everything? Like where you were, what you did during the day (if you stay home mom, like me) your password, my guy thinks I am hiding stuff from him which Im not, because I dont tell him everydamn thing. Im an adult, and just because Im with him doesnt mean I cant kep things to myself only.
Agree or not?
2006-09-16 11:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay, you need to get away from this insecure little boy before he beats the crap out of you ,he is abusing you .WAKE UP....
2006-09-16 12:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by BEERBELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to tell them ingeneral where you were and what you did. Thats is what relationships are about and vice versa for him. The details are up to you... If there trust its no big deal. I would not give passwords or anything but it depends on what. Im sure he doesnt tell you every detail of his day does he? I doubt it! If he wants to know everything, then he has some problems with his trust in you. Everyone should have a little personal things they do and the others should respect that as long as there is not cheating or other devious things going on.
2006-09-16 11:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when 2 people decide to get married, it means that they want to spend their lives together. It doesn't mean that either one of them makes all the decisions. Nor does it mean that they have to give up their individual lives. They can still have their own activities and friends. What it does mean is that they want to be with each other as equal partners so neither one has to answer to the other. However, having said that,it is normal to talk to each other and say what you have been doing and where you have been as well as what you are planning to do. The biggest rule is that neither party ever does anything that will cause any problem within the relationship.
2006-09-16 14:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he trusted you, he probably wouldn't even care about all the little uninteresting things. And everyone in the world has a right to privacy and to their own private thoughts. Everyone.
People with nothing to hide, hide nothing; BUT as well as that, I think everyone has a right to personal privacy. You should be able to tell him that there are things you want privacy about and he really should be able to respect that.
2006-09-16 13:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a stay at home mom too and my husband only asks what I did that day i.e. if I stayed at home went for a walk but he doesn't pry into everything I do. We may be married but we have seperate lives too. If your husband is constantly asking that he isn't respecting you and you should sit down and talk to him and see why he is doing this.
2006-09-16 17:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Brandi H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I can ask my wife at anytime, what are you doing, where did you go, where are you going, whose going with you, I can ask her about anything. And she answers. She don't get mad at me she knows I'm not checking up on her. And she know she can asked me the same questions with me getting up set at her. We don't have anything to hide from each other and we give each other space when we feel me need it. But, usually we don't want space from each other. We've been married five years now. I think either he has a jealousy issue or he just want to be inclued a little more in your life.
2006-09-16 19:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by ED S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can keep things to your self answer like i do he asks the same thing everyday ,i tell him my day was fine or if i had a bad day, as far as the pass word thing he asked me once but i said why do u want to know , anyway he laughed and dropped the subject mine however doesn't think i hide things try things,he knows i like to keep alot of stuff to myself, it took awhile but he came around, so we are cool , try to tell your person that you would rather hear about his day then bore him w/ yours he will probably drop it and guys like to hear that kind of thing it boosts their ego, besides everyone needs personal space both physical and mentally it's how you grow in a relationship ,as long as you are not doing anything that you would not want him to find out i am sure it's OK , good luck
2006-09-16 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by rachel m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a little trust issue. If you are not giving him any reason to act this way, then tell him to stop acting like he is. Are you like this with him also? Everyone needs a little space to themselves, not just physical space.
2006-09-16 11:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by cdlmeup4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings are just better kept to yourself. You don't need to tell him every single thing you do. It sounds like he has some trust issues. Good Luck!!
2006-09-16 11:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by sillysammi2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree if he doesn't trust you than how can you have a successful relationship tell him either to trust you or the relationship isn't going to work unless you have broken the trust for him in the past than it would be your fault not his
2006-09-16 11:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋