My wife is living with me (on and off). I need her to move out because I can not afford all the bills alone.She comes and goes as she pleases but no longer pitches in for our monthly bills. Our home is leased and the home owner has put the new lease in my name only to try and help me in my situation.
2006-08-21 17:19:28 · 33 answers · asked by ttwc1soonerfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-22 05:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try filing for abandonment.
The first thing I would do is remove everything that belongs to her or she thinks belongs to her from your home. Then I would change the locks on all of the doors. Change your phone numbers. Stop accepting mail at the house and get a P.O.Box for an address. If that doesn't work I would plan on moving when the lease is up.
Also don't leave any food in the house or at most very little so she has to go out to eat. Remove the light bulbs from their sockets and use only minimal lighting. Turn the heat off to the water heater and only turn it on a couple of hours before you need it. Make the home inhospitable to her company.
2006-08-29 09:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by BP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is using you for your financial stability. She knows that she can do as she pleases and you are not going to do anything about it.
You are going to continue to pay the bills while she runs around and does not help out.
You need to contact an attorney and have him file legal separation papers. And talk to him about what you can do to get her out of the house.
I believe that after you file for the legal separation, and since her name is not on the lease, that you should be able to go down and do a legal eviction on her.
That will probably be the only way to make her move without her doing it on her own.
Because even though she is not on the lease it is still her residence since she has been living there while yall are married.
But talk to an attorney to find out exactly what you have to do in order for it to be legal.
Good luck and I wish you the best.
2006-08-28 14:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A divorce is very last and also you're loose to marry others. All resources is split on the instantaneous. circumstances for separate upkeep, alimony and baby help are legally binding. A felony separation is the preamble for a divorce. The couple isn't residing at the same time, yet enables room for the couple to reunite. till the divorce is processed, lower than a felony separation you're literally not loose to marry back till a divorce is finalized. basically as a lot artwork is going right into a felony separation, yet a felony separation does no longer sever the relationship thoroughly.
2016-11-26 22:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A legal separation will help you with the bills, therefore you will no longer be obligated by law to pay bills which she acquires after the legal separation, however I would suggest that you move out to a new location. Look into pre-paid legal it is $35.00 pr month they can help, and once you get strong legal advise, then you can drop them if you want.
2006-08-25 18:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Happy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her to stay?If you don't have any kids then I think you should definitely get a separation if she is not wanting a relationship but wants a "flop-house". I wouldn't tolerate it. If you have kids then I wouldn't kick her out...instead try to talk to her about marriage counseling and see where it goes from there. If you want a roomate ask her to foot some of the bills, kinda like renting a room out to her.
2006-08-21 17:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you allowing your wife to be a drop in /drop out wife? She should be paying 1/2 of all the bills. Charge her rent. You can advertise for a roommate...and do a lot better.
You and your wife probably need to divorce. If your wife is coming and going as she pleases....she is obviously cheating too.
Save yourself $$$ and anguish...and call it quits. Get a roommate that pays their share.
2006-08-27 23:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, change the locks and don't let her in. Then contact a lawyer. In many states the legal separation begins when you start the divorce process and you are both living in separate homes.
2006-08-21 17:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly, if your separated, then out she goes, no in-out privillages
secondly, if she wants those then she must pay ,
thirdly, change the lock on the door and that will stop the in-outs
finally move on and find a new mate to be with and help pay for half of those bills
2006-08-29 10:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult Legal adviser
2006-08-28 01:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Shahid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋