This is not a from experince question, just want to know what you think
2006-08-29 04:05:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't do it why would u??
2006-08-30 01:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nicki's guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um... what, can you force someone to do something like cheat? The spouse has no ability to control what they do with their bodies when presented with a potential opportunity? I don't buy it. There's always the decision to cheat, and it's THEIR decision. (Unless alchohol is involved, and guess what... that's their decision too.) They didn't just oops, fall out of a chair and end up having an affair... they aren't accidents. *lol*
The real question is... what's already happening to a person that they begin to think and have doubts that they should TEST their partner? Has there been any little things that don't add up, or other things that apparently show they don't really value fidelity and commitment? (Such as, blatently rubber necking every woman that walks by in a mini? Or extra phone numbers, and lots of "working late dinner" etc.)
Or can a person really not come up with any thing to indicate that their spouse is anything less that a great partner... in which case, you have your own insecurities to deal with?
2006-08-29 04:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by UnrealJuju 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 21:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by dantuono 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not feel responsible (but i would be) It would be a simple test. I am sure my man would pass. But it would be wrong to do for the relationship in question. It would be better to think of faithfullness this way--
Expectations of faithfullness can only come through marriage!
...and then if you wonder if he/she is faithful it is either you (insecurity) or the other person is messin around. There is no reason for a test. (he/she may fail) Just ask plain and simple- then no matter what, it is very important to keep your cool- regardless of the answer
2006-08-29 04:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If they are going to cheat, they'll do it regardless of what or who is behind it. A loyal heart isn't made overnight and cheating doesn't just "happen". If the other person doesn't love you enough to be faithful, it's no ones fault but their own (unless they've told you they dont want to be with you.)
2006-08-29 06:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by SAMANTHA M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were set up, I would feel manipulated and hurt. I believe in honesty and fidelity, and being put to the test would mean that my gf didn't trust me.
I don't know since I'm alone now, but probably I would consider it a reason to end the relationship. But I don't know if I would take it that far.
2006-08-29 04:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be that stupid to set my spouse with a girlfriend in the first place. Plus I know my husband wouldn't cheat on me, because I know i can trust him, but I still wouldn't set him up with someone.
2006-08-29 04:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - you should feel a little bit bad for lying or being dishonest with them - but if they will cheat in a set up, they will cheat, and may have done so before.
2006-08-29 04:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you set him /her up and they did, you should accept the fact that you gave him / her a free session of sex with another person. The set up itself made it convenient and safe in their view.
It is improper for anyone to do this to a partner just to see if they will cheat. Everyone will cheat in the right situation. The right situation is different for everyone.
2006-08-29 04:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Just Another Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be to some extent. We are all human and are vulnerable and have some breaking point. You have ot put that into context. It depends on how the person you set him up with acts and what they do etc.
2006-08-29 04:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by JoeP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not responsible for the cheating. that is the cheaters responsibility. but you would be responsible for a lack of trust and possibly not fostering a good relationship dynamic if you feel the need to resort to such tactics...
2006-08-29 04:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋