Marriage & Divorce - 21 August 2006

My egotistical aquarian wife left me (scorpion) & my son after an argument, we had yesterday. She's at her mother's place and has not called to check even abouth the health of my 3 year old son (who has not been keeping well for about a week now). Is this because of the wrong match of the zodiac signs? Ours was an arranged marriage. 75% of our 4 year marriage life has been riddled with arguments, ego clash and fights. I still love her and know that she does too, but the inflated egos are hard to burst. Somebody help suggest a way to reconcile or should I call it quits?

2006-08-21 10:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by RARAMON 1

I have known my girlfriend for 6 months and been going out with her for 2 months. She did an university project with her previous boyfriend 1 year ago. Yesterday she rang her ex-boyfriend to get details of this project. She did not actaully speak to him. Put the phone down before he answered. He walked out on her.

She told me about this. I became really upset. She has spent all of yesterday and today trying to reassure me that she feels nothing for him and that she loves me. Should I believe her?

2006-08-21 10:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by TRH 1

I have known my girlfriend for 6 months and been going out with her for 2 months. She did an university project with her previous boyfriend 1 year ago. Yesterday she rang her ex-boyfriend to get details of this project. She did not actaully speak to him. Put the phone down before he answered. He walked out on her.

She told me about this. I became really upset. She has spent all of yesterday and today trying to reassure me that she feels nothing for him and that she loves me. Should I believe her?

2006-08-21 10:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by TRH 1

I usually have a good instinct about these things, and if he IS cheating, he is hiding it well. It just seems that he is working late an awful lot, and the girl in the upstairs apartment seems to appear everytime he steps outside and dissapears as soon as I come out there with him.

2006-08-21 10:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-21 10:21:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have asked my husband a few times if he prefers if I shaved my pubic area. All I get from him is I haven't decided yet. Guys, What do you prefer? And women, what is the best product out there to use for hair removal from in this area?

2006-08-21 10:16:41 · 14 answers · asked by gin 4

2006-08-21 10:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by marie123 1

Do you file in the county you were married in?

2006-08-21 10:10:02 · 1 answers · asked by sfrantz77 1

i'm 44 married 20 years. very sexually adventerous. want to get a sex swing. is this insane? has anyone used one? is it as fun as it looks?

2006-08-21 10:06:10 · 13 answers · asked by scooter trash 2

I have been married for 3 years and i am very happy but i am very curious about other women and how it would feel to be with them. i enjoy sex with my husband but wondering about other stuff. so if you have had sex with a women tell me how you went about finding her.

2006-08-21 10:03:53 · 3 answers · asked by blue eyes angel 1

He is always yelling at me about the bills not being able to get payed and he refuses to go to work all the time....if he misses work we dont get paid...then when I cant pay a bill or we are in the red then he yells and screams and yells at me demanding an answer to why we are in the red and blames me......I dont know what to do I guess I need some advice on how to talk to him without screaming back and how to do our finances...when our bills exceed his paycheck what do I do? I dont know...thanks Oh and I dont want a divorce my kids have already been there and I want to make this work but dont know how

2006-08-21 10:00:32 · 32 answers · asked by tinker143 5

he wants to remain friends, but he's so cruel. he didnt even acknowledge my birthday today and i'm round at our 2nd home (because i need space), he only called me at 4 today to briefly say happy birthday. later he called to ask if he should come around, besides that, even though all my family is in za, he didnt bother to even bring me a card... he is abusive at times too, he says his family is estranged from him, but he forgets his only family member who bothers to contact him, he forgot her b/day too. i had to remind him twice!!! i dont care for fancy things, just wanted to be near someone who cares...is that too much to ask for.

2006-08-21 09:59:51 · 42 answers · asked by Wisdom 4

2006-08-21 09:57:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

When is it clear that you are having waaay too many arguments, and things aren't going to work themseves out???

Please help! This is a real life issue!!

2006-08-21 09:51:16 · 28 answers · asked by Alexx 2

Has anyone been relegated to a life of (if sexual pleasure is desired) masturbation, being tied to a spouse who has either lost interested in sex or lost interested in being married? The only other answer is to cheat, which is not acceptable to me due to my beliefs. Can anyone chime in? Has anyone adopted a mindset or an attitude, or a routine to make this aspect of life more enjoyable?

2006-08-21 09:50:05 · 46 answers · asked by stringtie 2

I am newly divorced & so over my ex. I have been meeting men divorced 6+ years & they still have anger towards their ex-wives. Why is that?

2006-08-21 09:40:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

how u think - yr family life look like what kind of character (from 5) in that serial???

2006-08-21 09:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Poison 2

I hear all the time about the wants and needs of my fiance. He wants this particular car, he wants this particular job, he wants to build a particular house and have his mother eventually live in the extra bedroom. I know exactly what he likes to eat...and how he likes to spend his days....and what he wants to do on the weekends..

How in the world do I get him to start asking and listening to what I need and want in this world?

2006-08-21 09:30:22 · 10 answers · asked by kishoti 5

i'vebeen think lately that i don't want to have kids for my husband when i do get married i want to have a sperm donor and then tell him all the kids is his own am doing this because i might not like how he looks or should my sprem donor be one of my sex friends who am planning on still seeing if i get married so what do you guys think i should do? thank for your answers

2006-08-21 09:21:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that is separated and is still living with her ex husband. they are "best" of friends. they date other people and stuff. it just drives me crazy that they are still living together and have no plans of getting divorce... should i say something or just keep my mouth shut.

2006-08-21 09:19:39 · 29 answers · asked by jalalyne 1

It's been over a year since he's seen his child, he does not know where she's at, and every attorney he's talked to wants at least $3,000 just to get started. He pays his support and is a great daddy..his ex, on the other hand, is psycho. Help!

2006-08-21 09:13:58 · 18 answers · asked by Karley 1

2006-08-21 09:11:52 · 53 answers · asked by superfireman26 1

My husband was playing around with me and was all over me. He walked up to me in the kitchen kissing me like crazy grabbing my butt, dancing with me, and throwing rubber bangs across the room, he chased me up to the bedroom and pushed me on the bed. And again acted so desperate. I said to him "Your totally obivous aren't you, you just want to have sex." (I said it a couple of times) he got up and said fine forget it and walked away. I asked him why and he said that when I say that it makes him feel like he's DOING SOMETHING WRONG (because its not the first time he's heard that from me.) Why does he feel like he's doing something wrong when i say this? (unless he just wants sex in his mind).

2006-08-21 09:09:33 · 33 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

2006-08-21 09:07:30 · 13 answers · asked by raj 1

When it comes to a tanning bed? I hate tanning oil, sweat is fine. We bought one, but I really can't fit into it. I'm 6'5" so it's basically a waste for me. Do you ever pretend to really want something just because your significant other really wants it?

2006-08-21 09:03:48 · 17 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-21 08:58:27 · 31 answers · asked by Freya T 2

2006-08-21 08:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by opjames 4

So many people on here are unhappily married, looking to cheat, wondering if they should stay or go...it's really sad. Good to hear from some happy people, makes us all realize it's possible.

2006-08-21 08:54:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my Boyfriends cousin, when he got married, didnt ask my boyfriend to be in their wedding ( mind we all 4 used to be inseperatable) the wife asked me to be a bridesmaid and i was-
later she told me that the reason the cousin didnt ask my boyfreind was because they werent close anymore ( we had move only the year before 6 hours away) we still hang out with them, and they come and visit us, do you think i should do the same to them? not have my boyfriends cousin in the wedding ?

2006-08-21 08:50:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-21 08:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by shay80800 2