if a husband suddenly wants to be private about his finances, cell phone and email (knowing his wife was suspicious of him before and found small things) why is he pressing forward to stay in the marriage and to move into a new home with her?
hence he's been married before, has children and one on the way with his current wife. this is his wife's first for everything (marriage, child and new home)
2006-08-29 09:19:31 · 4 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he feels you're too nosey, and he simply wants more privacy. I can tell you, I've got nothing to hide, but I'm not going to let my husband check my e-mail, and there's NO WAY I'm going to snoop around in his. In fact, we have separate computers. Finances - I don't know, if you have joint finances, then how can he be "private" about his. If you have an arrangement where they're completely or partially separate - then why would you be interested in "his" part of it, unless you mistrusted him, and wanted to snoop around? I don't know, perhaps he has given you serious reasons to mistrust him and suspect he might be doing something behind your back. If so, bring it up with him in the open - but don't simply demand access to all his private stuff. We all need some degree of privacy, even in marriage.
2006-08-29 09:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move into the new home, hire a private eye, get the evidence you need, go to court , divorce his a^^ t hen you'll have the house, he'll have to pay child support and alimony and you get the last laugh. Don't be a da&% victum. Take charge. Don't you hate that someone has control over what your future will be?
2006-08-29 16:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by cindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something! Red flag!
2006-08-29 16:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too... He sounds fishy. She should be very careful.
2006-08-29 16:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋