Why can't they just relax and realize that just like they scratch their balls, and fart to wake you up, you are going to spend money, it's just the way it is. Some things are just not worth fighting about, we accept all the things that drive us crazy, why can't they?
2006-08-29 06:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Financial stability is important for a man. Having money in the bank for a rainy day or emergency is a smart and logical thing to do. It provides security and stability. It helps him sleep at night.
If he believes that you are out spending money on unnecessary things, it makes him uptight and uncomfortable because he sees it as you chipping away at that stability and security.
And farting and scratching his nuts doesn't cost money....
I think a women shop be allowed to shop....it makes you feel good. But it should be done in moderation.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 06:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one they are...MEN...and all men are like that although they may have plenty of money and it's okay they went out and bought a NEW JOHN DEERE LAWN MOWER "that the lawn people are going to use" but DANG IT IF you had to have those shoes that were 75.00 dollars...."Sorry personal experience"..I think they just don't realize alot of things.. Like what we do for them and how we tolerate some of there habits..so what if a girl wants to go to a yard sale,or window shop...My parents have been together forever and they still SPAT over money..I guess we as women just say yes honey..sure honey..and that's how it's going to be..unless you have a man that really cares nothing about money and in that case does he have any brothers..LOL..well I don't know if this has helped you much but personally I don't think it ever changes..
2006-08-29 06:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by crazyinlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it"s not that so much that guys get upset about you spending money,it"s just that at times you spend it on such frivolity.You don"t need a new outfit for every single event in your life,learn to rotate different pieces to make a new one,because it"s new does"nt mean it has to be bought,because she may have one i don"t necessarily have to have it as well.Don"t get me wrong,men will spend money to,only on different stuff and maybe not quite as much.PS:Try not to compare over spending with a natural bodily function.At least you hear a man"s and can take evasive action,your"s are seldom heard and often deadly.
2006-08-29 06:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by porkupuss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a guy thing but tell hi m us spending money is like football is to them especially that super bowll game and their favorite team is playing!
2006-08-29 06:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl dats a tough question??I thing majority of the guys out there have that prblm...My hobby and I hve the same prblm.....always frettin over me spending so much money.......Damm!!!!!!!!
Y cant they just grow up
2006-08-29 06:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make my own and spend my own and sometimes some of his too. Still pisses him off when I go shopping. It's a male hormone inbalance thing. Ignore it and do your own thing.
2006-08-29 06:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY don't you get a job for your spending money -- this is why Females are treated poorly in the first place.
2006-08-29 06:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't mind it when she spends her money, any more than she minds me spending my time. I don't ask her what she spends it on, and she doesn't ask me.
2006-08-29 07:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its OUR money you f*cking c*nt! i mean jesus christ! i work forty hours a week and if my gf was spending all of my money, i'd have a problem too! god i hate your feminist questions. go drown yourself. please. jesus may love you, but personally, i hope you get hit by a bus.
2006-08-29 06:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cuz they want what they want, but when it comes to US.....its too much....u got so many shoes.....u already got clothes.....but if THEY want something...oh, no! i gotts hsve it...theyre jerks....and they dont want US to look good cuz they insecure...little bacstards
2006-08-29 06:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by chi_town_traviesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋