Marriage & Divorce - 29 August 2006

2006-08-29 04:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by isaiah l 1

an attractive...or semi-attractive woman with a great personality? Thats the question i have for all of you guys out there in webland. Reason im asking this? I married a woman who is stunning. I mean...drop dead gorgous. On our first date i thought that an angel from heaven had fallen in my lap and the first night we made love i felt as if i was on top of the world. We got married, have three kids and...well....she is a royal pain in the ***. Has to have things her way 24/7, has no room in her life for anyones **** and yet expects everyone to bow before her perfection. Is a super control freak and has the kind of personality most would find at the very least...abrasive.

And i think back on all of the woman ive dated who were just a bit less attractive then her phsyicaly, who faded into oblivion, who had great personalities...and i wonder if making a descision on looks alone has served me well at all.

Your thoughts guys?

2006-08-29 04:16:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I marry an american girl, can I stay in the USA?

2006-08-29 04:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by soytokemonsr 4

This is not a from experince question, just want to know what you think

2006-08-29 04:05:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-29 04:04:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would be your reaction?

2006-08-29 04:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by missthing_21176 3

Recently me and my husband went to an Adult theather where there was a porno playing on the screen and couples had the opportunity to do stuff in the back of the room. We were nervious at first but it happen, we found ourselves being the main attraction at the place. Now we both look at each other like WOW this actually happen.Has anyone else experience this or something like it???

2006-08-29 04:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by **What??** 4

positions. As I've said before we started yoga (yeah a guy can do yoga) and we're out of ideas. Do you do anything together with your significant other that you enjoy?

2006-08-29 03:59:42 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I've known this guy for 20 years. We dated for nine years and have been friends ever since. He and I have both moved from our home state to other states. He wants to get married and wants me and my child to move where he is. I like him, he's a good person, very intelligent but I'm not in love with him. Plus, I really want my daughter to have a father (her's is not involved). Would you do it?

2006-08-29 03:55:57 · 47 answers · asked by treasures320 3

2006-08-29 03:50:07 · 23 answers · asked by T DOGG 1

2006-08-29 03:46:51 · 27 answers · asked by Thrasymachus 2

I've been married for a little over 7 years now and have been unhappy for about 2 years. I've recently met another married man and we have fallen head over heels in love with one another. We have both been unhappy in our marriages for about the same amount of time and both have one child. My child is 3 1/2 and his is 5. My spouse now knows that I have been unhappy for a long time and he's trying very hard to salvage the relationship, but because of my feelings for this other man, I am pushing my husband away. We are currenlty in therapy, but it's not working. When I'm away from this other man, it hurts so bad I can't function, but at the same time my husband is also hurting, very badly. My husband doesn't know about the other person, he just knows I'm very unhappy right now. I'm so torn it's physically killing me. We have both decided to try and stay away from one another to see if our marraiges can work, but it's hard on both of us. How can I get through this and what should I do?

2006-08-29 03:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by K J 1

Why does a man think a woman only want's to get married to get 1/2 in a divorce!!! I want to marry to have a life partner. I am ready to leave to find such a person, but I want him!!

2006-08-29 03:39:47 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

do a man suppose to just take care of his kids and not the wife,,,, my fianncee and i are living together and have been for the past 6 months ,, he feels he just suppose to take care of the kids and not the wife ,, is it true,, what to do

2006-08-29 03:36:52 · 18 answers · asked by caramel 2

he's been doing this ever since we got married 1 year ago, i will give you a perfect example. Last night i went and spent 300 dollars on new bedding, pillows, sexy curtains, and a game that we can play to get in the mood. I cleaned the whole house did all the laundry,I mean everything. I had candles all over the bedroom and rose pedals leading up the stairs to the bedroom, when he got home i was waiting for him, and he walked in the bedroom and said " i have to take out the garbage", not "honey you good great", i said fine I'll wait, about 15 minutes later i heard him in the back yard braking up the old siding that was on our garage. Another 15 minutes later he came in the house. and i was lying in bed watching t.v. and he was wondering why i didn't want to do anything. I told him to get his priorities strait, i should come before the garbage!! he said he had to get it done, i told him to get up 10 minutes early tomorrow and take it out. then we got into a heated fight. HELP HELP!!!!!

2006-08-29 03:29:13 · 29 answers · asked by yamahaviper_00 2

This is really my private question about marriage & divorce.
I don't want to write here. So,if you are the one who can answer most of these problems best, I will contact and send you an email about my difficulty. Thank you!

2006-08-29 03:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by mypetispig83 3

i posted this morning about divorcing and moving abroad.

my husband, due to lack of happiness in our marriage has cheated me with his ex-girl friend. when i discovered that sunday night, i just asked him to leave the house. we have 2 kids -7 and 2,5 years old-. he totally regrets it and he is in panic. i know. but i cannot live with him in the same house. i need to stay alone with my kids to think and react wisely.

he begged to stay home for the last time with his kids last night. i accepted. but this morning, i reminded him to leave home tonight.

as you might guess, everything going on really hurts me and i don't feel like i could handle it easily.

i don't wanna be home while he is leaving us tonight.. but i have 2 young kids who don't know exactly what is going on.

so should i be home with my kids or just be abesnt leaving the kids with their nanny??

2006-08-29 03:26:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

for a 1 year cos he had no job & a drug problem & i kicked him out and he eventualy came rite but now(6 yrs later) you find out from a family member that he was dating when we were seperated, but he never bothered to tell me. Now he says its da past & i had kicked him out & he thought there was no way for reconciliation & he was just being a man & needed sex since we were apart for so long. Anyway were very happy before da fact & now i seem to be throwing tantrums cos i am jealous and want details but he says to leave da past in the past. How do you handle the anger, & i know dat he has not done anything since he's back home cos he only goes to work without me and takes me everywhere with him. He doesnt even socialise with friends any more. But i am having outbursts when i see something dat reminds me of the past & he says he will leave if this carries on. HELP...Whose right and whose wrong.

2006-08-29 03:24:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking (just talking) to an unavailable man for over a year. I've tried to stop and even told him I couldn't talk anymore but he said no, it was alright. Well I think I'm in love with him and if I told him I know that would stop the phone calls. Should I tell him?

And please no home wrecker or I'm a terrible person remarks because I'm already quite aware that I'm a terrible person.

2006-08-29 03:22:49 · 14 answers · asked by suzyq 1

2006-08-29 03:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have two kids and have not gotten away alone for a LONG time. We live in upstate NY and need some suggestions on romantic get aways. We can only take two to three days. Any suggestions?

2006-08-29 03:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by speekup2002 1

Reading all these questions, it seems like no one has a good marriage, that they're unhappy with their spouse/bf/gf, that their spouse/bf/gf is cheating, or controlling, or abusive, or doesn't trust them, or something else like this.....I have an *extremely* good, right relationship with my bf, we trust and love each other more than anything, we haven't done anything inappropriate, we know we'll get married someday and have our eyes only on each other....my question is, does anyone else have a good, moral relationship like this? It seems like all I ever hear about are the relationships like those I just described above.......

2006-08-29 03:07:33 · 33 answers · asked by Liz 3

I am married, but my marriage is dull with no excitement at all! I love talking with him!! Am wrong for doing this?

2006-08-29 03:06:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He wants to move 3 states over but i cant imagine my life anywhere but here

2006-08-29 02:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by Lost 2

2006-08-29 02:57:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has a very insecure way about him that I learned later on in the relationship and its driving me nuts I feel like walking away from the marriage HELP ME!!!

2006-08-29 02:52:55 · 20 answers · asked by keishahayes2003 2

Well where do I begin? I have been married for more than 15 years my husband and I have 4 kids. Things have been rough for the past year, financial, sexually, communication---everything! I was curious because he was styaing out late a couple of times, so I checked his phone and found the code to his voice mail. From which I heard three messages from the same female. the messages were vague- "I guess we are playing phone tag"- "it' just me calling"- and "I called". that was the content of the messages. So when I questioned him he adamently denied cheating- He has stayed out of the house numerous times after 3 or 4 in the morning. Just recently he left the house at about 8pm and didn't come back until the next morning at about 8, his excuse was I got stranded and didn't have a way home. And no he didn't answer his cell phone when I called only once may I add. My gut tells me that he is cheating but my heart wishes that he is telling the truth. What so you think?

2006-08-29 02:51:14 · 33 answers · asked by "Have a great Day" 1

You wanted to stay true to your only love but women offer themselves to you because you have the look, height and body.

2006-08-29 02:46:45 · 32 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4

2006-08-29 02:43:59 · 39 answers · asked by kate 1

My husband and I just broke up a week ago and I think he was seeing someone else. Well now that we are apart one of my old flames has been asking me out and wanting to come from out of state to see me. How soon is too quick and should I feel guilty if he was probably cheating anyways? I also have this other guy asking me out and he is attractive. Should I just go have fun or wait a while?

2006-08-29 02:43:44 · 17 answers · asked by Gremy 1