2006-09-16 11:14:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I dont know you or your husband, but I can give a guess. You are filled with such self-doubt that you are constantly asking him questions like this and he is annoyed. What I am sayin is your husband might fancy you, but you didnt give enough information.
2006-09-16 11:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Georgi Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could be any number of reasons.
Are you sure that your husband doesn't fancy you?
Have you asked him?
How long have you been together?
Have you changed much?
Have you low esteem?
Talk to your husband as only you two know the answer to this one, i am afraid. You both may need to hear things that are difficult to hear and accept.
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-18 13:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by jaynie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband may fancy someone else. if you would like to be the one he fancies, make some effort to find out what he likes. do not be the same person everyday. be a challenge to him. men like challenge. use your body as a piece of art, dress up, using different themes. be a piece of art he would like to steal. also fancy him, he may be feeling down.
2006-09-16 18:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your attitude to your appearance has changed and he wants the old you back.
Maybe the two of you don't have enough fun in between the sheets. Maybe you need to spice things up a little.
Maybe you should find out what he finds sexy and dress up like that a few times.
You should experiment and try everything out, watching his reaction all the time.
2006-09-16 18:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing what I do to a certain extent. You ask a question only you know the answer to. The question is do you love him. If so, try the power of descriptive praise. By this I mean, when you see him doing something well. say well done or thats a good thing youve done etc and then clearly explain what it is. This technique may help to encourage his display of effection and love to you that you are seeking. Praise more of what you want. e.g if he give you a positive comment, tell him, thanks for telling me "......" that makes me feel really valued and appreciated.
2006-09-16 18:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Blendin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things...
1 you have got ugly.
2 you have got fat.
3 you have bad habits.
4 you smell.
5 you are boring.
6. you are rubbish in bed.
7 he could be having an affair.
8 he has just went off you.
The best thing to do is ask him this question.
2006-09-16 18:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not given much detail for us to be of any help.
It could be a lot of things.How long have you been married?How old is your husband?
It could be that he's going through mid-life crisis.Or that you don't take care of yourself as you use to like before you got married?
Sorry I wish I could have been of more help
2006-09-16 18:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by JUSEve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he doesnt fancy you?
How long have you been married?
Have you changed alot since you have been with him?
Is he in his 40's? possibly having midlife crisis!!
Do you think he could be having an affair?
Could he just be totally shattered?
Could he be depressed?
Could you be totally shattered/depressed and paranoid?
Do you tell him you love him?
2006-09-16 18:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask us ask him, but be prepared to hear some thing which you may not be ready for and don't criticise or go off on one when he tells you, take it in think on it and then try to resolve/improve it. It takes two.
2006-09-16 18:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very busy fancying others. Naughty, naughty guy!
2006-09-16 18:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by KCD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋