2006-08-21 16:58:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PLEASE TELL me why?
2006-08-21 17:01:49 · update #1
I haven't cheated on my current bf but I did cheat on my ex and I felt terrible about it. It took me three years to apologize but I finally did it this year. Why did I cheat? I was immature and scared! He wanted to marry me adn I just wasn't ready for that. I wish things could have happened differently but I beleive that everything happens for a reason. I guess another reason I cheated was because this guy that I was interested in before him finally showed some interest back and when oppurtonity knocks... you have to open the door.
2006-08-21 17:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO & I never will. I love him more than anything in world. You only cheat when your with the wrong person it may have nothing at all to do with them..but more with you. If your not happy then you do it I guess. I treat my husband the same way I want to be treated. If your not happy in a relationship then why not just let it go instead of cheating on them? By letting them go, your doing them a HUGE favor in the long run. And I don't want to hear no BULLSH*T excuses like Well, I have kids I can't leave. Get off your A$$ and get a job then you can fu*k whoever you want and still support your kids. Sorry but cheating just really irks me. It's like marriage means nothing anymore.
2006-08-21 17:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, i cheated on my ex partner of 3 years i cheated beacause he worked alot and never paid me as much compliments as i was needing at the time as i was so unhappy with my work. i met a guy while at a club one night and gave him my number which i knew was wrong we started texting and i said i had a partner he was spewing that i hadn't told him earlier, anyway to make a long story short i was seeing both for 6 months on knew the other didn't. it was the hardest thing i have ever had to do it broke my heart to leave my ex but i had tainted that love and i couldn't live with that so i am with the other guy now we have been together a year and a half we are engaged and i'm very happy often think of the ex but know that i have made the right decision. the ex never found out luckly it would just gut me if he did. cheating is a bad way to go about things i have leart my lesson and hope like hell it never happens to me.
2006-08-21 21:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did, ten years ago after we were together for five.
Basically b/c he acted like I didn't exist,ever, emotionally, physically absent from our relationship. His work was his most important asset and made no bones about it. I worked nights at the hospital and started to go out with some other coworkers and that's when it all started. someone took an interest in me and I fed off of it.
I don't feel guilty honestly, it was what it was....I never told him, came close to it, but after all this time our relationship has improved, we have two amazing kids and a strong marriage.
For all of you out there ready to bash me, I owe none of you an explanation, religion, ethics, blah blah blah, we live and learn and thankfully it happened way before a house, kids and all the other things that can make matters a whole lot worse.
2006-08-21 17:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by flipit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of Cassie hit the nail on the pinnacle. I continually reported l does no longer yet after years and years of no longer getting any affection or interest and being made to experience under a woman, somebody got here alongside and swept me off my feet. It grow to be a fling no longer an affair and while it complete 4 months down the line l did no longer experience remorseful approximately or felt to blame. in the previous you ask, l have talked and talked or perhaps written to my husband, expressing how l felt and how depressing l grow to be that we had no actual courting and we've been no longer intimate. yet besides the shown fact that he promised he could try greater stable he didnt worry. i'm nonetheless with my husband and l in all probability will continually be, we've 27 years at the same time, yet for me those 4 months have been only what l needed, it restored my self belief and self esteem. i did no longer love the guy, l did no longer even fancy the guy, yet he flattered me, listened to what l had to assert, made me experience suited and suited and enjoyed and that's what l needed at that distinctive 2nd of my existence. i'm going to never tell my husband and l don't experience remorseful approximately or guilt over it. I bowled over even myself as l grow to be continually of the never camp. Will l do it returned, l doubt it very lots. Have issues more suitable with my husband on the actual ingredient - NO. yet l have moved on in my existence and different issues are becoming to be greater substantial to me.
2016-11-05 08:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated after 13 years of marriage.
2006-08-21 17:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IVE BEEN with my fiance for 11 to 12 years now just engaged recently never did i love him why would i go do something like that if im not happy ill let him know and go on my way honesty is the best because you always get caught!!!!
2006-08-21 17:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by angel74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! he is the best thing that has happened in my life besides my children. If you cheat then you didn't want to be with that person in the first place. I don't have any respect for people who cheat and i really don't have any respect for the person that they are cheating if they know that that person is in another relationship.
2006-08-21 20:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by piperandfrog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated on my husband I have had thoughts of doing it. Just because he has cheated on my in the past. But I just don't think that it's right for me to cheat on him just for that.
2006-08-21 17:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope but i can tell u why most women do.. because most men after they get married forget what all they had to do to get us married to them, they usually were very attentive to their womans emotional needs, they catered to us out of the fear of losing us, maded us feel needed, wanted and lusted after, then u get married, and men tend to become routine, stop being attentive , stop making us feel like the girl on the pedestal we once were to u, and she ends up feeling depressed, then along comes some guy, makes her feel interesting again, beautiful, have self worth, and he pays her alot of attention.. and ends up filling the void that the husband wasnt filling..
90% of women that cheat is because their husbands arent fulfilling their emotional needs in one way shape or form.. its not a physical lust that they tend to crave (although for some it may be.) but most its the need to feel special again..
2006-08-21 17:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋