sophia was served...............that is all Im affraid to ask him because what Im thinking is SSSSSSEEEEEXXXXX, can you tell what he minded???
2006-09-26 02:46:33 · 20 answers · asked by haki 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think sophia was served means legally. You know like when you get served with papers for divorce or something like that. Ask him and see what he says.
2006-09-26 02:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lady C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him hun, only way ur going to know could be something innocent.. are u sure its his hand writing and not someone else.. i mean usually if someone is giving a note, they wouldnt still have it.. unless its something that was big enough for someone to see from a far..
I wouldnt show him the note, at first.. id ask him who Sophia is.. and see his reaction and see what he says at first, then show him the note after u asked, to see if his answers make sense..
But remember INNOCENT till proven Guilty.. dont draw up conclusions with out proof, as it could be something totally innocent and ur getting urself worked up for nothing..
2006-09-26 03:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sophia was served? When I read served, I think a subpoena was served on someone...Does he have any legal dealing going on right now? Ask him what it means, I think your mind jumped on this one, I just do not get SSSEEEXXXX out of this one...
2006-09-26 02:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess i would have thot sex also..but i do have tendecy to think the worst ( my poor husband) and blow up with out knowing the real explanation..just ask him and do not yell ( from personal experience it just makes things worse )but be smart also if the explanation doesnt make sense to you at all then that might not be the truth at all. but sometimes grown men can be like little boys , maybe this sophia person is someone works with them and they just pulled a prank on her. Well wouldnt it be weird if he did sleep with her , why would he write it on a piece of paper and bring it home ? u cant hide anything at home from wife ;) but i think this is sth you have to ask him . and think has he ever given you a reason to doubt him? have you ever heard him speak of sophia , maybe not to you but to someone else on the phone? little hints uno...you are like me. think of the worst..i am sure your heart is beating miles and miles , you are not a smoker but you want to smoke like hell lol and you are thinking why would he do that to me? but if you ask him and find out why you might have a good laugh outta this. Us woman tend to over think stuff and over analyze...and men are simple trust me. so therefore i think there will be a simple explanation for this note and what it says on it. Just dont forget when you are asking him keep your cool and do not yell or cry...i guess just not yet..!! give him the time to explain and you have to be at a strong state of mind to make that judgement if what he is telling you is the truth or not. if you still are not convinced of what he is telling you, i would make him phone sophia in front of you...maybe on speaker phone..and see whats up.. if he is willing to do that and you can hear ftom your own ears what is going on. good luck with that.( i have been in that situation and i did assume the wost and at the end it was nth ) so relax maybe have a glass of wine( i am not sure what relaxes you or if you cant wait - i know i cant- you can txt msg him or call him at work but it is much better to wait till he comes home..good luck!!
2006-09-26 03:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like teenage talk. Before jumping into conclusions find out who Sophia is, maybe talk to him about friends at work.
2006-09-26 02:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not an attorney, or a city clerk of some sort...maybe he went out to lunch and had sophaphias...(heck, I can't even spell it right...you know the mexican dessert) and like them, and wanted to tell you about them. He wrote it down, but didn't know how to spell it, so he just put Sophia to remind him of the name...I bet it's nothing to get alarmed about.
2006-09-26 03:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on if you were "looking" for something or just stumbeled onto it. If you were snooping, dont say anyhting yet, he will be very offended and it will cause a world of s*it. Pay attention to his actions and his eyes when he talks to you. If it was in a place where you would Obviously find it then just ask him what it is about.
2006-09-26 02:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one other than your husband can tell you what the note means. I think you should ask him, otherwise it's going to eat away at you. I think it's better to know than to live with a relationship that isn't honest. I understand your fear, but it could just be meaningless.
2006-09-26 02:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by dante8140 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Served as in dissed or I got you. i.e friend takes car without asking. next week I take his car and leave it 3 towns away. He has been served
2006-09-26 02:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends and I use that term everyday. When we "serve" a girl it means we gave it to her hard, long and deep. When a girl gets "served", she'll never forget and she'll make herself available the next time you come knockin
2006-09-26 02:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋