It is ridiculous, and if she doesn't lose some weight soon I will keep lookin for prettier women on the side. How can I get her into the gym?
2006-08-21 20:03:27 · 28 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh noez!!11one 150ibs? My GOD, you have a WHALE on your hands! You'd better call Ishmael! Here comes Moby!
Seriously, though...It sounds like your wife has a D!CK on her hands, if you ask me. You should divorce her, because she deserves better than you. You're a shallow jerk. 150 may be overweight, but she's NOT obese unless she's 5'0 or shorter. And even then, 150 is NOT THAT BIG. For goodness sakes, most people complain if their spouse goes over 200. You're complaining when she's 150? I'd tell you to gently nudge her in the right direction, but you do NOT deserve her. Divorce her. Seriously. Don't make her stay with a loser like you.
I can't believe how incredibly shallow you are. If you're basing the relationship solely on appearance, like you OBVIOUSLY are, then you don't deserve to even BE married. You're not mature enough for it!
2006-08-21 20:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Eri 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No one likes someone that lets themselves go, but no one likes someone that tells them to do something.
Why not be a real husband and join the gym with her. I guarantee she didn't do it on purpose to turn you off. Now is the time to be a supportive spouse and show her how to get it all together.
Her weight bothers her more than it does you...most likely. However, just demanding that she lose weight is a lose-lose situation. And if you cheap on her...you are the slimy one. What kind of love is that.
I would be strongly turned off too if a spouse let themselves go...but I would feel it was my duty to fix the problem..not make it worse by acting like she is an awful person.
Be mature and help her. If she is resistant it is because you hurt her feelings. Consider it the greatest task you can do for you wife. Love her and help her get healthy. It lowers her chances of heart disease as well as diabetes.
Be a husband and help. Don't condemn. Don't tell her anything you aren't willing to do. And remember women naturally put on weight easier than a guy...that is because they are built to support children. So be gentle and patient.
2006-08-21 20:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were married to someone like you, why would I even bother to go to the gym?
I have a shallow, superficial loser for a hubby. Its not worth the effort.
If I ever do, I'd do it for myself so I can find a better man than you.
What's more sad is you want her to lose weight for all the superficial reasons!!!
If you wanted an eye candy forever and ever, you should've gotten a mannequin instead of marrying someone.
Anyway, maybe you're the fatass that's why she's not motivated to lose weight. Otherwise, people would start asking whats a hottie like her doing with an SOB like you.
Peace out!
2006-08-21 20:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-21 21:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by rubeeg2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have very serious problems with women, in attitude and action, which makes you a very ugly man, to whom I doubt "prettier women" would be attracted.
On her way to the gym, your wife should take a detour through the divorce attorney's office.
You are a chauvinistic, condescending neanderthal!
2006-08-21 20:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, YOU are ridiculous. It's pigs like you who are the reason for anorexia. You can't even say she's overweight, you have to call her a fatass? Right, well I bet you are no Tom Cruise yourself.
Anyway, why look for prettier women? They will never look back at you.
2006-08-21 20:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Scheherazade 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi
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2006-08-22 02:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop buying her food.
I mean buy healthy food for the whole family. Do exercise TOGETHER (It will make her lose weight and make you fit also). She also gets to spend time with you that way.. yaay lucky her..
We are living in an Obese era. 150lbs doesn't seem fat anymore. But I think if she looks fat, then she IS fat. No point in denial. We are too sensitive.
Also you can make one of your friends come over and tell her she looks fat. That will surely make her hit the gym :)
2006-08-21 20:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Vitamin C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She should get as far away from you as possible. Then when she regains her self esteem, she will lose the weight and find a real man to be with.
2006-08-21 20:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love her more and she will lose weight, just like that. Try being happy with her size. Its all in the mind.
2006-08-21 20:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by tomnjerry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋