Marriage & Divorce - 29 August 2006

my fiance and I have been together for 2 and a half years.. Recently I discoverd his ex girlfriends cell number and work number stored on his phone.. He says he hasnt talked to her in a long time. I can't seem to stop thinking about it, even though he always tells me he only loves me and denies speaking to her.. I don't know what to do.. Should I confront her or believe him and let it go?

2006-08-29 09:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Tracy 4

I'm currently experiencing that issue...

2006-08-29 09:42:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 8 years and still seem like if I don't know him yet. I always think he hides things from me and is not completly honest. I found out he looked into Escorts Sites and singles matching sites. He says is Yahoo that downloads all this stuff to people. I also found he deleted pictures of different women around my age. How did he got those if he didn't ask to receive them?. He said he was sent them but didn't ask for them...Our relationship has been bad for a long time and have been talking about separation for years. We have two amazing children aged 7 and 5. I am scared of not been able to survive a separation because I am from Spain and he is Irish. We live in Ireland and on my own I don't know if I would be able to survive the trauma of a separation. Not sure if I love him or not. Think I still do. But not sure if he loves me or not, he lies very easily and finds everything funny... he is that type of guy...

2006-08-29 09:42:07 · 39 answers · asked by despwf 1

We argue over nothing and it takes so much energy from me and I want to bust him in the head sometimes. I love him but I can't stand it anymore. I've told him several times that it was over and then I took it back. I don't want to be alone and start over again and besides I don't want to loose the cushion. It is hard to get over a relationship after being in one for a while.

2006-08-29 09:40:32 · 16 answers · asked by cherrysourheart 1

If a man receives a massage in Vegas with a happy ending?

2006-08-29 09:39:37 · 14 answers · asked by scott_v1963 5

2006-08-29 09:39:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is the situation, s/o was offered a job in a different state, the company would pay for housing and this job would last at least two years. When it came up you talked about it and decided that it is a great opportunity, with the company providing everything but food you could save soooo much money (the goal was a great down payment for your own house when it was over), you even sat down together and made a plan and a budget for saving, even bought books to help you do it. Driving back and forth on weekends is doable but NOT practical so you decide you will both reloacte, she gives up her place to live (no great loss, she didn't own the house or anything), her job (she didn't like it anyway) so it seemed that it all worked. But now you have been here for a year and a half and he hasn't stuck to the plan at all, he blows his entire paycheck every week on heaven only knows what.

2006-08-29 09:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by dappersmom 6

husband said I am too "friendly" at church and that I should give men hand shakes and not hugs. he's the one that's been caught giving out his number and lying about small stuff. what's the deal?

2006-08-29 09:32:35 · 18 answers · asked by Skypride 2

can a man love his wife and still cheat or flirt or does love and cheating pretty much cancel the other out?

p.s. he's protective of what she does but she doesn't do anything to make him think otherwise. she's loyal and very honest with him.

2006-08-29 09:28:21 · 7 answers · asked by Skypride 2

2006-08-29 09:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by luvscreampie 1

Is that a common thing?

2006-08-29 09:24:25 · 25 answers · asked by Tyler Durden 3

Well I met him and soon as I realize that he had a mental problem I had little girl from him. well now I have a girl and a boy and I'm really worried what will my kids say?

2006-08-29 09:23:47 · 9 answers · asked by laverodepancho 1

My wife recently left. I told her to because she kept complaining because I drank too much. When I got that way I would be rude and obnoxious. It was no big deal. Women please tell me why she couldn't just deal with it. She nagged all the time. I couldn't deal with the nagging. She said it was because I sat home half the time and drank all day. Sometimes I said mean things about her and her friends and family. What did I do so wrong?

2006-08-29 09:22:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a husband suddenly wants to be private about his finances, cell phone and email (knowing his wife was suspicious of him before and found small things) why is he pressing forward to stay in the marriage and to move into a new home with her?

hence he's been married before, has children and one on the way with his current wife. this is his wife's first for everything (marriage, child and new home)

2006-08-29 09:19:31 · 4 answers · asked by Skypride 2

2006-08-29 09:18:06 · 27 answers · asked by Vix 2

We are always wrapped up in our everyday lives. I just really would like to get that spark back in our relationship.

2006-08-29 09:16:36 · 6 answers · asked by jeter2 2

So many people are on here asking if they should leave, not enough sex, not enough attention, abusive husband, bitchy wife...should you? None of us have walked in your shoes, we don't live with you and we don't know what your situation is. We can say don't be unhappy anymore but the truth is in your heart you already know the answer to the question before you ask it right? Your looking for approval. Understand something, when you do it there will be people who know you and your reasons and support you...you'll even end up closer to some of your family and friends. But not everyone will be so understanding and some people are going to look at you like your a creep for leaving her, or say how could a mother split up her family like that. Your going to have to deal with it. So should you stay or go? Do you still think someone else can answer that question for you?

2006-08-29 09:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by sasha 4

ed driving with my legs. I assumed that we all could, but my wife says she can't. Do you ever?

2006-08-29 09:12:34 · 24 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

my husband is 7 years older, don't know if that's why he isn't that interested in sex or not but I'm frustrated! Anyone got suggestions?

2006-08-29 09:12:24 · 13 answers · asked by mom_of_5 2

I have a 28 year old son and his father has come back. He is trash. I do not want the money I want him gone and I think this is the way to do it. Scare him. I am not a gold digger. I have worked for everything that I have. I have 4 beautiful grand children and he wants to be in their lives. I just really wanted to explain this. Please try to understand.

2006-08-29 09:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by reginasob 2

My husband and I are having our seventh year Anniversary coming up, it will be Labor Day Weekend, he wants to go to his Mom's because we live like two hours away so that she can see the kids, but that would be on Sunday. We are planning to go out to eat or something on Monday or just celebrate it Sunday. I have thought of maybe getting him something, what do you think?

2006-08-29 09:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hate my grandpas girlfriend

2006-08-29 09:04:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

haven't talk too my ex in 4 or 5 months should stayed that way but it didin't his birthday was coming up so i sent him wishes it went good making peace trying too be friends though it was really going too work out but it didin't and who ever said u could be friends with ur ex's was a lie it does'nt work maybe for some people it does but yall justs dont have my ex no matter what u do u cant ever pls him it hopeless ive tryed so hard he always makes u feel so bad about ur self and it always sucks bad.. someone that care about u should never ever make u feel bad about ur self that's wrong u are better off without them in ur life...... i always try too make people feel good about them selfs not bad when someone makes u feel bad they dont care about u at all........ u cant go back too the past it justs doesn't work

2006-08-29 09:00:13 · 5 answers · asked by Mississippi Girl 7

My husband is out of town until Friday with a sick parent. My daughter is not taking having daddy gone very well, so I've decided she and I should work on a surprise for him over the next few days- We're going to get up early Friday and fix him his favorite supper and make a "Welcome Home Daddy" banner for the living room. Any other ideas on what we can do together to pass time?

2006-08-29 08:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer F 6

tell me what each finger means?

2006-08-29 08:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by xt_oo_tx 2

I've been married for 18 years, 12 years ago she was diagnosed with cancer and I was ready to leave then but didn't want to look like I was running from her disease so I stayed. Weeks before her diagnosis she had an affair that's why I was going to leave, nevertheless I stayed for a hellish 12 more years. There has been no love or at least very little in these 12 years, have had sex only, and this is not due to the cancer, maybe a dozen times and it's all about, get it over with, like I said, sex not love making. I'm now expecting a decent amount of $$ very soon do to an accident and now I think the time is right to go. I have a 12 yr. old daughter that want's to stay with me and a 16 yr. old son that would like to stay with his mom which is OK. Also, my high school sweetheart just got back in touch with me and I have never really stopped loving her even though we haven't seen each other in 6-8 yrs. She want's to get back together and it seems like a dream if we did. What should I do ?

2006-08-29 08:55:36 · 43 answers · asked by robert w 1

2006-08-29 08:54:00 · 14 answers · asked by reginasob 2

"THERE IS NO SUCH A THING AS A PERFECT MARRIAGE
My separated female friends cant have enough of asking me how I have being able to keep married to the same man for over thirty years.
I am not an expert on the subject, but I would have an answer of my own, and that would be just like this: nowadays divorce is UNAVOIDABLE, no one can escape it. No one can handle living with the same person for ever. I am on my third marriage myself – the only difference is that I have married the same man three times. My husband is already on his 5th marriage, as he has happened to pack his things to leave twice more than me. The secret of a marriage is not eternal harmony. After the unavoidable fights, the solution is to seek for balance, calm down and start again with the same man. The secret is to keep the marriage anew, instead of looking for a new marriage. The best strategy for salving a marriage is not to keep a ‘stable relationship’ but to change together. Every spouse needs to evolve, study"

2006-08-29 08:50:13 · 31 answers · asked by Graça 3

2006-08-29 08:48:50 · 19 answers · asked by rajan kumar 3

well my husband that i am with now, has not cheasted on me, but the ones in the past have. i am scared all the time, how can i trust agin. he does not really give me a reason to not trust him other that stares at other girls. but i am very very jealous person. i cant help it. help me, how can i trust agin. how can i just trust him fully. i do love him.

2006-08-29 08:43:14 · 17 answers · asked by april 2