i fall in-love with a man who is committed already have 2 kids but not yet married.is it possible that he might fall in-love with me?we always have sex
2006-09-16 11:35:00 · 19 answers · asked by witchangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not likely. Sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it's a big thing. If your relationship is based on sex only, when the sex starts to go downhill, so will the relationship.
2006-09-16 11:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by cynthetiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Double edged sword here. It is possible that by having sex he could fall in love with you or is it possible that hes just using you for the sex and nothing else will ever happen. There are no guarantees in love that the one you love will love you. Sex does not equal true love, but love could happen because of it. Youre willing to give it up so why should he change the status quo while things are good. No reason to fall in love and/or get married here, until you cut him off and find out the real truth. Good luck
2006-09-16 11:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you always have sex with a guy who is committed to someone else and has two kids but isn't married, you have sure set a cheap price on yourself. What makes you think he might love someone who behaves like that? You're just an easy lay. And if he does come to love you, what happens to the woman he is with and to his children? Is he just supposed to forget about them? Think about it, because it could be a preview of you in a couple of years when you have his kids and you're not married either, and some bimbo comes up offering big smiles and free sex, with no strings attached. How long do you think he's going to stay with you?
You've got a whole lot of thinking to do, girl, and at this point you have no idea of what love is all about.
This won't be your favorite answer, but it's one you should pay attention to.
2006-09-16 11:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO . It is suppose to work the other way round. You fall in love first and then only does sex come in the picture. This man is using you and you are going to break up a family.
2006-09-16 11:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the difference between men and women:
Men have sex, and then fall in love - IF they are a decent guy, and are inclined towards you in the first place.
Women fall in love, and then have sex.
BUT there are also lots of men who will just take whatever a woman offers without offering anything back in return. If you are waiting for him to offer you his hand, his love, or his life, then I wouldn't wait too long if I were you.
Good luck.
2006-09-16 12:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all are those two kids from the same woman???
Love to sex... but sex doesnt always lead to love
sometimes people do it just becase it is something they need, or they are very attracted to someone..
Consider the man and his past ....
if he has 2 kids already, and if they are from different women...
then there is a chance that he can treat u as he did them...
2006-09-16 11:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who was truly commited would not be having sex with another woman. GET OUT NOW. It is obvious that he is a liar and a user.
2006-09-16 11:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Alice S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex doesnt lead to love u cant get love out of sex heres a quote " You have to make love to get it" besides why would you want a man with kids you dont need baby mama drama
2006-09-16 11:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sw3ettyyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible but not likely Its like this love should come first then sex maybe he will fall in love if you have that bomb
2006-09-16 11:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love leads to lovemaking.A word of advice don't just have sex with a man thinking it will make him love you. it wont
2006-09-16 20:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by HoustonsFinest...TexasBaby..(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋