i am again facing break up with my grl frd?I never created false world around both of us(with words). otherwise i m very much commited.i m straight forward guy. My principle is to speak truth.
but i m facing trouble in personal relationship area due to my truth speaking principle.
2006-09-16 11:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Theres nothing wrong speaking the truth. You just need to learn the fine art of shutting up. There comes a point in everyones life when the truth does more damage than good as is so in your case. Bend a little and dont tell the truth so much and youll probably quit losing gfs. Girls like a little fantasy in their lifes so mix both together and see what happens. A fantasized truth is better than a boring old truth and you arent lying. Principles are made to be bent, stretched, broken, changed or whatever. Its not written in stone. You just have to learn to figure out when the girl wants the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Good luck
2006-09-16 11:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I'm not sure what this has to do with marriage/Divorce so this is the wrong forum for your question. It should be on singles and dating.
That being said, you don't have to be cruel when you are keeping your "Policy of Truth". There are tactful ways of saying something to people without being harsh. Believe me, I too, am a straight forward person, but I chose the appropriate times to let loose. There is a saying that goes, "Silence is Golden" which in your terms means, "keep your damn mouth shut in certain delicate situations"
This may be why you are unable to keep a relationship for very long in love or in general. Don't be so tense and relaxe a little.
But then again, there are not enough details in your question. Give some examples of "truth" you speak and the situation, then all will be able to answer you better.
2006-09-16 19:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Martin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, if I found a guy that was truthful about EVERYTHING, Life would be awesome. Even tho he would be a friend, for a I am married and don't cheat. It is in people's nature to lie. I am a horrible liar, so I too tell the truth, but my husband loves that about me. He sees right through the smallest of my lies.
2006-09-16 18:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-27 08:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth shall set u free.. and well its setting u free from ur gf lol..
2006-09-16 18:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship is not about truth, it's about consistency.
she don't need every little detail which passes through your mind.
2006-09-16 18:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to her about it.
2006-09-16 18:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋