My boyfriend and me are only in 7th grade and he asked me to marry him.I think he's joking but he sounds serious.what should I do?
2006-09-16 13:00:02 · 28 answers · asked by mychemicalbritt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him to ask you in10 years
2006-09-16 13:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship when I was 10-12th grade. I really thought I was going to marry him, then I grew up. You will grow up too.
A 7th grade boy really can't be serious about wanting to marry you. Most men don't really want/aren't ready for marriage until they are over the age of 26 (Coming from my male friend who has been there).
Don't take him seriously. He is just a silly boy!
2006-09-16 20:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by chica1012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he HIGH when he asked you, or were YOU high when you wrote this question?!! Are you SERIOUSLY considering doing this? Do either of you know what Marriage means? Trust me, he doesn't know what hes talking about. Ask him how hes gonna pay for your apartment and food expenses.....you know what...forget that...who's mommy is gonna drive the two of you to school?!! The whole thing is more than ridiculous. Is he gonna want a divorce when he starts liking another girl next week!
2006-09-16 21:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dental Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love is patient, wait until you have finished your schooling and maybe college. Be on your own for a while. There is nothing like being independent for a time. There is no need to rush into marriage. Time is a great way to test weather or not someone has a heart for you.
2006-09-16 20:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to young to get married,you both needs to finish school,go to college get a good job and if you guys still in love talk about marriage.how he's going to support you now in The 7th grade love don't pay the bills and put food on the table only a good or decent job can help you
2006-09-16 20:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you'd rather wait longer until you're married because you don't feel like being married so young. Then you should kiss him and tell him that your response doesn't mean you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him. He'll be happy with that reply.
Good luck. I hope he really is the one for you.
2006-09-16 20:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time - many marriages start with that kind of comment in the 7th grade.
See what kind of person he turns out to be. Avoid pre-marital sex and above all, have fun.
2006-09-16 20:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a joke dear. Your too young! Unless you live in a country where they allow 7th graders to wed!!
2006-09-16 20:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in the 7th grade, knock it off. See how he feels when you guys are 21.
2006-09-16 22:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweetie....he is a boy, and as such, he is only playing. Everyone knows that boys/men have a deeply seated fear of commitment. He'll be over this in no time flat.
2006-09-16 20:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him if he is serious but who am i to tell you i'm in the sixth grade. Just say that your to young and ask him if something is troubling him. He might be acting very weird, you should talk to him.
2006-09-16 20:06:12 · answer #11 · answered by Vivianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋