Marriage & Divorce - 16 September 2006

My boyfriend and me are only in 7th grade and he asked me to marry him.I think he's joking but he sounds serious.what should I do?

2006-09-16 13:00:02 · 28 answers · asked by mychemicalbritt 1

My husband is from Nigeria. He is so distant emotionally and I feel like I'm priority #100, behind money and his birth family, then everything else. Everyone on the outside thinks he is so wonderful, he works hard, is kind to everyone and when we're out he holds my hand, puts his arms around my shoulders, and laughts and jokes, but it is so different at home. He won't sit next to me when we're watching TV or a movie, and when I put my arms around him he moves away after about a minute. There is no passion in our marriage. Even when we sleep in the same bed, if my foot or leg touches him, he moves away as if I'm on fire. Everytime I try to talk to him about it, he acts like it's just my insecurities, but I don't feel it's all me. He says he is just shy about displays of affection, but many times I have tried to initiate and he turns me down or moves away. Are these clear signs that I really have no marriage, or am I reading too much into his distance?

2006-09-16 12:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have my own son from a first marriage. I have always promised my fiance - this is the person I will absolutely be with for the rest of my life - that if he wanted a child, we would have one. That is fair. But, at the moment, another child is the last thing I want, to be honest. I am 27 so I guess there is time for me to change my mind. Do you have any experiences that it might help me to hear of? If so I would really like to hear of them. Thank you.

2006-09-16 12:55:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee went to a bachelor party this past weekend. We have agreed for sometime now that he would not go to a strip club and I wouldn't go to one. So he went out and said all the guys when into the strip club but he didn't....I believed him no big deal. Then about 3 days later he comes into the bathroom and I can tell on his face he has something to tell me. He tells me he went into the strip club JUST to get all the guys to get going to get to the bar. I don't know what to believe and every time he tells the story he keeps adding more. Guys....what do you think really happened...espeically if he was drinking. It makes me feel worthless that he did this and that he lied to me...any advice. Please only NICE answers needed.

2006-09-16 12:47:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tiffany 4

and healty sex life too???

2006-09-16 12:28:02 · 3 answers · asked by lordfatrat 2

Sort of a different story.. I was at a Restaurant and the mother of my child saw me and was very drunk.. kept coming over to my friends and I and yelling names and me and started to Hit me repeatedly over and over. I asked her to stop and she kept doing it also her friend joined.. One struck me in the eye.. All my friends witnessed it and the worker there did also.. they kicked her out but some how she got back in and did it ago.. I neve once raised my hand or my voice just stood there.. now we have out court date tues for child support I was wondering if i should bring this up, to help me.. Because I know if it was the other way around i would be screwed ever which way possible.. Thanks for any help..

2006-09-16 12:19:04 · 18 answers · asked by Niceguy 1

i think my mom husban is a affair to take her out hang with his friends i told her to till him how she feel. what do you people think she should tell him.

2006-09-16 12:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by paula g 1

This married guy works near my job and we flirt everyday. Lately ive found myself thinking of him when im away from work. Ive never ever considered talking to a married man but im so attracted to him. I get so nervous when Im around him as if hes not married. I will say that does bother me, I dont want any BAD kaarma when i get married. Please help , what should I do? Usually if I meet a hot guy and hes married im turned off, but their is something about this one. I need advice.

2006-09-16 12:15:56 · 23 answers · asked by trishelle 1

Well, here is my question.

Some time ago my wife and I were playing this game where we would draw a peice of paper out of a hat that had a body part written on it. After doing this, we would have to kiss the other on whatever spot the paper said. Well, we were playing and she drew the word butt. I laid on my stomach and she started to kiss. Now the point of this game was to kiss the whole area of whatvever was drawn. So, she had to kiss the area in between and she tounged the inside. I loved it. It made me feel extremely incredible. I almost had an orgasm as she did this!

Since this encounter I am fascinated with having her touch me there again. I even want her at some point to explore even furhter with other things than her tounge. I am willing to go all out on this...even if that means using one of her toys.

What do you ladies think about this? Have you ever done this to a man or has a man ever wanted it? What would you do if you were her? Please let me know!

2006-09-16 12:15:15 · 19 answers · asked by Humbal 1

2006-09-16 12:11:07 · 25 answers · asked by confused 1

i am married but separated for the 3rd time from my wife! the 1st time we were having problems so we went to marriage counselling she told the pastor i dont want to be married anymore! she didnt care how i felt and sex was only on her terms then she didnt give me none at all. i tried to tell her that other women were giving me attention and i dont want their attention but it is tempting! she said she does not care! so i left!

2nd time. we never made any commitments but we were spending time together and having sex. but she knew that i was trying to work things out again cause i love her and for my son, i found out from a friend she was seing someone else and was happy with them but she wanted to keep me around to use me! so i left her alone!

3rd time we made a commitment and forgave each other and was living together again! but then she changed and start treating me very bad and i knew there was someone else she was seeing again, so i tried to win a woman who did not want me at all. so i left with the intention of never coming back. its been 9 mos now and we have sex every now and then and she has been trying to get me back and i wont go back cause she broke my trust and my heart too many times and i dont think i can handle my heart being broke again so im very protective of my heart. and last night after we had sex she told me why she changed this last time and treated me so badly. she went to be with her 1st love! i say she dont know what love is! wut do u think?

2006-09-16 12:02:09 · 18 answers · asked by DUSTY 3

He is going out of the country for good.

2006-09-16 11:59:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sure there is love in the air ...

but what are the few things u expect from your wife that will make you happy husband.....

2006-09-16 11:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you were planning on getting married to a person and before you could follow through with the plans ... you got arrested and there was an order of protection put between the two of you.... is it still legal to get married or what?

2006-09-16 11:54:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's also on anti-depressants. i catch him in lies so often, which he says is related to drug use, but who knows. it feels like he's cheating on me.

2006-09-16 11:50:59 · 28 answers · asked by lora 1

I dont have one so dont bother asking me if i would...lol

2006-09-16 11:50:45 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

This morning my husband told me he had to take a "growler" meaning a big poop. I laughed so hard cuz I have never heard that word for that. Has anyone else ever heard that term for a big dump??

2006-09-16 11:39:58 · 34 answers · asked by Miss Mouse 6

Honestly I never cheated on my wife but it is purely becasue of lack of oppertunity. Does having one lover is really unnatural or somthing wrong with me? How can I stop having hard on for other women. Help Help

2006-09-16 11:38:35 · 50 answers · asked by Leeds_Lad110 2

2006-09-16 11:37:23 · 10 answers · asked by isabelle 1

I might be getting married soon, and I was just wondering what are the common problems married couples tend to go through.

I am interrested to know just so that I can be more prepared for them, and hopefully handle it better.

I know each couple is different, but if I could get a general idea that would be wonderful.

Thanks guys =)

2006-09-16 11:37:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who married a man from another country who promised that he was in love with her. Yet, since their marriage he moved out of their house and has his own apt. which she is not allowed to visit. They spend no time together and recently, she found out he's been using her ssn to purchase items on credit including the apartment which she is not allowed to see. He lives a completely separate life from her and it's painfully obvious that he's using her. She's very hurt but doesn't know quite what to do.

2006-09-16 11:36:09 · 7 answers · asked by curious51867 2

i fall in-love with a man who is committed already have 2 kids but not yet married.is it possible that he might fall in-love with me?we always have sex

2006-09-16 11:35:00 · 19 answers · asked by witchangel 1

i am again facing break up with my grl frd?I never created false world around both of us(with words). otherwise i m very much commited.i m straight forward guy. My principle is to speak truth.
but i m facing trouble in personal relationship area due to my truth speaking principle.

2006-09-16 11:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by dilemma 2

What would be a good present to buy her?

2006-09-16 11:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by wullie l 2

2006-09-16 11:14:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok we were driving to the grocery store and I saw this long-legged blond talking on her cell phone and getting into her car. He was driving, and I saw him look in that direction TWICE. I really don't know what to think about this, it has pretty much ruined my day and our special weekend we had planned. How can I keep him from doing things like this?

2006-09-16 11:14:16 · 41 answers · asked by Andrea Ryan 1

Husband and I filed for Divorce this week. Is it cheating if I start to talk with another guy? My husband is the one who wanted to divorce and we have beeen seperated for a year. I have been faithful the whole time.

2006-09-16 11:08:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mir3lla 3

I have been married nearly 8 years and we have 2 children. We get on so well, and are like best friends. The only problem is, we don't have sex any more. He claims it is down to stress and depression. (We have had a lot of stress in recent years - disabled son, my own chronic illness, and a car accident). I have been depressed, but have got over it and feel better. I don't have a huge sex drive myself, and can live without it, but I would like a bit more intimacy from him, and it makes me feel rejected knowing he doesn't want to have sex with me.

2006-09-16 11:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by helly 6

everything? Like where you were, what you did during the day (if you stay home mom, like me) your password, my guy thinks I am hiding stuff from him which Im not, because I dont tell him everydamn thing. Im an adult, and just because Im with him doesnt mean I cant kep things to myself only.
Agree or not?

2006-09-16 11:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

if last years was leather does anyone know what the fourth is

2006-09-16 10:48:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous