Marriage & Divorce - 29 August 2006

I have been married about 2 years and we are only happy sometimes. Other times, I think my husband wish we had never gotten married. I want to have a happy, loving, successful marriage, but am unsure of what to do. We have no children yet, and we both work full time. We don't share the house hold responsibilities ( I clean 95% of the house, do all the cooking, and I am in school part time). He maintains the yard-3/4th acre- and changes the oil in the car. My husband is a bit controlling and insensitive. He says I am messy and emotional. What should I do?

2006-08-29 06:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by Jaedyn=God has heard 2

Why can't they just relax and realize that just like they scratch their balls, and fart to wake you up, you are going to spend money, it's just the way it is. Some things are just not worth fighting about, we accept all the things that drive us crazy, why can't they?

2006-08-29 06:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My marriage has been cool for years and during arguments I have begged my wife to stay. We have even gone to counseling. But she refuses to give up her online sex (she calls it writing and does it on the yiffy boards) and now I find out that she had sex 2x with her best friend (female). She now says that she will not do that anymore but still wants to keep her as her best friend.

I found this out on my own 1 week after I told her that she needed to show me she wanted to stay.

I don't know how to deal with this. I do love her and I think she loves me but mostly it feels like I am a paycheck. The worst thing is that we have 3 kids and they are old enough to know what is going on.

Should I keep her? How do I ever trust her again? If she stays how do I get what I need out of the marriage?

What about the kids if I do not?

thanks

2006-08-29 06:09:51 · 24 answers · asked by Sean 1

my husband cheated on me last year,and even though i stayed with him,12 months on i still find it hard to trust him.I don't know what to do.

2006-08-29 06:07:31 · 40 answers · asked by yorkshiregirl0611 1

Would you marry someone who was really hot if she was also nice, sweet, and didn't nag and complain all the time? Just asking because some guys want to marry the "average" girl, not the pretty one. No hate mail, please, I'm not asking about me, just a question in general.

2006-08-29 06:06:58 · 19 answers · asked by Lotus 6

I put the needle in. She's on an injection medication, and she freaks out about needles. Should I just stab her with it when she's not looking?

2006-08-29 05:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Fighting is not going to help. If I beat the guy, I'm in jail & my wife looks bad. He's turned her son against her 100%. The daughter hasn't yet but is afraid of dad & rarely says no. What can we do? Already been to court. I've been with the kids & her for 6 years.

2006-08-29 05:56:37 · 10 answers · asked by jb 1

I have been married for 3 yrs w/him for almost 6. 6mo into our marriage i found out that he had cheated on his ex b4, during , & after thier wedding! When i was 1st getting to know him he tld me he had never cheated. He also made me & his whole family think that his marrage ended bcause of his wife! I have felt very violated and can't let it go. He tld me that he didn't tell me beacuse he knew i wouldn't have stayed w/him. My feelings have changed I feel like I was manipulated into marring him. Help!! Also he lies a lot! i've not caught him in big lies but little lies and I have to think if he lies about the little stuff whats to stop him with the big stuff?? I have also believed once a cheater always a cheater. Any thoughts??

2006-08-29 05:50:25 · 20 answers · asked by nothin 2 do so i'm here 1

Yesterday my husband called all day begging me to stop our divorce .I got a call at 230 him telling me he loved and he wouldnt hurt me any more he put a hose to his muffler to the inside of his car and already been in side for a while when he called the carbon moxicide was makeing him slow to talk so I knew he wasnt playing I hung up and dailed 911 when they got their he was uncocises they coded him when they got him stable and got him to hospital his moxcide level was 17 the dr said if he had been in there 5 more min he would be dead.I fought formy marriage for 6 years I just cant take the cheating and abuse itsnot fair for him to try make me be withhim in fear he will commit sucide.......

2006-08-29 05:49:55 · 47 answers · asked by mgrinderslev1977 1

It doesn't have to be big things, even little things can really touch the one you love. Please keep answers clean. I am curious in ways out side of physical intimacy only that you show your spouse how truly special and loved they are. Clean answers only, thanks. :)

2006-08-29 05:45:52 · 33 answers · asked by Kendra 5

I'm interested to know how people feel about themselves when they cheat. Does your conscience bother you? Do you feel it's a personality disorder? Do you enjoy living a dark side? Are you concerned about disease or legal ramifications?
**Please keep answers clean and sincere. Abuse will be reported, and you may not be able to remain on Answers. Thanks.

2006-08-29 05:35:54 · 32 answers · asked by Credit Expert 5

thinking to deep. will this happen to me if i dont get married and stay that way.

you eat and become over waight
your body will sart to sagg
bags will hang around your eyes
your teeth will start to stain
health will go down the drain from not working out or to much working out.
your hair will fall out your taste will become stale
men or women want find you attractive
people will use you and take your money , the way you did when you were young.

and young people around you will see you and frown
your kids will put you in a home
you want have place for your kids to stay because you didnt have a stable life.
your kids will call you a unstable whore that ran the streets chasing a man who thought u suck in the bed room or body looked awful or woman
women will pray over weak men , take there money
you want have any good memories
get married so u can grow old , then when u and your mate look at each other u want see what i see.
or YOU WILL SURLEY DIE A NOB

2006-08-29 05:34:47 · 8 answers · asked by guesser 1

he makes sexual comments towards another woman or women. Do you think i should be concerned about these women in his "dreams" or think he would ever act on these dreams? I have mentioned it to him before and he says he either doesnt remember them or that i shouldnt care because they are just "dreams" and that they mean nothing and that its not like he choses to dream them.

2006-08-29 05:33:29 · 15 answers · asked by sweetlikesuga989 1

I mean, what's the worst that could happen?

2006-08-29 05:27:02 · 16 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

I was lucky with women before I got married, now that I am married I have been fateful... honestly. But I see I have more opportunity to hook up with women then ever before. I make a point to flash my wedding ring to show I am not available, but it seems to be a magnet to this type of women. I just don't understand ?

2006-08-29 05:26:29 · 15 answers · asked by thomashonecker 1

My bf is sick and he has been for a while. He has gotten worse lately... I love him like I've loved no other . It hurts me to watch him sick I try my best to help him. I have stood by him right or wrong. I have put up with his ex- wife and her **** .Even when he had his little fit a few months ago and told me we were over I still stood by him and came here and helped with the kids. I really want to get married I have always wanted to get married and I always find something to change my mind ( 5 times I have backed out of a realtionship when we were talking about getting married )Now don't get me wrong I had some good reasons... My ? is do I tell John I really want to marry him.Even though I think he knows and he really doesn't like the whole idea of marriage thanks to his ex. I don't want to push but with his health going down I don't want to have to battle her to keep our house and stuff if he passes ( pray for us) I just don't know HELP?

2006-08-29 05:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by raynemarie03 2

2006-08-29 05:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by mgrinderslev1977 1

2006-08-29 05:19:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What i mean is not meeting and no phone calls, just internet sex.

2006-08-29 05:16:11 · 16 answers · asked by Becky 3

I have been married for 14 years (not happily) Recently I have reconnected with an old friend from high school (male) Nothing happened during high school. Yet I find myself anticipating his emails. I love the attention he gives me. Is this cheating?

2006-08-29 05:10:40 · 45 answers · asked by sugar girl 2

I built this little wooden case for the remote control that I attached to the couch. I have great difficulty letting my wife use it. Do you have odd behavior that strains your relationship with your significant other?

2006-08-29 05:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

i am separated and i went to spore with my married name in my passport.i cant get divorced in the philippines(no law on divorse).

2006-08-29 05:08:47 · 1 answers · asked by pa 1

what to do if ur finacee dont'n want to take care of u and ur pregnant and u have too keep asking your family to do things for u cuz he wont'n do it,, should i just find anoteer man who do it for me
and i have to cook,, clean,,, and clean up behind him,, and take care the baby what should i do

2006-08-29 05:01:40 · 24 answers · asked by caramel 2

2006-08-29 04:59:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he wants to end our marriage but we still live and sleep together, conversations are down to 'yes', 'no' answers. Anyone know what I should do. Advice needed.

2006-08-29 04:52:34 · 24 answers · asked by babie 1

i am pregnant (31weeks) really uncomfortable to have sex but i still do but does this mean that hes tired of me? that maybe he wants something else or maybe someone else? or is this all in my hormonal head?

2006-08-29 04:51:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mary V 2

bit skint at the moment and anniversary is tomorrow. Could do with some inspiration.....

2006-08-29 04:40:45 · 17 answers · asked by seventiesal 1

Thanks

2006-08-29 04:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by bassmanjohanson 1

2006-08-29 04:34:58 · 25 answers · asked by wintermoonlight2001 1

I am 31 weeks pregnant and I have gained 30 lbs and my hormones have me acting crazy and really jealous which isnt me and i know my husband is getting tired of it is there any thing i can do to make him know that i still love him and that i will get back to my normal size again basically how do i make him feel special? because he has been so wonderful about everything but i also know you can only push someone so far and i feel as if im pushing to hard, any ideas?

2006-08-29 04:20:21 · 20 answers · asked by Mary V 2