I have a friend that is separated and is still living with her ex husband. they are "best" of friends. they date other people and stuff. it just drives me crazy that they are still living together and have no plans of getting divorce... should i say something or just keep my mouth shut.
2006-08-21 09:19:39 · 29 answers · asked by jalalyne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your girlfriend seems okay with it. So, why is it driving you crazy? If you are interested in her, then yes, you should say something. Otherwise, live and let live.
2006-08-21 09:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have a relationship with your friend keep your mouth shut unless you say the comment maybe when in general conversation I don't know how you can live with your ex-husband I know I would not be able to I would have to get my own place and if I could not afford to live on my own I would have to get a roommate but that's just me. If you tell her that she should not live with him she might be like well forget you. I think to me it would be way more of a concern if they shared the same bed even though they are dating other people and it would be even more deranged if the people they were dating didn't care that they were still married and living together sleeping in the same bed but that's just my opinion.
2006-08-21 09:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are still living together, it's going to be hard to get that divorce. Obviously they have an open relationship that they are not telling you about. It's there business and if they are happy with it and the other people are happy leave them alone. Yeah they are crazy but what can you do about it.
2006-08-21 09:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is driving you crazy, maybe it's because you want her ex husband and can't stand her living in the same house with him afraid that he might bang her. I think that is none of your business so keep your mouth shut and worry about your relationships.
2006-08-21 09:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who still lives with their ex and they've been doing it for years now. They have 4 kids and they are friends too. It seems to work out for everybody. They go to their kids games together but everyone knows they are divorced. As long as they're happy , just leave them alone.
2006-08-21 09:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.. its none of ur business.. if its something they have decided to do and they are happy with the living arrangements then WHY IS IT BOTHERING U.. unless.. u have an alternate motive???? hummmmmmmm want to get with the x husband??? is that why its driving u crazy??? lol..
2006-08-21 09:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's happy and he's happy then there's really nothing you can or should do about it. I would say keep your mouth shut because there seems to be no problems with their living arrangement according to what you have said
2006-08-21 09:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should say something to your friend, like for instance, why is she still living with an ex? Are there benefits involved? It just seems like they are both playing games.
2006-08-21 09:26:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like her situation, either. Not only are they living a lie to each other, they are being disrespectful to the people whom they are involved with. All this can turn into is a bad triangle of events. One of them needs to move out. If you don't feel like you should tell her, then can you talk with her family about it?
2006-08-21 09:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems really wierd that something like this to happen but it's really common, and if ur friend doesn't mind well let them be, if it bothers u, just don;t go to the places her husbands @ :>
2006-08-21 09:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by EaSt OaKlanD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋