My husband keeps on insisting on me staying home and having sex wit him...Help!!!
2006-08-21 05:54:05 · 23 answers · asked by princessboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like everyone else is saying, this won't last forever, so enjoy it as much as you can.
That being said, marriage does not equal sex whenever he wants it, remember that you can say no whenever you want... If he starts pouting, remind him of how good it will be next time.
2006-08-21 06:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason you don't want to stay home and have sex w/him? You are newly married and that's supposed to be a wonderful thing at this point and time. If the spark isn't there now, what do you think the future will be like for the two of you? Be happy that he want you and is not out getting it from someone else. Talk to him, and let him know that you would like sometime for yourself, and not to worry, he will get his :)
2006-08-21 06:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by littleann75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have the opposite problem I am trying to get my husband more into sex. So I would take advantage of it. But a good way to get both ways is to tell him alright tomorrow night is all you, dress up and fancy out and go the whole nine yards, but the night after if for me. Try and go the extra for him, but make sure and let him know its a give and take. You'll give something he will really like, but he's gotta give a little too.
2006-08-21 06:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it while u can. whats the harm? a few years (& kids) into ur marriage, he won't want to do it like that. so enjoy it while u can....unless u mean, stay home and not work just to have sex? i think that's kind of bogus if that's the case. u need to have ur own money-unless u are already a stay at home mom-then its great and just enjoy the sex. maybe have him spice it up to make it more interesting. do it while u r trying to prepare dinner. do on on the laundry u r trying to fold, get naked and clean the house-have him follow u around and give u some....
good luck with that.
2006-08-21 06:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need a rest sometimes, BUT don't do like my wife and just completely stop having it once you get married.
Keep it going and keep it spiced up, you don't need to do it every night or day but once or twice a week would be great, for me anyways.
I've been married almost 13 years and now it is like once a month sometimes longer.
2006-08-21 10:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dug W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want it you better start speaking up now. Marriage usually last a while. Your whole life. If you want it do it if you don't say you don't. Just cause he is your husband doesn't mean you always have to say yes.
2006-08-21 06:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he bought the cow, now he wants the milk. Sounds reasonable.
2006-08-21 06:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't want to have sex with the hubby now.
2006-08-21 06:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky to have a husband like this, my husband mastrubated on our wedding night
2006-08-21 06:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem...do you have a job? Does he have a job?Who makes more money?
2006-08-21 06:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋