CAN'T GET OVER LAST MARRIAGE. nO IT WASNT A MUTUAL DESICION TO DIVORCE, WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED HE FILED AFTER 1 MONTH OF SEPERATION. WS WAITH HIM FOR 15 YEARS. CURRENT HUSBAND IS VERBAL ABUSIVE AND HARD TO BE AROUND! i JUST AM LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY TO EX TO SEE HOW HE FEELS, SISTER VISITED HIM AND HE ASKED HOW I WAS, SO i NO HE STILL THINKS OF ME. wHAT COULD I SAY TO HIM TO SEE HOW HE FEELS NOW, LIKE HINT AROUND IF HE REGRETS THE DIVORCE!!
2006-08-21 17:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cant you just divorce the verbal abuser & be single awhile? Why jump back & forth??
2006-08-21 18:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad, I am so sorry to hear that your current husband is verbally abusive towards you. I think the first thing you need to do is to leave him before he destroys you and you begin to believe the horrible things he probably says about you. I am sure your sister will support you in this. Reading between the lines I am wondering whether you are a little frightened of being on your own and that may be why you are so interested what your ex husband thinks about you. Give yourself a little space and " you time " as you need time for your soul to heal, you never know things may then turn out the way you would like them to but please take things slowly. I wish you lots of best wishes and happiness.
2006-08-21 18:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the first thing you should do is leave your current husband and try to be single for a while. Even if you and your ex end up together, there will still be a possibility that you end up divorcing again. Learn to love yourself first and live without any emotional baggage for a while. Then if you think your ready, try to be friends with your ex first...Then see what happens next...Believe in Fate and have Faith:) God Bless
2006-08-21 18:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone always takes the easy path and doesnt stick to promises
2006-08-21 18:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 18:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋