i'vebeen think lately that i don't want to have kids for my husband when i do get married i want to have a sperm donor and then tell him all the kids is his own am doing this because i might not like how he looks or should my sprem donor be one of my sex friends who am planning on still seeing if i get married so what do you guys think i should do? thank for your answers
2006-08-21 09:21:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's funny people can't tell when someone is asking a goofy question and answer it all serious.
2006-08-21 15:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sallie J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stranger things have occurred But people don't usually think about them first like you are doing. To think about getting married, having a sperm donor because you don't like your husband's looks, and then thinking on the other hand that you might use the sperm of one of your sex friends, is definitely a story to be told!
I honestly think that you might need to think about having children at all.
Take care of yourself and do some introspection and see what it is you want out of life and a husband.
2006-08-21 09:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why get married if you dont want to? If you were to have sperm donor and something medical came up in a few years you could be busted and cause a worse problem that Yahoo answers wont be able to help you with.
2006-08-21 09:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by pistol80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Why are u with this guy if u dont find him suitable to have children with? What does that say about u? If u are thinking about sleeping with anyone else under any circumstances u need 2 get a divorce!! or u shouldnt be married in the 1st place. Just hook up with the best friend, make it easier on this guy and ur children, otherwise its going to be hard to explain to them mommies little stay in the institution!!!
2006-08-21 09:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd be better off not getting married at all. If you don't want to have kids, or be faithfull, etc... What's the point in getting married at all? You're sure not going to love him that much because based on what I've read in your question, you seem more interested in being a female-player. So, why not skip marriage alltogether and be a player?
2006-08-21 09:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is probably a great idea if you want to be featured on the Jerry Springer show, but otherwise it is really low and pretty dispicable. Why marry someone you are planning to hurt and lie to right from the start. I hope this is your idea of a funny question, cos if it isn't you need therapy. In fact, even if you DO think it's funny, you need therapy.
2006-08-21 09:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
save yourself the sperm donor trouble and don't get married until you find the guy you want to have kids with.
2006-08-21 09:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love the only thing i suggest is that you truly sit and think this over because this will not only affect you it will also play a mjor role in the lives of the kids as well. now if that is what makes you happy so be it but please consider the children. we do not need anymore kids having mental side effects from what you plan to do...so if you wanna talk more about it message me on yim dick_tastic_70502............
2006-08-21 09:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by mr d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? If you love your soon to be husband then you should want to have children with him. Otherwise don't marry him. You can not base a marriage on a lie.
2006-08-21 09:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't marry someone you don't want to have kids with and I think you should check yourself in to some serious therapy QUICK!
2006-08-21 09:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋