At first i wanted to know and now I'm sorry she told me. Now what do I do?!
2006-09-26 01:32:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, you married a woman, not a cardboard cutout that nags. Good for you! You're lucky. A little outside experience will make her a better lover. Most of the females in answers seem proud of the fact that they don't enjoy sex. Things like this can be a very emotional, but life would be very dull without emotion.
What should you do now? Tell her you love her.
2006-09-27 14:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by ann_tracks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of what I said in my other answer applies here. You agreed to this situation so you have to accept what has transpired.
Before this happens again, the two of you really need to talk about what you are and are not comfortable with.
Does it honestly matter if she had sex with him once or ten times? What about that situtation bothers you the most? Do you feel you could handle her doing something like that again? What is her attitude towards you now and about the experience?
- These are just a few of the questions you need to ask yourself.
The point is, she returned home to you. This is something the two of you agreed together, so the two of you need to work this out together.
Good Luck.
2006-09-27 00:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by eedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten times? He's my hero. I am guessing you guys have an open relationship? If so, I would change that. It's emotionally dangerous territory, as you are finding out. If you choose not to because you want to bone other women, then you get what you deserve. If you will end the open relationship and she won't, you are done with your relationship with her, sorry. If you both can end the open relationship, great. You and she will have to never ever ask or dwell on anything that ever happened. No exceptions. Think of the day you are in, and the future. Good Luck
2006-09-26 01:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The meaning of WIFE, is that she belongs to you and only you...... People take marriage so lightly these days that it sicken me.. Here it is my husband is in Iraq fighting for your freedom and you people take so much for granted.. I would do anything to have my better half.. Why do people take what they can touch for granted, Maybe if you end up in a situation like mine you would be more appreciative of what you have right there before you.. Unfortunately, it sounds like you don't have a wife anymore. Just a label.. That's sick to think of.. And she don't respect you any.. You need to do what most American are proving right by statistics: GET A DIVORCE... The marriage is already tainted. She has committed Adultery.. And she is going to pay.. If I was her I would be some where repenting and praying to whatever God she believes in, cause what she's doing inside a MARRIAGE is wrong in GODS eye....
Lets get it together people..
Please support our troops and Good Luck..
2006-09-26 02:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude I answered this question yesterday and I thought you were out of your ever loving mind for dealing with this.It was obvious that she went on a trip with her boyfriend that they would have sex.Now you know.Either you put your foot down and put a stop to her infedility or you file for divorce.If you agreed upon an open marriage well thats what you chose.But I would tell her exactly how you feel about her indescretions and if she dosent want to stop then you know what you have to do.
2006-09-26 01:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a lawyer at what point did you accept infidelity and welcome details woman were stoned for that back in the day. Stand up for yourself man don't be a carpet if she wants someone else call it quits which I don't say lightly because I am not a fan of divorce however your WIFE has a boyfriend your emotional welfare is at stake.
2006-09-26 01:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop putting yourself in this spot she is not you wife anymore. unless you have a open relationship. and if this is true then tell her that you do not need to no about the detail's of her BF and get back to living your life.. now if you and her are broken up move on. yes your heart will hurt but time will take care of that... Good luck
2006-09-26 01:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
again get yourself a life, you need to get a girlfriend
because many time you ask ?s about your wife and her bf
we answer you but you never take any advises
so either you stop asking us ?s concerning her & ber bf
or you get yourself a life
because now I am at a point where I would like to find you and beat some since into you
Again Get out of this relationship you deserve better
2006-09-26 01:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your health is the most important thing...I know it is hard, but it is not O.K. to cheat. In doing so, she puts her own health at risk and yours as well. I think you should leave her and let her do her own thing...she is obviously not ready for the commitment of a marriage, and I'm not too sure that she loves you like you love her... She cheated!
You diserve someone who is going to be with you for reasons other than sex...like um LOVE, because just being with my husband does it for me, love making is a bonus and not even a factor in the reasons we are together (Not doggin my man, he's freakin awesome) but it's more than sex, marriage is about love. If she hurt you (cheating) and is willing to make you sick (we don't know that he is "clean") then she does NOT love you. Kick her cheatin' A.S.S out!!!!!
2006-09-26 01:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe everything people tell you then I have a really hot deal on a bridge for you. Also, if your wife has a boyfriend and you have proof then you should see an attorney and change your locks.
2006-09-26 07:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋