my fiance and I have been together for 2 and a half years.. Recently I discoverd his ex girlfriends cell number and work number stored on his phone.. He says he hasnt talked to her in a long time. I can't seem to stop thinking about it, even though he always tells me he only loves me and denies speaking to her.. I don't know what to do.. Should I confront her or believe him and let it go?
2006-08-29 09:47:18 · 14 answers · asked by Tracy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do want to trust him.. I love him dearly and he does treat me very well.. I just can't understand why he would have her cell and work number if he isnt talking to her.. Other than him being at work were always together...
2006-08-29 10:15:12 · update #1
If you suspect something you are probably on target.
We women have a sixth sense about these things.
Problem is what will you do if he is cheating?
2006-08-29 10:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself this: If he hasn't talked to her in a long time then why are her numbers still stored in his phone? They probably still talk to each other. The only way to find out is to check his phone records and statements for calls to and from his ex. Asking him will not always work. Do you honestly think he will tell you the truth if he knew you would be angry with him?
2006-08-29 17:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have trust in your relationship or it just wont work becaue then you will always be thinking is he doing something!! But if it is bothering you that much you feel like you have to know you can just call her and see if he has been talking to her and if she says yes then ask him why did he have to hide it!! Make sure you ask her nice because she didnt do anything to you he did!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-29 16:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno. I've been trying like hell not to spy on my girlfriends phone, but I do occasionally and I always find something on there I don't like. It comes down to whether you trust them or not. Has he ever given you reason to think hes cheated other than the phone? If not, then stop snooping. Its hard, but you can do it.
2006-08-29 16:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by SillyBilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at his cell phone call log...(on phone or on his bill)...that will tell you if he's used the number or not...
2006-08-29 17:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his phone bills for any calls made or received from her. That's how I caught my husband and I even found pictures on his phone all thanks to the Internet.
2006-08-29 16:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be wary!
I know guys who try to get some last licks in before marriage.
2006-08-29 16:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by hellsbells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up, dear, if he has her number stored then he is seeing her on the side.
2006-08-29 16:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her, and let her know that your going to be married..
2006-08-29 17:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check his phone records!!! and see if it shows he has been calling her !!!
2006-08-29 16:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by bdmrplemons 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋