2006-09-26 01:32:09 · 26 answers · asked by juzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe people still are capable of making mistakes. It's not that divorce is such a bad thing... it's more that people are making the mistake of rushing into marriage for whatever reason and finally coming to grips with reality.
Divorce is not questioned when one of the spouses is abusive an adulterer, or other legally or morally wrong issues.
2006-09-26 01:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opinions On Divorce
2016-12-13 03:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by fiddler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-15 17:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rosalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is for people who can't handle their marital issues and instead take the harder way out by going through a divorce. I find the people that get a divorce quite sad and it explains a lot about the character of the person getting the divorce. But if the divorce is caused from an abusive relationship or the spouse is dangerous and you cannot work anything out with him or her than divorce is necessary. But the moral is, do not marry someone until you know about that individuals moral and mental standpoint BEFORE marriage is even considered.
2016-03-18 01:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think divorce should be LAST RESORT..
People today get divorced over the stupidest of things and ruin their childrens lives because instead of facing a problem head on and dealing with it.. people today would rather take the easy way out, and avoid dealing .. and just divorce.. meanwhile their children are in the middle and become the real tragedy in these scenerios..
Im not saying there isnt just reason to get a divorce.. i believe that a divorce should take place.. if there is infidelity , or abuse to you or your children.. because at that point the one spouse has totally breached and broken the marriage vows.. so they have already "left" the marriage and the divorce papers are just a formality at that point..
But im sick of people getting divorced because of how they "feel" at the moment, or because they are "bored" or because its not the fairy tale they thought it would be..
Marriage takes work, from both partners.. you took a vow to each other..and ur suppose to live that vow every day not just when its convient to you..
Maybe if people were "smarter" about whom they chose to marry, instead of going with the "FEEL GOOD" scenerio of marriage to begin with, and people actually owned up to their word, and promises.. then maybe their wouldnt be as many divorces as there are.. and less children growing up with out a 2 parent household. instead they have family tree's that branch off into several directions because they have step parents all over the place, step siblings, half siblings.. some of which they will never really know....
Its pathetic and crazy..
2006-09-26 01:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is granted entirely too easily in our society. Because of that, people are more inclined to marry on a whim. They know they can get a divorce at any time they choose merely by citing "irreconcilable differences".
Perhaps if you had to apply for a divorce and then either be approved or denied people would think twice about marrying someone they have only known for a short period of time.
Not that I don't think divorce should be available--I do. I just don't think it should be incredibly easy to attain.
2006-09-26 01:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if you get married you should take your wedding vows very seriously. They have divorce for a reason. I have been married for almost 5 years now and I tell you I have wanted a divorce more times than I can count, but I keep tring to make my marriage work due to we took the vows. I don't want to throw my marriage away with out tring till there is no more try left in us. I think people get divorced way to quick. They don't even try to work it out. People need to think before they get married and think hard. Marriage is not easy that is for sure. It is worth it though. I am glad that we have not gotten a divorce. We keep tring and it does help.
2006-09-26 02:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is something that twp people ought to think clearly and rationally about before entering. Most of the time, decisions are made out of anger and spite, and too much battle.
If there is children involved, I believe that counselling should automatically be implemented. No Excuses.
If Adultery is the reason, and the marriage can not be resolved, then I believe that Annulment should be an option regardless of how long they have been married.
I do believe that prenuptial agreements should be made in all marriages, in all states.
2006-09-26 02:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that divorce is the easy way out. That's what's wrong with couples today. When they get into an argument, instead of working through it, they immediately want out. People give up on each other way too easy. What happened to the old days when people got married and stayed together till they died? That doesn't happen too often anymore and I personally think it is sad. Marriage is about sticking it out good times and bad! Not running at the first sign of trouble.
2006-09-26 02:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it is a necessary in a society that no longer honors commitments or marriage vows. Another situation where it is absoulutely necessary is in the case of abuse.
I think they should make getting married as painful as a divorce, (not emotionally painful, but legally painful) and maybe we would have fewer divorces.
As it is people post here that they got married as a joke in Las Vegas and now are expecting children and are not in love.
2006-09-26 01:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋