he wants to marry in 3-5 years
i want to marry in 1-3 years
how do I get him to marry me sooner?
2006-08-21 06:57:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Him 3-5 you 1-3... that solves it marry in 3 years.
2006-08-21 07:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why the rush? If you love him and he loves you then there should be no rush. Enjoy the time. Don't stress about what the date will be to get married. Life is to short. Enjoy eachother's time. When the time is right to get married you will both feel it. Also you can meet in the middle. You said 1-3 years and he says 3-5 years. You can meet at 3 years.... Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-21 07:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-3 3-5 Looks like 3 should work
2006-08-21 07:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by chattykatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm 1 to 3 years? and he thinks 3-5 years, so at least you are agreed about the 3...but you want it sooner...the thing is my lovely , when you love someone you engage then marry as soon as you can you dont put dates on it so far away that its a fantasy. i suggest neither of you are prepared to give eachother a commitment when it matters which is NOW , so dump eachother because whatever you think of this answer you werent meant to be with eachother.
2006-08-21 07:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you should not try to force him to get marry sooner. Find out his reason for waiting so long and try to work with that. However, if you still feel you want to rush headlong into this thing without reasonable thought, I am available and ready to go now.
2006-08-21 07:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. Plain and simple. Why would you want to essentially force or manipulate someone to marry before they are ready? You want to marry him 1-3 yrs, whats going to change if you wait 5 yrs?
2006-08-21 08:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Stewiesgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a divorce
this is 2nd
i am very happy for both just be sure its what you want and that you make each other happy whether you marry in 10 years or 10 months
on getting him to marry sooner he has to be totally ready too!!!
2006-08-21 07:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by tiggermouse73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so get married in 3 years...that is the latest for you and earliest for him so it works for both of you...last thing you want to do is force him into marriage before he's ready...if you both want to get married, you have to meet in the middle, which is what seems like is 3 years...good luck
2006-08-21 07:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by pineappleclock2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why so long either way? Get married NOW - don't wait 5 years!
2006-08-21 07:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you nag him he won't marry you at all. He will move on to someone who is happy to be with him and does not need a piece of paper within a time frame to be happy.
2006-08-21 07:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋