Marriage & Divorce - 21 August 2006

What should I do? I have 2 wonderful kids by my new husband but he doesnt look at me the same anymore and he says he does but I dont see it. I know I have put on some weight but I have also been pregnant 2 in 2 years. What should I do to spice up my life. I also have a lot on my plate and we dont do much like we use too.

2006-08-21 20:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by Rose R 1

I have been with my high school sweetheart for almost 15 years. In the past 7 years or so, we have gradually drifted apart. We argue about anything and everything when we're together, and I no longer look forward to spending time with him. In fact, I embrace my solitude nowadays. Our relationship has become a habit, a convenience. There's no longer any passion, not even an easy companionship or stimulating conversation. Over the years, we've both changed without realizing we've become strangers. We're good people...maybe just not good for each other.

I frequently contemplate ending this relationship, but I'm finding it difficult because I still care...for what was, what I had hoped we'd become. I've communicated my feelings many times, but things remain the same. When we spend "quality" time with each other, we end up arguing. I continue to be unhappy. What should I do?

2006-08-21 20:10:57 · 27 answers · asked by Jade 1

It is ridiculous, and if she doesn't lose some weight soon I will keep lookin for prettier women on the side. How can I get her into the gym?

2006-08-21 20:03:27 · 28 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-21 19:54:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-21 19:41:30 · 7 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-21 19:36:56 · 30 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I am good hearted interesting guy, look young too. My relationships tend to last about a year, lots of them shorter than that. I either find reasons why she is not the one or if there is love in the beginning I loose interest or get accusative. I wish I could change this, because I am depressed recently at losing another one, and the lonliness plus my age is really bringing me down. I can't fake attraction and I need a woman to be both physically and mentally attractive. Is there much hope for someone like me to still find a stable and loving relationship leading to marriage?

2006-08-21 19:27:55 · 12 answers · asked by czesc2u 2

what is worse verbal of mental abuse? Can you have someone arrested for verbal abuse/

2006-08-21 19:13:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-08-21 18:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by elharb2003 1

my wife is constanly going out every night its the gym or getting nails hair done or buying clothes going shopping she is hardly ever home.I do the majority of the house work inside and out cook clean laundry and spend a great deal of my off time being the slave of the hosue,she doesnt help with much of anything. she tells me to go out with friends she has a problem im always home but i am not living in a dirty messed up house i enjoy working in my yard but doing all the inside work is really wearing on me i cant take it anymore i think we need to discuss a limit on her outside activities also on sunday night she never stays home always has to go meet her single friends for coffee and hang out never wants to have a normal evening dinner and watch a movie and relax i feel like im living with a teenager what can i do please help

2006-08-21 18:55:06 · 7 answers · asked by alldayworker 1

i need some advice. i am so very jealous of all the girls that my b/f talks to. it is ruining our relationship. what can i do?

2006-08-21 18:35:42 · 22 answers · asked by vomit heart 2

i have some of my ex's

2006-08-21 18:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by asp 1

I AM 25 AND FAITHFUL TO MY HUSBAND BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE IS DOING THE SAME.

2006-08-21 18:17:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell out of love with my husband a long time ago. I am pretty sure I am in love with another man. It is someone I have known for about 27 years and we rediscovered each other a few years ago. All my children are grown and I feel like if I stay here I'll go insane. The other guy and I have only talked so far,but we both want more. What should I do?

2006-08-21 18:11:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i get my husband to have sex with me more often?(more than once a week?)

2006-08-21 18:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by carmilla_delioncourt 3

That Day

I will never forget that day,
we stood in front of the Lord and said I do.

It was the happiest and loveliest day of my life,
because the dream that I’ve wished for, came true.

There is no greater feeling on earth,
than for a man, to let his love flow like a stream.

To be able to love and hold his wife at night,
and to wake up, next to his dream.

Of all these wonderful years I have loved her,
in so many precious and beautiful ways.

I will never forget the day she married me,
and that day, the Lord took my wife and child away.


By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

2006-08-21 18:03:45 · 7 answers · asked by Cobra 5

CAN'T GET OVER LAST MARRIAGE. nO IT WASNT A MUTUAL DESICION TO DIVORCE, WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED HE FILED AFTER 1 MONTH OF SEPERATION. WS WAITH HIM FOR 15 YEARS. CURRENT HUSBAND IS VERBAL ABUSIVE AND HARD TO BE AROUND! i JUST AM LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY TO EX TO SEE HOW HE FEELS, SISTER VISITED HIM AND HE ASKED HOW I WAS, SO i NO HE STILL THINKS OF ME. wHAT COULD I SAY TO HIM TO SEE HOW HE FEELS NOW, LIKE HINT AROUND IF HE REGRETS THE DIVORCE!!

2006-08-21 18:00:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 29 yrs, i was married 30 months ago. we were living a happy life. my wife was working as chemist in a company. i am working in a school as librarian. but due to some problems with my wife left me also i later discovered that she was ringing her home daily from her office to her parents. one day i also felt there was some thing wrong i recorded one of her relative phone call and i discovered that she was betraying me although i told that i will not tell any one please cooperate with me. she also promised but one day her father came to take her & she told her father that she don't want to stay with me

2006-08-21 18:00:18 · 23 answers · asked by vivek 1

If your wife leaves you and files for divorce how much does it usually cost her? what does the husband have to pay if he wants nothing to do with the divorce and does not fight it?
What if you dont have the $$ to pay for it since your wife left you to pay for everything you guys had together on your own? Do you still have to come up with the $$?

2006-08-21 17:56:46 · 10 answers · asked by althor989 1

CAN'T GET OVER LAST MARRIAGE. nO IT WASNT A MUTUAL DESICION TO DIVORCE, WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED HE FILED AFTER 1 MONTH OF SEPERATION. WS WAITH HIM FOR 15 YEARS. CURRENT HUSBAND IS VERBAL ABUSIVE AND HARD TO BE AROUND! i JUST AM LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY TO EX TO SEE HOW HE FEELS, SISTER VISITED HIM AND HE ASKED HOW I WAS, SO i NO HE STILL THINKS OF ME. wHAT COULD I SAY TO HIM TO SEE HOW HE FEELS NOW, LIKE HINT AROUND IF HE REGRETS THE DIVORCE!!

2006-08-21 17:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year, I spent too much money on something he never uses. He likes any kind of gadgets, computer stuff, video games, hates sports but loves to run and be outdoors. He also loves sex so I guess I can't go wrong there. What would you want from your wife for your birthday, and ladies, what have you gotten your husband for his birthday or any ideas?

2006-08-21 17:49:25 · 12 answers · asked by bittersweet_symphon_y 2

2006-08-21 17:49:24 · 7 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2

What can your spouse or girl friend do to prevent you from cheating on them? and why do you guys look at other girls? is it possible for a man to never cheat?

2006-08-21 17:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by pinky31 1

my parents divorced when I was 3. Since then my mother remarried and my father has been dating one woman for 19yrs. He cried in the courts and he was upset when whe remarried, telling her she would always be his wife. We moved around alot but ended up having a house built across the street from my biological father three years ago. (I know weird huh?) a little over a month ago my step father passed away and I cannot help but have these thoughts of my parents rekinding what they had many years ago? I feel bad because he is not even settled in the grave but i cannot shake these thoughts......
What are you thoughts?

2006-08-21 17:21:56 · 25 answers · asked by STAR 1

My wife is living with me (on and off). I need her to move out because I can not afford all the bills alone.She comes and goes as she pleases but no longer pitches in for our monthly bills. Our home is leased and the home owner has put the new lease in my name only to try and help me in my situation.

2006-08-21 17:19:28 · 33 answers · asked by ttwc1soonerfan 1

I have a friend who has been married for 14 years. They have 3 children together and seem to be ok on the outside. But the problem is,the wife has put up with constant lies such as her husband's over use of drugs from marijauna, coke, crack, to pills. He has an addictive personality as we call it. When he cheated he said it was due to an addiction to sex. As time has rocked on, the woman has told him to leave a few times but the children seemt o pressure her into letting him come home after he parties and she sits home with the children. He goes to the strip clubs and hangs out with all his drug headed buddies. I don't really know what to tell her. She knows how I feel so I thought I would ask you all. Now, it seems my friend has met a man who makes her very happy. She thinks of him all the time and she wants to be with him but because of her children she stays with their dad. How can I let her see it is ok for her to be happy?

2006-08-21 17:11:24 · 29 answers · asked by *•measineed2be*• 2

I am 57 years old and my husband said that I am not beautiful. I think that for a woman of my age I am pretty but what you think?

2006-08-21 17:04:16 · 46 answers · asked by Eva Artemus 1

I really regret not making my last marriage work, I really miss and love him. Would it be stupid of me to let my ex no how I feel?

2006-08-21 16:58:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-21 16:58:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is very controlling, insecure and paranoid (of me cheating on him, which I have never done) I have no friends at all, I only talk to him evryday, I dont work because he gets pissed off and when I mention I want a job he says why do you need a job (he makes over a hundred grand yearly) or he thinks I will leave, plus he will lose his power if I have my own money, so I dont work, I also dont have a car (I have asked for one many times) It also doesnt help when 2 of his friends wives got almost new SUVs. I dont have a life, and I am getting very angry with him, he is very immature, tells me to shutup, tells me I talk stupid or just plain forgets anything I say. My problem is I cant leave because we have a kid and he tells me I wont get custody because I dont work, he tells me to **** off basically.
I am ready to do something drastic like hurt him pysically because I have alot of anger for him. BTW, he choked (and tried to kill me) when I was 8 months pregnant, need help.

2006-08-21 16:56:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous