i am 29 yrs, i was married 30 months ago. we were living a happy life. my wife was working as chemist in a company. i am working in a school as librarian. but due to some problems with my wife left me also i later discovered that she was ringing her home daily from her office to her parents. one day i also felt there was some thing wrong i recorded one of her relative phone call and i discovered that she was betraying me although i told that i will not tell any one please cooperate with me. she also promised but one day her father came to take her & she told her father that she don't want to stay with me
2006-08-21 18:00:18 · 23 answers · asked by vivek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get over it quickly and start a life fresh
2006-08-21 18:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are feeling unhappy, in time, if you allow it to, this will pass. I am a little shocked that you say that you recorded her telephone call, this is really bad, however it gives an insight into the way your emotions are functioning at the moment. To do such a terrible thing indicates that you didn't trust your wife and it's impossible to remain in any relationship without trust, if you did you would end up a nervous wreck and never be able to relax. I think you need to take stock of your life and try to be positive, make yourself mentally strong again and in time you will meet new, loyal friends and hopefully a trustworthy lady ( there are lots of us out there ! ). Good luck.
2006-08-21 18:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what your question is. Are you wanting to know if your wife left you? I think you must have figured that out already, am sorry for you, for your marriage. It is always sad to me when things like this happen. I will keep you in my prayers, may you be able to move on and have a new beginning. You deserve better than this! This is no way to be treated in a relationship or marriage.........take care of yourself! Get out, be with friends, talk to others, get out your thoughts as best you can, and mourn the loss. No matter what she did or didn't do or you said, or found, it seems to me, it is over and you want to deal with this and be able to move on, in your time. Time will help to heal wounds, believe me. Best of everything to you and here's to your future! Learn from this and grow, change and move forward!!!
2006-08-21 18:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna run through this situation but the best thing to do is to leave her alone ,I can feel how much you love her cause I've been through this once, but to tell you the truth Time will heal all your pain, and believe me when a woman decides to leave nothing will stop her , start a new life try not to think of her specially happy memories , find your self a time killer , soon she'll
become a good memory.
2006-08-21 18:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by sorinam_att 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not easy and never is my ex left me after 11 years for another man and at the time I felt like I was nothing but. Take it from me what ever you do dont start trying to call her or trying to contact her in any way. If she left it was fro a reason let her clear her head first. give it a few days.
2006-08-21 18:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jack H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotto move on in life, dude. If you are so sure tht she was not honest with you and you still want to stay with her then i think you are weak. There is no sense dragging such kind of relationship. It's give and take, friend. Get over it. Get a life.......you are just 29. This is only the start of your life. Its a jungle outside. survival of the fittest. Not phisically but emotionally. you gotto be strong emotionally. " Tu nahi, koi aur sahi. Woh nahi, koi aur sahi".
2006-08-21 19:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There ends the matter.
Whatever may be the problem between you and her self.
She is not reliable.
She may be having affair with somebody in your absence.
Most of the women are very secretive or more demanding, because they are very selfish and wants to lead an illusory life.
2006-08-24 07:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, good, she left, now you can stop crying like a little baby and be a man and move on with your life, who cares where she worked and where you worked and which one of her parrents she called, but seeing as how you were recording her conversations then she probably left because you were too controlling or something like that
2006-08-21 18:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she leave you. what problems? what type of betrayal did she do?. what was said in the phone call?. what type of cooperation were you asking and from whom? why did the father take her? And why did she go with the father?. answer these questions yourself and you will know the answer.
2006-08-21 18:13:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow your so lucky, I offered her father $10,000.00 to take her back, he never even returned the phone call
2006-08-21 18:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋