do a man suppose to just take care of his kids and not the wife,,,, my fianncee and i are living together and have been for the past 6 months ,, he feels he just suppose to take care of the kids and not the wife ,, is it true,, what to do
2006-08-29 03:36:52 · 18 answers · asked by caramel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i really need straight answers but he wants me to work hard like him just becuase he own to business and i cant'n do that i get really sick often at times and it'll be hard for me to actually work ,,,,,, i told him what i'm just here for a **** when ever u get horny and to ****** clean your house and he told me yeah should i just leave him ,,, i all ready try talking to him but it doest'n work
2006-08-29 03:39:52 · update #1
do yall think i really have to get a job just becuase he want take care of me,,, it really take me actuallly 6 ours to clean my house,, i'll have to give the kids a bath ,, feed them,,, give attention,,, cloth them,,, watch them,,, clean = up behind him,,, wash cook,,,and clean and go to school and he says thar's why i have a degree to take care of myself or for my family to do that,,,,,, i told him if times get rough i'll get a job i 'm not just ur maid and ur **** buddy
i guess he dont'n want to do it cuz i'm expensive which i'm not i just be needing some personal stuff that's for women and some 20$ weave once a monthe and i'll be getting foodstamps and he tells me to bring something to the table,, i'm preganant now and i just lost
2006-08-29 03:49:39 · update #2
i also have almost a thousand of dollars worth of hospital bills to ,, wich is a broken arm from him an axietyattack from him ,,,,,,, and it's so high becuse al dont'n accept la medicaid and i told him it was his faught and he refuse to pay them which i not really worrying about yet becuase i have to worry about my baby first,,, but it's all wrong and he did it to me and he wont'n pay my doctor bills that came from him i have to pay them and i alwayz have to go to my parents and grandparents to ask them to do things for me,,, because he want do it like by me cloths and pay for my medcine things like that and i alwayz tell them he suppose to do that not me,,,, my i alwayz have to him my family say what u there for if we have to kepp doing stuff for u
2006-08-29 03:56:56 · update #3
some one please help
2006-08-29 04:22:08 · update #4
do i just need to accept the fact i need to get a job and support myself and my kid while he support himeself and the our kid
2006-08-29 05:29:37 · update #5
no the mans sole duty is to take care of the wife. in the bible it says 1st comes the lord 2nd comes the wife then the children and family and friends and same for the wife
2006-08-29 03:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is responsible 4 his family, that includes the wife and the children. If he is saying he can only take care of the children and forget about u then it is wrong. Or does he want to say that should u fall sick he wont pay d hospital bill. It is a good thing that u are discussing it with him now. this will help u understand your man should u decide to marry him.
2006-08-29 10:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by ijlafia2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the question would be "Is a man supposed to just take care of his/the kids", I would also advise you to consider some grammer help. Anyway, are you refering to "taking care" in a financial sense or "taking care" of emotionally/physically? Weather you work or not should be a decision you to come to together before you get married, and since it is 2006 a man isn't exactly required to "take care of you". A marriage should be a partnership , both of you working together and often requiring compromise. Lookup the big words in a dictionary .
2006-08-29 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man and a woman come together n have kids, they start a family, and in a family every one cares for one another. being the head of a family means to take up the responsibility of every member's welfare. not just the kids or the wife's.
2006-08-29 10:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man should care for the whole family: spouse (either common law or otherwise i.e. babymamma) and the children.
It sounds like he does not respect you and you should look for an alternative situation, where you are not subject to the mental abuse you are obviously suffering from
Good Luck
2006-08-29 10:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by g m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a man that doesn't allow me to work. I also have two kids that aren't his and he supports my kids as well as myself.
He needs to realize that his responsibilities are to take care of home completely. Try talking to him about this and if you don't get the results you seek try counseling.If that doesn't work step out on faith,that is one person that'll never fail you.
2006-08-29 11:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by cwallflower32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not!
Before you get married (if it is in a church) you will meet with the pastor or priest and they will tell you that the "husband and wife" is the most important! Kids come second.
2006-08-29 10:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are setting yourself up to be miserable by marriying this man.
A real man would understand that he should take care of his family, including his wife.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 10:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - love that bannana boat english.
Here's the thing. A man should care for his spouse too, not just the kids.
2006-08-29 10:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
priority of relationships:
1. God
2. Spouse
3. Kids
2006-08-29 10:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋