Does anyone have a GOOD marriage out there???

Question

Reading all these questions, it seems like no one has a good marriage, that they're unhappy with their spouse/bf/gf, that their spouse/bf/gf is cheating, or controlling, or abusive, or doesn't trust them, or something else like this.....I have an *extremely* good, right relationship with my bf, we trust and love each other more than anything, we haven't done anything inappropriate, we know we'll get married someday and have our eyes only on each other....my question is, does anyone else have a good, moral relationship like this? It seems like all I ever hear about are the relationships like those I just described above.......

Answer 1

Hello Miss Florida, yes there are some of us that do have wonderful relationships. Most people on here don't seem to but I am married to the most wonderful lady in the world! We have been married for over 11 years now and I love her more than the day we married. We have absolute trust and faith in each other.
I come on here to try and help others to hopefully have the same thing my wife and I do. It's always nice to hear that others have a similar relationship. Good luck in the future to both of you!

Answer 2

Ye i do ......I've known my husband for 10years now and we have been married for 4 years. Ours was a love marriage. As u have mentioned my husband and i love each other with all our hearts and we trust each other completely. I think the foundation of a good relationship and a good marriage is love and trust. If u have that then every thing else just falls in to place. Even if u fight with him or argue with him, that's all just the surface coz nothing can affect yr love and trust. If you 2 really love each other and trust each other i think u will have a great marriage so dont worry be happy. Best of luck!!!!!

Answer 3

I think that every relationship is different and that it is really about what each person puts into it and what you allow and don't, also what type of person you are and what your up bringing had to offer... What is moral anyway and who knows what right or wrong, is it is wrong to judge and believe that the way you think things should be are the rights ways?! Everyone is different and we are not to judge. Relationships work b/c the people in them want them to and when they don't then they don't work at all. My marriage is good but just b/c he may be insecure at certain times then when I am doesn't mean we don't trust eachother or shouldn't be together everyone has insecurities and fears at some point.

Answer 4

I am married, and I feel my marriage is a good relationship. I won't say perfect, every relationship has a flaw or too. But we stand strong in our love for each other. We live honestly and righteously. Yes we trust, respect. admire, faithful to each other. I also believe a marriage takes work. WE have been together now for 13 years. I still get giddy when I know it's time for him to come home from work.. Our love is very precious. WE are happy with each other and I feel that is very important.

Answer 5

Yes, I do. We've been married 8 years and things are wonderful with us. I WAS in one of the marriages you described above, but had the sense to to walk away from it.

My husband and I communicate very well, love each other's company. very rarely argue, and the physical part is stronger than ever before. We know when to give each other space, and when we need to be there for emotional support. This doesn't mean that we always agree, we just know each other well enough to solve life's problems without creating problems within the marriage.

Answer 6

I was just at a family reunion and thinking about this exact thing. My grandparents have been married 65 yrs. My parents are almost at 35 yrs. My aunts & uncles (6 couples) have been married 20+ years. And then there's my generation with my cousins and my siblings: 2 divorces, 3 children out of wedlock, 3 couples living together but refuse to get married, a whole bunch of single people searching for "the one" and refuse to settle for anything less (can you blame them?). My brother is a couple years older than me and has been married for 10 years. He's very happy and is my hope and inspiration.

Answer 7

Well it does seem negative on here ! ha! ha! It Im glad u have a good relationship but at some time you may need to write yourself on here! I think relationships are not in stone and things can change down the road.Dont get all your eggs in a basket .You havent even married yet to your dude! Thts going to be the tough part .gf and bf isnt the full deal!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

i hope your good relationship lasts - that it can stand the test of time - that is a sign of a good marriage - that it has stood the test of time - how many ups & downs have you experienced together - will your partnership last - what happens when one stops caring and working at the relationship - you have to work everyday at keeping your relationship/marriage right - are you both willing to do that day in and day out - if so, you will have a good marriage - & don't forget about the other equation that can affect a marriage - adding kids to the relationship - Good Luck and write back in 10 years and let's see how your marriage is doing.

Answer 9

I don't have a good marriage....I have a great marriage! I love my wife very much and she loves me back just as much. We have a great time with each other, she's my best friend, we were virgins when we got married and we're totally supportive and into each other. Yes there are good marriages out there but you have to work on it, stay faithful, be very loving and caring and attentive to your spouse and try to break up arguments with finding something funny!

Answer 10

See, the worry with the "properly, a brother and sister living co-dependently might desire to take exhilaration in the comparable advantages" means that no 2 quickly human beings have *ever* abused the marriage device while they weren't in a romantic relationship. yet a sibling couple doing so might nonetheless be legally "married"; they does no longer then, in turn, be allowed to marry every person they have been certainly romantically fascinated in without dissolving that partnership, with all of the criminal problems a divorce might reason. I recommend, i think if a brother/sister pair (or brother/brother or sister/sister, have been gay marriage criminal) had to flow into right into a lifelong, non-romantic criminal partnership, specific, they might conceivably call for they be granted marriage rights. yet such partnerships may well be particularly few and much between, as i think of the social stigma of stressful you be allowed to marry your sister might probable suppress that group. A extra pertinent question may well be on the thank you to deal with the form of individuals in a marriage. If marriage is opened up from the place it truly is now, then there is the question approximately even if if polyamorous unions might desire to be legally known. And if we then accelerated marriage to allow, say, 4 contributors, then what approximately polygamists who sense socially ostracized because of the fact they have a 5-way relationship? Polygamists and brothers wanting to marry their sisters, inspite of the undeniable fact that, symbolize a tiny, tiny fraction of yank society. Homosexuals, at the same time as nonetheless a minority, quantity a procedures better. beginning off up marriage to comparable-intercourse couples, i think, is the thank you to offer those romantic pairings the comparable criminal rights that are at the instant enjoyed by using comparable partnerships, at the same time as minimizing the substitute to the final device. specific, the "slippery slope" argument can nonetheless be utilized, yet basically because of the fact beginning off up marriage to homosexuals might open up a larger can of worms does no longer recommend it truly is no longer a solid and genuine subject to do.