What things do you do to show your spouse how special they are, how loved they are?

Question

It doesn't have to be big things, even little things can really touch the one you love. Please keep answers clean. I am curious in ways out side of physical intimacy only that you show your spouse how truly special and loved they are. Clean answers only, thanks. :)

Answer 1

Let me say that I hate frosting and chocolate. My husband made me a heart shaped cake without frosting. Then he made me chocolate chip cookies with no chips. This may seem stupid to some but that showed me how much he loved me. I am 35 and nobody has ever went through the trouble. Plus he is a singer, piano player and song writer. He has surprised me several times with special songs just for me. He has been playing with his band and dedicated a song just to me. He will send me an email when I am sleeping just to say I love you. He is a sweet guy and stopping on his way home and picking a wild flower is the sweetest thing ever.

Answer 2

Pay attention. Pay attention. Pay attention. THEN, use some of what you learned while paying attention.

ie: If your partner mentions something frequently or notices something on a commercial or while out and about, go get/do it for them (assuming it's not outside financial means). But try to surprise them, bring it home. Leave it on a counter.

For no holiday or special occasion, just randomly write them a lil' note or get a card and leave it someplace they will unexpectedly find it... like maybe when they are working or in their lunch (if they actually bring one!). Just be creative. Tell them thanks for something (big or small) they did or how much you still love them.

If she is always complaining about something being broke, get off your but and at least make an effort to fix it!

If she/he is tired or sore after work, give a hands or shoulder massage for a few minutes. You don't have to kill yourself, just give some personal touch, not the sexual intimate kind. The kind that says, "thank you for going through your daily routine"

Answer 3

Everyday I tell him I love him. When he get's home tier from work I open the door for him help him take off his cloths and shoes. Give him something to drink and have him sit and relax and watch TV. I also sometimes give him a full body massage with only candles on so he could relax a little better. I surprise him with candle light dinners and romantic music. I have done the bubble bath with rose peddles. I have done so many other things! I always come up with new things to do for the love of my life. Just because you get married doesn't mean the romance has to end. As a matter of fact it has just begun.

Answer 4

You must take care each other with full of love.You must give full attention to your spouse even a little things such as his/her hobby,his/her favourite meal/food,his/her daily needs,his/her birthday,his/her health,his/her dressess,his/her friends relation
ship,sharing to his/her problem solving,his/her future investment
,his/her family's (parents and sister/brother) difficulties,his/her career in the office,his/her own children caring etc
You must appreciate each other and do not humiliate each other
If you went out you must bring a souvenir for your spouse and chil dren..You must go out for dinner maybe once a week or you must cook a favourite meal for your spouse if you can and have enough time.All important decision should be discuss with your spouse before it is finalized. Once a month you should a plan to go out of your town to a place which pleasant for your spouse

Answer 5

I communicate with my husband all the time and no matter what bad or good time.My favorite thing that I did was 5 years ago my husband came home with a bad new about he may get laid off .His face was so unhappy and that moment I told him " You need to tell your boss takes your job to his A** and by the way, My wife is not afraid off being poor " my husband face was so release and he felt better and he still have his job until now.

Answer 6

I'll get the little things out of the way: saying thank you, a kiss on the cheek or mouth or forehead, a hug (bear or any other), to make a meal for them, to make tea (or whatever) for them as they watch TV. I'll probably think of more, but I'm thinking of what I would like right now/these days.

Answer 7

I always tell my husband that I love him every day. I tell him thank you for all he does for me and our family. I treat him to a date night once a month. I cook him special meals. I tell people I know that he is my angel from God and mean it. I let him know he is my best friend, my hero, and my knight in shining armor. I tell him I think he is sexy just the way he is. I don't get jealous if he looks at another women. I know that if he looks that he is appreciating more what he has at home. Most of all he knows he is wanted and needed in my life.

Answer 8

Send short love notes in his lunch box or brief case. Make a romatic dinner for him. Bake him something you know he'll like. Pick him up a small gift that you think he might enjoy. Just remind him you love him and how special he is.

Answer 9

I get a dvd that I know she would like to see and curl up with her on the couch.

I fold laundry without being asked.

I take our son out for a few hours so she can get some time for herself.

...just a few of the ways...

Answer 10

I cook my hubby a romantic candle lit dinner...so when he gets home he sees it and is just in awwe! Or i will show up at his job out of the blue and bring him his favorite lunch. something spontaneous thats fun and from the heart and he'll see that he is special and loved :o)