my husband is 7 years older, don't know if that's why he isn't that interested in sex or not but I'm frustrated! Anyone got suggestions?
2006-08-29 09:12:24 · 13 answers · asked by mom_of_5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-29 09:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by San s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have this problem myself. My man is 15 years older than me and I think this has something to do with it. I find him very sexy but I feel I overwhelm him at times and try not to because it can make the problem worse. Feelings get hurt on both sides. I'm assuming that you want to remain faithful to your husband so I would recommend sex toys. There are lots of really good ones out there and you can buy them discretely online. There is a good show on the channel oxygen with a woman named Sue about sex and she shows lots of sex toys and how to use them. Good luck!! I think society makes a big deal about men having such a strong sex drive and I don't feel that is completely the truth!! Women can have a very strong sex drive!! Good luck and try to be patient and loving. Believe me I know it can be frustrating. There is nothing wrong with you!
2006-08-29 09:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lyn G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got self belief that girls do have an extremely reliable sexchronic. I see 2 problems with why it is not often properly-known. a million. adult men get grew to become on in a minutes time. a woman sexual moments are geared up up. It starts off with the kiss once you get residing house from artwork. Then the compliment on the meal and the common touch and verbal exchange interior the direction of the night. a woman who's surpassed over all night has a perplexing time leaping to it. it sort of feels to me that it takes 2 minutes for a guy to be arranged . a woman is unlike that. 2. I even have self belief that the lives of maximum women are so busy that they are exhausted by utilising the time they retire with their honey. i comprehend there have been many situations that i might have enjoyed the attention and intercourse yet did no longer have the potential. perhaps if a woman's burden grow to be slightly lighter, issues may be slightly greater useful. i do no longer comprehend your difficulty, as a result i'm no longer judging you. yet, one element I see so often in this international is that adult men circulate to artwork, come residing house and play. women circulate to artwork, shelter the youngsters, sparkling, cook dinner and nevertheless are expected to place out. it is perplexing. i'm happy that your spouse is now able to start taking area in her intercourse existence. intercourse is a superb element and that i like it myself. i desire this helps you already know slightly.
2016-10-01 01:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my husband is 8 years older and going strong. I'm 28, he's 36 and I have absolutely zero sex drive.
2006-08-29 09:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I had a stronger sex drive than my husband and he was 3 years younger. The only thing is that you can do introduce toys to your sessions. The toys are something you can do with him or without him.
2006-08-29 09:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think age is the reason. My husband is 10 years older then me and his sex drive is still sky high. I am 37 and he is going to be 47. Do not blame yourself it could be a physical problem he has. He should go see his doctor.
2006-08-29 09:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a mom of 5, sounds like you have been getting busy. My drive is stronger than my wife's. It can be frustrating.
2006-08-29 09:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you find some help. I am in the same situation, my husband is also 7 years older and i thought it was just some thing i was doing wrong.
2006-08-29 09:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by nikkie_girl_77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, my husband's drive is as low as mine... Once or twice a month is about as much as we can handle! Don't feel bad, some people have a low drive naturally. I guess, you just have to initiate more often, and not count on him to be the "agressor".
2006-08-29 09:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
masterbation. I have a strong sex drive so I masterbate daily and it seems to level it out some. We still do it but I love doing myself also. The I masterbate and we have sex at the same time and that rocks. best of both worlds.
2006-08-29 09:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by BettieRulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My new guy keeps looking at me strang and saying "your just like me" I finnally got him to elaberate and he said I was a guy in a beautiful woman's body. That I wanted sex as much or more than him. Aren't I the lucky one. Try a rabbit. they are the very best, for you and him.
2006-08-29 09:17:35 · answer #11 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋