2006-08-21 09:11:52 · 53 answers · asked by superfireman26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless she is unhappy in the marriage or is planning on divorce then you can only be with her part-time when she wants to see you.
Question is would you be happy to be in that kind of relationship? If yes then go for it if no then better find someone else or you will just get hurt.
2006-08-21 09:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't she's married. Do you really want to be that person? And even if you do why would you want to be with someone who is willing to do that while they are married? That is a serious indication of some big character flaws and you would eventually end up being on the crappy end of those. Move on and find someone else, surely there are available women around that you find attractive and if there is not maybe you need to look at yourself and figure out if perhaps the fact that she isn't available is what you really find attractive about her. No risk in that is there? Its a pretty safe thing to decide you are in to a woman that can't possibly be with you.
2006-08-21 09:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you can't be with her. Go out and find someone who is available to you. Don't be the one to break up a marriage. If the marriage ends and she comes to you then your in luck. But you definately don't want to be 'the other man'....find a g/f and get your mind off the married one and you will be a lot happier. Good Luck
2006-08-21 09:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, trust me, you don't want to try to get between a married couple. The husband will surely hurt YOU !! Marriage is also an investment between two people. Not just love, romance and tenderness but also TIME & MONEY! DON'T TRY IT. They are a family
2006-08-21 09:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by shanna40dd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! Being with a married woman is just asking for trouble. Nothing good can come from it. Even if she leaves her husband to be with you, be sure that she will do the same to you when something better comes along.
2006-08-21 09:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by taniaderina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you just answer your own question?
You can't be with her because she's married. Either she gets a divorce, or you leave her alone.
Messing around with married people is NOT a good idea. It always turns out poorly. How can you ever trust someone who messed around on their spouse?
2006-08-21 09:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend. If circumstances change, be ready. If you can't wait, then move on to someone else. Love and respect go hand-in-hand. You will trust each other more and your relationship with her will be stronger for it. Also, tell her how you feel. If she cares for you, she will be honest with you, and let you know how it must be. Have faith. Things will work out for the best for each of you, even if you are not together now.
2006-08-21 09:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend and leave it at that. If you are meant to be together circumstances will change to make it possible. Changing the situation yourself will leave a lot of wreckage and prevent real happiness. You can never be happy in life if you do it at the expense of another person...and let's not forget she made a lifetime commitment to someone. Respect that and good luck.
2006-08-21 09:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no help for you. She is married and you didn't say that you love her. So obviously you just want to have sex. Forget it, she's married. Get someone else.
2006-08-21 09:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on buddy. There are other women out there who's perfect for you. She's married, so wish her all the happiness in the world and hope that her man will take good care of her and love her the way you do. =)
2006-08-21 09:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋