2006-08-29 05:19:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Eventhough there's no kids.
2006-08-29 05:24:22 · update #1
I think this question depends upon your interpretation of normal. I've been married over 17 years, with five kids and sex is 2-3 times a week, unless we find more opportunities in between. It's something we both enjoy so we try to make the time for it. Lots of times, couples don't. It's often the part of the relationship that fizzles after a few years. Then once it starts going, it's gone. You either begin looking at it like some sort of extra chore, or you are just content that neither one of you need that type of bond.
It's only been six years honey, and with no children, there should be no excuse. Start scheduling some time together and get some things to spice it up a bit...make it fun, breath some life into it and make it something you both enjoy doing. It's almost like a drug, the more you do it, the more you want to do it.
2006-08-29 05:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes work and children will cause a marriage to be lacking in the sex department. Being that you do not have children, I could see why this may be an issue with you. Unless one, or both of you have jobs that keep you away from home a lot, there are very few reasons that I can think of for the sex to be slipping. Maybe there are deeper issues that you may need to look at. Try talking about this with your spouse and hopefully there will be a happy ending to the conversation.
2006-08-29 05:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO !!!!!! I need it and get it 5 or 6 days a week, a few times a day ! I'm 35 and gf is 43 so it has nothing to do with age or how long you've been together. We've been together over 4 yrs and the sex is still as HOT as the first time I got her naked !!!
2006-08-29 05:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My woman and I recently did some reading up on the subject I've not been getting enough. Once a month is statistically average for those over 60 years of age. If you're under 60 then you're no getting enough either.
2006-08-29 07:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it isn't normal then I need to leave now. It could be every 5 weeks for me and my husband and we been married for 6 years together for 12. Life just gets in the way sometime. That happens.
2006-08-29 05:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read (whether this is correct or not) that as long as both people are ok with whatever the frequency is its normal. What the experts who wrote any books I've read seem to say is if one person is not happy with the situation then it can be an issue.
Maybe your question shouldn't be whether its normal but whether its an issue for one of you, and only you can answer that.
2006-08-29 05:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some ppl yes. i have been married 13 years and we still have sex 3-4 times a week!! it doesn't have to be special or a long romatic build up, sometimes a quickie before bed or jump in the shower with you mate and lather eachother up!! and we also have two children
2006-08-29 05:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by mongo862001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be normal for 2 people,both with low sex drive.
2006-08-29 05:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depend upto u people but for healty n welthy relationship this is little bit less than others.... i think should twice a week or more is better after 6 months.
2006-08-29 05:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh no. i'd definitely want more, at least once a week, i mean come on. women wonder why men cheat. damn. get into it. you wait all this time to have sex after marriage, and then you dont do it? go for it!! all the time!!
2006-08-29 05:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋