Marriage & Divorce - 21 August 2006

always hiding his assests in his new wifes name. and never leaving a paper trail. now that im this old i assume he thinks its ok as he is getting things put back in his name such as property, vehicles etc. if some one can please help me with a lead id b greatful ...thanks

2006-08-21 07:18:28 · 23 answers · asked by james j 1

We have been together 2 years and share a child together. We have had a really bad relationship the entire time, and I finally want to call it quits. He doesn't want me to move out and go to a shelter, or move back to the state I used to live in, he wants me to save up money, and live in the same county, so we can share custody. I agree. But this morning he tried to have sex with me, but I just pretended to be asleep. I never want to have sex with him again. I am hurt too bad, from all our past. How do I tell him this?

2006-08-21 07:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-21 07:14:34 · 10 answers · asked by Jay 1

2006-08-21 07:11:25 · 2 answers · asked by Tbaby 1

2006-08-21 07:03:36 · 5 answers · asked by whudda 1

i'm board,i need some fun!but i do love him!And i dont what to leave him. help!!!!!!!!!!!! I like to party and he no longer likes to party.before we married he went out with his friends to clubs.and drank like a fish!!! KNOW he wont even trie to show me a good time.if i go out with the girls he gets mad!WHAT DO I DO?

2006-08-21 07:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by ladyindia2005 2

My husband and I have only been married a month and a half. We have sex like twice a week. No forplay and I never get the big O. We've been together close to two years. He's given me oral about 10 times. It always blows my mind. We've talked about what we like and dislike. He's a selfish lover. I quit doing things for him sexually, because he doesn't for me. I've lost 35 pounds since we have been together. He says he's use to small women. Why did he marry me then. We argue all the time. I feel like giving up. Men ask me out all of the time. I've never had a problem getting, keeping or pleasing a man. He talks down to me all of the time, but says he's just playing and I shouldn't be so week. He use to be in to porn all the time. Then he would used the porn and not me. He tells me if he ever cheated on me I'd never know. He stays home except for work. He just makes me feel like I'm nothing. I'm frustrated and feel neglected. I don't want to cheat. What do I do?

2006-08-21 07:01:07 · 24 answers · asked by Amelia 2

He has become so lazy and unattractive. I'm 33 and he is 47. His mannerism is gross, and no matter how many hints I drop; he doesn't seem to care. Everyone thinks my 18 yr old son is my spouse and my 15 yr old daughter is my sister. I guess I still look pretty good and I weigh only 130 lbs and I'm 5'5. I really want to get out and go to places!!!
-- But not only for health reasons do I suggest he quit the beer and junk food and start exercising, he has a terrible haircut too. He's taking cholesterol pills, and highblood presurre meds as well. I'm like what is wrong with you? And to top it off----
He really embarrasses me! I don't want to hurt his feelings, but he really looks nasty. And his manners have become intolerable. (It's such a turn off!) I just hate having to introduce him as my spouse. My kids are also embarrased by him. And they only want me to take them places. I feel like he's also my dad in a way, but the biggest downfall is that I think he doesn't care. What do I do?

2006-08-21 06:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by MuiBella 1

I would like to get engaged now and be married in a year. I have 2 years left of school. The plan has been to wait until I'm done. But I would get more financial aid if I was married so that is a good thing. We have been living together for the past 9 months and have been dating for 2 years. We know we are going to get married, but my family won't accept it until I finish my schooling. I don't understand why. We love eachother very much and would love to start our lives together soon. I don't want to wait for 2+ years.

2006-08-21 06:58:11 · 7 answers · asked by College girl 2

he wants to marry in 3-5 years
i want to marry in 1-3 years

how do I get him to marry me sooner?

2006-08-21 06:57:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been 3 mths now that I've found out he had slept with another woman b4 he met me (2 yrs b4). My husband was my 1st & we've been together 18 yrs (13 yrs married). He had kept this secret because he said he didn't want 2 see me get hurt. Now that I know, it really hurts & I can't stop thinking about it. I've been asking him many ?s about the past and so far, he has been very cooperative, understanding, & very patient. He said he told me everything & they are the truth. His experience with her was not meaningful & ours were. Is this normal from someone like me? I mean, to feel like this, that is, it's very bothersome to find out a spouse's secret after all these yrs. I couldn't pass a day w/out asking him a ? or 2 about his past. Why is it that I can't get over it yet? Which is it that hurts the most? That he'd slept w/ another woman b4 or just finding out recently about his past after all these yrs? I just felt like I didn't know him for the last 18 yrs.

2006-08-21 06:57:41 · 10 answers · asked by no clue 2

My husband's daughter was conceived from a one night stand, but, he has always supported her financially and every way a father needs to be. He has had court ordered support in effect since she was just one year old. When it was established daycare costs and medical care premiums were very expensive for his daughter's mother; support was set high to cover all costs.Two years later (2003) she went to preschool and cut out daycare costs completely, dropped her medical care for state funded medicaid, and moved in with her mother so she wouldnt have to pay rent or utilities anymore. My husband moves from employer to employer as a chef from time to time to find the right fit, and it takes the system a few months to begin deducting support from his paychecks so some of his payments are now behind. He does not deny the need to take care of his child to his best ability, we always buy her new clothes, shoes and other needs. We have her with us half of the time. The problem is with this money

2006-08-21 06:49:04 · 6 answers · asked by ckinc 2

I've been with my fiance for the past two years and I love him dearly. We're set to get married in December and we're trying to start a baby thereafter. Right now, we're living seperately due to work situations. He travels alot, leaving me a bit lonely. Anyway, when I'm not with him, I miss him and know that we'll be ok, but has anyone ever gone through that phase where the newness wares off a bit? If so, how'd you get it back? I want to get butterflies everytime he calls....any ideas??

2006-08-21 06:47:54 · 15 answers · asked by politicalsruh 1

You get married for social reasons and you discover that life is sweet together and that, even if love was not the real motivation for this union, this is what you feel now... Do you believe it is possible that it turns into a real love story? Have you heard of a similar experience? If yes, please let me know...

2006-08-21 06:44:21 · 10 answers · asked by Flofy 4

I've been married for almost seven years with two children. I am currently working away from home and my buddy took me to a strip club. He saw that I didn't look to be having as much fun as he was, so he bought me a lap dance. I went along thinking it may be amusing. What I'm still reeling from is how wonder full it was. Not so much the woman (though I have to admit eastern European women are hot) , but the attention that she gave me; the soft touches the gentle caresses. I realized that this attention is something I haven't had from my wife in many years. Our marriage has not been good in years. I still love her, but I don't think I'm in love with her anymore. I don't want to leave her because of the children. The first thing most of you are going to say is to communicate with her. Well that has been done many of times in the past about our non existent sex life and still no resolve there. Any advice???

2006-08-21 06:42:06 · 18 answers · asked by Dave 1

2006-08-21 06:39:43 · 15 answers · asked by Tanya G 2

im trying to get a seperation with my husband and he dosent know abouti t because im afraid he will try to hurt me or himself and i wanna do the right thing but legally

2006-08-21 06:37:42 · 9 answers · asked by danielle 1

she has asked me for divorce, she has had two affairs with 2 different married men in the past 3 months. Now she has filed for divorce. I don't want a divorce. What can I do? Neither of the married men are willing to leave their wives and kids. We have no kids. I just love her.

2006-08-21 06:32:21 · 60 answers · asked by Jim H 1

A friend of mine had her ex tell her via instant messaging that he wanted a divorce. How did your ex tell you, or how did you tell him?

2006-08-21 06:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated my husband for 3 years and nine months and it was a joyous time, my realtive is getting married later in life in age and she is so thrilled and in love and so is he.

But now I am married almost 13 years and it is commonplace, we agrue, I get irritated at him he gets irrated at me, it seems like even though we have a good marraige it is not a honeymoon anymore we have been married a long time.

Sometimes the intamcay love etc "wears off" but we do have a very strong friendship. How does one keep the devotion going?

2006-08-21 06:22:18 · 8 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

Remember in "Sleepless In Seattle" when they both said "magic" as they were each describing their true love?
So what is "magic" for you?

2006-08-21 06:21:56 · 15 answers · asked by Isis 7

I have two children a 16month old and 11 yr old girls. He pretty much left us high and dry!!! I have been trying to move on with my life with my kids who he hardly sees. He went out and bought himself a mecadise and suv bmw when he doesnt even take the kids anywhere. He called me today when he is suppose to be working, and started giving me sh....t about everything. He says he calling to talk to my daughter but ends up trying to argure with me... I recently just went and had my deveated septum fixed, and a few other things done... For myself.. He found out cause I did not tell him... He harrasses me with absoultely absurd questions.. Calls me all sorts of things.. Telling me all the girls love him for his money and more...Is he trying to knock me back down. Why would any one tell someone that stuff. He asks me if I have a boyfriend and so on. Than proceeds to say if you dont you should have one.... Hes driving me nuts...He going to be forty and Iam youger than he is. What to do.

2006-08-21 06:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by carol s 1

They are really cool, it's enjoyable to talk to them while I'm gardening with my wife. My wife and I both get along with them well. Do you ever hang out with neighbors as a couple?

2006-08-21 06:13:55 · 14 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-21 06:01:50 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married almost 5 years
Happily in love
Girl is a friend of his.

I have had discussion with him about her crush and set limits with him, which he says he is okay with, but I am not so sure.

I have even gone places with them both.

2006-08-21 05:58:38 · 20 answers · asked by silly 1

I feel that because of heart breakon by they ted to hate all their life.
why?

2006-08-21 05:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband keeps on insisting on me staying home and having sex wit him...Help!!!

2006-08-21 05:54:05 · 23 answers · asked by princessboo 1

I STILL LOV HER SO WHY DO I THINK ABOUT MESSING AROUND ON HER ? IS IT TO HURT HER ?I TRULY THINK shes loves me more now then b4 .it would b so easy to give her her payback.

2006-08-21 05:53:21 · 22 answers · asked by JOHN B 1

He wants to sell the house and I don't want to uproot my children and move. I had heard that he has to provide us with a place to live or at least pay half of the house payment in addition to his child support that he will have to pay.

2006-08-21 05:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by Luv my boys 1

I am looking for a woman who would be my PT lover and confidont.
What is the best way of finding someone?

2006-08-21 05:52:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous