I am married and want to find a lover. What is the best way to go about finding someone who is willing?

Question

I am looking for a woman who would be my PT lover and confidont.
What is the best way of finding someone?

Answer 1

Ok if you have consulted with your wife and she is wanting to/ok with this then I would recomend Finding sex chat rooms. My husband and I used one a while back when we were looking for a partner but I dont remember the site. I think he just did a google search. The one we used also let you go to chats that were near you.
Other than that, if your wife is unaware, tell her, not matter how bad you think she will take it. In the long run it will save you trouble and maybe if she knows that you have lost interest and are looking she will do what needs to be done to keep your attention.
But you defenitly dont want to end up the divorcing the Next Lereina Bobbit.

Answer 2

Look at the woman that sleeps next to you every night. Your wife should be your lover and confident. If you are going to have PT lover, why be married.

Answer 3

GET A DIVORCE.....
Wither you are male or female, it is wrong.
The person you are married to is suppose to be your lover and confidaunt not a third person.
Cheating is cheating no matter how you try to convince yourself that what you are looking to do is the right thing to do.
No person deserves to be cheated on.
If you are married you need to confide in your partner and deal with the issues the two of you have.
I would wish you luck but I can't condone someone wanting to cheat.

Answer 4

Bars, lounges, even on the steps of your local Family Court house where spouses descend after another stressful day of a breakup. And also methadon clinics are visited by ladies with manly needs (especially one with a little cash), so that's good place, and the downtown area - all cities seem to have a special area that is frequented by women looking for part time relationships.

Answer 5

Why would you want to cheat on your wife? Anyway here is the answer. Usually the only time a woman doesn't mind sharing her man is when she either has another man her self, she is insecure or you have a lot of money. So if your Rich and charming and willing to GIVE you should have a mistress in no time! LOSER!!

Answer 6

your playing a very dangerous game with your life and that of this two woman there is so much stds today like we all feel get a divorse first and than play all your nasty games if you have that little respect for your self and your wife why put her life at risks no matter what you think woman are not willing to share for a very long time mo matter what she may say to get you sooner or later its coming down to you making a choice

Answer 7

Start with people you know.

Ask all your wife's friends if they are interested. If they turn you down, ask your wife's family. Maybe she has a willing sister or cousin. Maybe her dad knows someone you can hook up with.

You could try your neighbors, co-workers, or even her co-workers. If you have kids, you could hit on the other moms at your kid's school.

Shouldn't be long before everyone gets to know the real you.

Answer 8

I think your asking for trouble. You can't seem to get the woman you married to make you happy, now you want to disappoint another woman. I hope she finds you out and divorces you and leaves you with nothing but your inflated ego.

Answer 9

Roll over and try the person you said your wedding vows to. The grass is not greener on the other side. Make better what you already have instead of looking elsewhere.

Answer 10

1st you have to ask yourself why you need one when you ARE MARRIED. But if you still want one just remember, your an a$$ to your wife and betraying her, cheating on her and treating her like crap. If you are good with that then just get a divorce.