22:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by wrench'n away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋