CAN'T GET OVER LAST MARRIAGE. nO IT WASNT A MUTUAL DESICION TO DIVORCE, WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED HE FILED AFTER 1 MONTH OF SEPERATION. WS WAITH HIM FOR 15 YEARS. CURRENT HUSBAND IS VERBAL ABUSIVE AND HARD TO BE AROUND! i JUST AM LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT WORDS TO SAY TO EX TO SEE HOW HE FEELS, SISTER VISITED HIM AND HE ASKED HOW I WAS, SO i NO HE STILL THINKS OF ME. wHAT COULD I SAY TO HIM TO SEE HOW HE FEELS NOW, LIKE HINT AROUND IF HE REGRETS THE DIVORCE!!
2006-08-21 18:00:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to him
2006-08-21 18:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is live well and not ask about him. Yes, it's true, if he asked about you, then he probably thinks about you from time to time. I'm just not convinced it has anything to do with getting back together. He might have simply been making conversation. As for the new hubby? Honey, why are you subjecting yourself to this? You know darn well that if it were someone else on here asking the same question, you'd be telling her to leave. Take the advice you'd probably give...dump the new hubby and quit worrying about what the old hubby would think...it doesn't matter anymore unless you are the one having the regrets. And if that's the case, you are never going to know unless you leave the current hubby and make yourself available anyway.
2006-08-21 18:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you still feel this way for him if current marriage was Good? How about ask him how he feels about you? Or what made him leave in the first place? After 15 years of being together communication should not be a problem for you. Regardless of the exes feelings if current situation is that bad you should get out of it.
2006-08-21 18:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by gros_420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur current hubby is verbally abusive, leave. nobody needs that kind of negativity, EVER...! As 4 ur ex hubby, be single & enjoy life, do things u have always wanted to do, be the kind of person that he does`nt want to miss out on, try to be friends with ex hubby, and he might c the the person he origionally fell in love with. Or u could get out there & meet somebody new.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 18:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by imyagoodluckcharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come straight out and ask him stop beating around the bush. And if your with someone thats verbally abusive get away or get help fast before it turns to physical abuse.good luck!
2006-08-21 18:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could a total courtesy question about a old acquintant. Don't put the hope so high.
First off, just break off this abusive relationship and be independant.
Rebuild your life instead of putting hope on somethng so far remote.
2006-08-21 18:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. You were with him for 15 years, you should be able to talk to him about anything now. Go for it. And don't put up with your current husbands sh*t. Life's too short for that. Good Luck.
2006-08-21 18:06:28 · answer #7 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some issues you need to resolve. Why would you want to go back to your ex?
If this marriage doesn't work out. How about spending some time working on yourself?
2006-08-21 18:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce your current and try to be single for a while. If you are meant to be with your first husband, fate will just intervene because you are destined to be together:)
2006-08-21 18:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose both of them and take your time looking for the next guy. Theres no reson to put up with abuse in any form.
2006-08-21 18:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Titanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a simple how are you doing. you guys need to talk about it, find the right moment. Timing in a relationship is everything
2006-08-21 18:04:58 · answer #11 · answered by iseestupidpeopleeverywhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋