I have known my girlfriend for 6 months and been going out with her for 2 months. She did an university project with her previous boyfriend 1 year ago. Yesterday she rang her ex-boyfriend to get details of this project. She did not actaully speak to him. Put the phone down before he answered. He walked out on her.
She told me about this. I became really upset. She has spent all of yesterday and today trying to reassure me that she feels nothing for him and that she loves me. Should I believe her?
2006-08-21 10:28:47 · 10 answers · asked by TRH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah, I think You are overreacting
2006-08-21 10:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by nady19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just go ahead and believe what she says for now .If she is playing you she will trip up in front of you.her time will be different,how she gives you affection will change.don't mention it anymore or you will look insecure as hell. If you are being the best man you can be to her and she plays you thats her loss.just remain cool about the situation.the fact that she was trying to reassure you show she cares.she had to speak to him because of some project.
2006-08-21 10:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by rasheda c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, i am seventeen years historic as good. I do not consider you will have to be involved about something she says at the same time she's asleep. In actual fact that we can't particularly manipulate what we say in our sleep. Nevertheless, in my standpoint you will have to believe her that she does love you! So, please do not be concerned!! Possibly she used to be having a dream about him previously how they use to be and she stated it in her dream and out loud as good. She appears very completely happy with you and you deserve all of the best! To reply your question, no, she does not love Matt on account that she's completely in love with you. It was handiest a dream.. Exceptional Of good fortune To You!! - Amanda.
2016-08-09 12:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. If you don't trust her this early on, what's it going to take to earn your trust? A tracking device?
If she's upfront enough to tell you something trivial like calling an ex- about something like that, then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-08-21 10:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the prject was done 1 year ago why is she wanting details on it? If she had to try and convience you that nothing is going on then she have something for him, that she is trying to hide
2006-08-21 10:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that she told you about it means she doesn't have feelings for him anymore. If she kept it a secret and you found out about it then it might be time to worry...
2006-08-21 10:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dubberino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the only reason she contacted him was the project, and she did not talk to him, and she has given you no other reasons why you should not trust her then believer her and give her a break...
2006-08-21 10:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for females to be friends with thier ex s .....they are over for a reason and i dont think you have anything to worry about. my current boyfriend works with my ex and me and my ex are still friends,,you need to trust her if she tells you she loves you and have nothing to worry about. please dont make her feel like she cant be trusted,,,,,shes over him and loves you. hon think about it if she wanted to hide the fact she needed his help on something why would she confide in you if she thought you didnt trust her????
2006-08-21 10:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-08-21 10:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by danmcree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not only do i know who your girlfriend is, but i can also read her mind, and yes, she still loves her old boyfriend.
2006-08-21 10:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Mister W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋