what is acceptable when wanting to go out with friends or hang out go to the gym or shopping when married?

Question

my wife is constanly going out every night its the gym or getting nails hair done or buying clothes going shopping she is hardly ever home.I do the majority of the house work inside and out cook clean laundry and spend a great deal of my off time being the slave of the hosue,she doesnt help with much of anything. she tells me to go out with friends she has a problem im always home but i am not living in a dirty messed up house i enjoy working in my yard but doing all the inside work is really wearing on me i cant take it anymore i think we need to discuss a limit on her outside activities also on sunday night she never stays home always has to go meet her single friends for coffee and hang out never wants to have a normal evening dinner and watch a movie and relax i feel like im living with a teenager what can i do please help

Answer 1

Comprimise...you seem like to two people with two quite different personalities. You need to talk to each other and establish some "rules" which will make you both feel comfortable and accepted. As a couple, I agree, you need to spend more time together to invest in your relationship... It is also important to allow each other space to grow individually, but your wife seems to be overdoing it.

Talk to her and focus on the positive things of what you DO want, don't fight about what you do not want.

Answer 2

You need to discuss this with your wife. But do it in a loving way. explain to her that you would like to spend more time with her and that you got married so you wouldn't have to live the single life. You wanted a companion and she's not living like one. My husband would be very hurt if I did what she is doing. If you guys are going to go out you need to go out together.

Answer 3

She sounds like a teenager.
I raised three kids and I went out with my friends....maybe once every two years.
With her, I would say once a week at the most. She is definatly out of control. I don't think she understands what marriage is.

You might need some marital counseling.
I wouldnl't put up with it much longer.

Answer 4

Prepare yourself for a divorce. That means separate bank accounts and see a lawyer.
She has already left your marriage. I know how it is... you think.. is there something wrong? is she just in a bad mood? was it something I said. The truth is she hates your guts and is just waiting for the right time to take you down.

Answer 5

You and she need counselling. What she is doing is very wrong. She is behaving as if she is single. She is very irresponsible.

Answer 6

you are not speaking the same love language....
please read.....

The five love languages

Answer 7

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