Do you think that I am Sexy?

Question

I am 57 years old and my husband said that I am not beautiful. I think that for a woman of my age I am pretty but what you think?

I need you to be honest

Answer 1

I'm a guy, 58, and I think you look just fine. A bigger picture would help though...

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and in this case the only one who counts is YOU.

I think you need to talk this over with your husband. There must be some reason WHY he said this to you. Is there some underlying problem he feels and is using this as an escape mechanism to provoke you into a response? People say hurtful things sometimes because they can not atriculate the real problem.

Answer 2

If you're sexy, you're sexy! What I think at half your age is just innappropriate in this case. However, if you've still got the spark, you deserve to have your fire fanned.

Your husband is probably feeling kind of old, which is natural. Maybe some of the various available supplements could sharpen him up. I'm not gonna tell you to run around the house in panties all the time, but some creative seducing might be in order. If he won't pop pills, slip 'im a mickey.

I'm sure you're wonderful and wish you the best!

Zorb

Answer 3

Eva, FIRST of all you are looking to the WRONG place for the answer to such an important issue as the relationship you have with your husband! And I believe THE WAY in which you are going about "asking" is COMPLETELY off base! By posting a half naked photo of yourself on here, all you have REALLY accomplished is DEGRADING the true beauty of being a WOMAN! Because "beauty" that is REAL beauty is MORE than "skin deep". You have opened yourself up to all of the SELF CENTERED FOOLS like the ones on here who have said, in essence, "Hey baby! Let ME see more flesh! Wear a thong and a much skimpier bra", etc. Those wolves know NOTHING of true feminine beauty which is really a matter of THE HEART! That being said, I would say that if what you are saying is true, then your husband is AN INSENSITIVE FOOL who needs to OPEN HIS EYES and WAKE UP to the fact that GOD HAS BLESSED HIM WITH WHAT SHOULD BE IN HIS EYES THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ON EARTH.....HIS DEAR WIFE! He is taking you for granted, and the fact that you feel SO DESPARATE that you would subject yourself to the HUMILIATION AND EMBARASSMENT of putting a half naked pic on here for PERVERTS to ogle over, that tells me that YOUR HUBBY has some REAL DEEP ISSUES OF THE HEART! And he BETTER wake up in short fashion, or he will LOSE YOU to one of the Devil's WOLVES who WILL tell you you're beautiful and "sweet talk you" just to USE YOU! You are obviously EMOTIONALLY VULNERABLE....again, posting that pic on here, NOT GOOD! But the MAIN thing I want to say to BOTH of you is the ONLY one who can really fix the mess that your marriage is in is JESUS CHRIST, THE AUTHOR OF MARRIAGE! Let Him do a real work of SAVING GRACE in your hearts! And I guarantee you will see a real RENEWAL in your marriage! It's obvious you care about this, but really, you need to PRAY AND SEEK GOD'S GUIDANCE! And look to THE BIBLE rather than the forum of PUBLIC OPINION! And find a good BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH with a Pastor who can give you SOUND COUNSEL! God loves you! And by the way, ONLY YOUR HUSBAND should see your nakedness!

Answer 4

I think you need to remember that you are 57, things change. Also, beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder. Maybe your husband needs glasses.

Answer 5

Firstly I think your husband is digusting to say such things to you - is he such a handsome hunk ?!!!!!! Sexuality comes from the brain, you either have it or you haven't, someone may be beautiful but not be sexy. No-one can make themselves look sexy if they haven't got it. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Now I am going to be really honest, you do not look sexy in white, maybe you should try wearing some lacy lingerie in black and red, it's far more seductive.

Answer 6

for 57 Yes!

Answer 7

I think you look like a beautiful fairy godmother. You're well proportioned for your age. The only thing I don't get about older women is why you cut your hair off? Grow out your hair and dye it some gypsy red. Tell your husband his balls aren't so smooth anymore either!

Answer 8

Posting pictures and asking questions on the web is the wrong way to look for approval. Sure the picture is good, but there's a bigger problem in your relationship. What does your husband think of the photo? What turns him on? What turns both of you on?

Gotta get you guys communicating again.

Answer 9

He's probably bored with you after being married to you for many years. Rejuvenate yourself by getting some sunshine and working on a tan. It's free, easy and make your body look better naked.

I think that you could be very sexy.

Answer 10

I hope at 57 i look as good as u, tell ur husband to go get on viagra and stop using ur looks as an excuse because "HE" cant get it up lol..